I don't understand why they can't take care the baby by themselves, each family has their own matters need to take care...if nothing special, they should make a very good planning before the baby come out or even when they have plan to have a baby....it's not someone else responsibility to help them, nothing wrong if you don't assist them as you have to work and no helper and you should have your own time for yourself and your own family. They cannot complain to anybody for not helping them. They are parent now, they should have well plan from now on.....