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發表於 04-9-21 11:37 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

個醫生話唔好咁快有bb呀，但我個醫生話隨時有都得播，不過我10月15去覆詮，到時看醫生點講啦。

kyocera 寫道:
幸運兒lam
我做完手術一個月d m 就來, 不過醫生話遲小小都冇問題,你唔使驚.

各位
我昨日去睇醫生檢查過子宮,醫生話好好,叫我唔使擔心,不過佢叫我今年唔好有bb住,過左今年先好有,我都冇諗住咁快,過多半年先諗,我諗住半年後做一次詳細檢查,如果冇問題再黎過.你地做完手術幾耐先同老公make love呀.

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BK Milk勳章

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發表於 04-9-21 11:40 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

我果時係要全身麻醉，入到手術房打完針，跟住醒番就話做左，所以唔使太擔心，我都打算返工後看中醫調理下，但我無看開中醫都唔知點叫好。
我初時都係晚晚訓唔著，不過時間一耐左就會好d嫁啦，小產都係個胎有問題，唔關孕婦事，唔好想太多。

sallysally 寫道:
Dear all,

I'm in the same situation of you. I cry everyday and can't sleep at night.

Could you tell me how long does the operation of 刮宮 take? Do you feel any pain? I'm scared!

Is the operation doing under 全身麻醉 in gov't hospital? Is there any student doctor inside the operation room?

Anyone can recommend Chinese doctors to me?

Thanks a lot!

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sallysally

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發表於 04-9-21 11:53 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

Thanks diana,
Did you do the operation in gov't hospital? Did it require few hours for the operation?
I have nightmare nearly every night,all about miscarriage. I hope I can forget it as u said. Thanks again!

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BK Milk勳章

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發表於 04-9-21 12:03 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

個手術10-20分鐘，我係政府醫院做，d醫生都好好，唔使太擔心，其實我都係上星期四先做完，而家都休息緊，時一個人都會胡思亂想，不過你只要想到個胎係有問題，強留都唔係一件好事，不如養好身体預備下一個重好啦，我都係咁樣安慰自己

sallysally 寫道:
Thanks diana,
Did you do the operation in gov't hospital? Did it require few hours for the operation?
I have nightmare nearly every night,all about miscarriage. I hope I can forget it as u said. Thanks again!

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發表於 04-9-21 13:11 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

diana,

我嚮私家醫院做都係全身麻醉呀, 頭兩日都有血留, 但呢兩日就已經好好多, 只係少少血水, 好似 m 尾咁, 不過下腹仲有少少陰陰痛... 我媽咪教我而家可以食豬腰豬潤焗飯, 豬潤瘦肉焗飯, 薑蛋炒飯, 黑木耳+炒過黑豆+薑+豬展煲老火湯, 至於之後食咩補, 之後先算啦, 因為我未問過人呀!!

sallysally,

Don't blame on yourself too much! It's not really your fault or your husband's fault. You haven't done anything wrong. It's just a natural elimination if the baby isn't healthy.

Have you had the operation done yet? Or you're still thinking of it? I guess you'd better to do it earlier or else it may be harmful to you if you wait any longer.

Actually the operation (D&C) is very easy & simple and won't be taking long. Probably it can be done within 30 minutes, just like taking a nap. Yes, the operation is done under 全身麻醉 and you won't feel painful during operation. I only felt a bit painful afterwards but it's still ok.

I want to visit the Chinese doctors later as well. Hopefully someone could recommend a good one to us.

Don't be scared, we're all here supporting you!!

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發表於 04-9-21 13:20 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

minnie_queen
你有無想過幾時再懷孕呀，我唔想太遲，但又驚身体未準備好，唉，唯有再懷孕先可減低我而家的失落。

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發表於 04-9-21 13:22 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

我醫生話其實正常咁黎番 3 次 m 之後, 生理上就可以隨時再懷孕, 不過有 d 人會再等耐 d 係因為心理上未能完全克服到, 所以我諗我都會等半年先, 一來平復下心情, 二來比多 d 時間自己調理好身體, 咁應該個 BB 都會強壯 d...

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kyocera

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發表於 04-9-21 14:22 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

我都想快d再有bb,我都小產左成個月,但我都係未能克服到心理個關,自己一個既時候,諗諗下都會喊,我驚再好似今次咁都唔知點好.唉.............我老公叫我唔好諗咁多,我自己都唔想,真係控制唔到,好彩有呢度,可以上來同你地"呻"下,個心都舒服d.
我諗真係要再懷孕同埋要順產生左bb出黎我先會忘記呢件事,但有時d野越想有就越難有,我係咪諗得太多呢?

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發表於 04-9-21 14:54 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

kyocera,

有時不幸既事無人想發生, 但既然都已經發生左, 亦無謂太過傷心而令自己身體唔好, 當前要做既事就係要強壯番自己, 如果阿媽身體都唔好, 咁點叫將來個 BB 都健康呢?

我都覺得好彩有呢度地方, 可以上黎同大家"呻"下, 因為畢竟就算同朋友傾, 如果佢地無呢方面經驗的話(我亦唔想佢地有呢 d 經驗), 好似對牛彈琴, 佢地亦唔會明白你感受, 最多只能安慰下你...

唔好諗得太多唔開心既事喇, 我都好相信:
"人在做, 天在看"... 凡事盡力, 問心無愧就已足夠, 如果我條命注定係有得做阿媽既, 懶理得佢係 19, 29, 39 定 49 歲做呢? 雖然 49 歲先做人阿媽就一定會吃力 d 架喇...

"命裡有時終須有, 命裡無時莫強求"...

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sallysally

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發表於 04-9-21 17:35 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

minnie_queen ,diana,
Thank you very much for your comfort! I feel better when I can share my feelings and fears here. Seems nobody understand even my hubby.

Do u think I can ask the doctor to do the operation under 半身麻醉?

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BK Milk勳章

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發表於 04-9-21 18:38 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

我都覺得好彩有這裡可以讓我呻，我知道個胎無左時我都喊到失控，到而家想起都覺得好sad，但因為我重有個女，成日都要陪個女，唔可以比個女feel到我唔開心，而我老公本身係鈍d，所以好難feel都我重係梗梗於懷，我有時夜晚訓唔著都會想喊，不過時間一耐就一定會好d，不過我都信我要再有bb先可以完全無事，所以這段時間我一定要養好身体。你地都係呀。

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發表於 04-9-21 23:32 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

sallysally,

I haven't heard of doing D&C operation under 半身麻醉... Will you ask your doctor more details about this? I think 全身麻醉 will be more comfortable...

diana,

我都係呀! 當醫生話我知個胎係壞胎, 應該盡快做手術時, 我當堂 shock 左, 連喊 3 日 3 夜, 喊到眼腫鼻腫口腫, 都係完全到左失控既地步... 不過喊過就算啦, 喊亦都改變唔到事實, 唯有養好身體再戰江湖囉!!

你都好呀, 點都叫做生左個女, 都無咩遺憾喇!! 再生多個咪當係 bonus, 難為我第一次就失敗啦...

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kyocera

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發表於 04-9-22 10:56 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

"命裡有時終須有, 命裡無時莫強求"你都講得對既,但到底我既命運係點,我自己都唔會知,如果命運安排我一定會有既,我當然好開心啦,但如果我命中注定我係冇既,我就算再有左,都一樣會小產,我試過今次己經好辛苦,我而家好少去街,係街見到d大肚產婆雖然好心up,但都會望多幾眼同自己講,如果我冇小產到我諗我都有佢個肚咁大,你地會唔會係咁架,還是我己經"shut"左呀.d時間都唔知點解過得咁慢,快d過左今年就好.

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發表於 04-9-22 13:07 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

有呀,我成日都想如果無小產, 我個仔現在已1歲了.見到人地大肚, 好唔開心

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發表於 04-9-22 13:34 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

kyocera 寫道:
"命裡有時終須有, 命裡無時莫強求"你都講得對既,但到底我既命運係點,我自己都唔會知,如果命運安排我一定會有既,我當然好開心啦,但如果我命中注定我係冇既,我就算再有左,都一樣會小產,我試過今次己經好辛苦,我而家好少去街,係街見到d大肚產婆雖然好心up,但都會望多幾眼同自己講,如果我冇小產到我諗我都有佢個肚咁大,你地會唔會係咁架,還是我己經"shut"左呀.d時間都唔知點解過得咁慢,快d過左今年就好.

我又係, 喺街見到D大肚婆都會望多幾眼, 望到D人推住BB車嘅又望, 又羨慕, 又心痛!

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sherry

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發表於 04-9-22 14:07 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

我都相信這句說話"命裡有時終須有, 命裡無時莫強求"，
其實我試過四次自然懷孕，只有一次成功，每次小產都好難過，在街上見到同齡的小孩都會想到失去的BB，現在決定唔再生，反而一身輕鬆，盡心盡力教養我的兒子。

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發表於 04-9-22 14:58 |只看該作者

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大家唔好咁灰啦! 我知... 因為我都係咁... 喺街見到D大肚婆又係會望多幾眼, 望到D人推住 BB 車又會望下個 BB 得唔得意... 嗰剎那真係幾心up同羨慕人地架, 不過我地要對自己有信心, 希望在人間...

kyocera,

我地唔係先知, 無人可以預知未來, 但無論將來有 BB 又好, 無 BB 都好, 做人仲有好多野可以做... BB 只不過係人生既一部份, 並唔係全部, 做人要活得有幾精彩, 都係要靠自己!! 總之大家一齊努力 d 啦!

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BK Milk勳章

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發表於 04-9-22 14:59 |只看該作者

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我其實都好怕下次又係一樣，因為太多例子告訴我，要生下一個健康的bb不是必然，好似真係看彩數，不過我實在太想要多個我同我老公的結晶品，所以我都會試多次，可能幾個月後啦。

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發表於 04-9-22 15:05 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

sherry,

你好叻呀! 勇敢面對困難... 我覺得你個仔一定好聽你話...

之前一個星期, 我仲未做手術, 當時我都好傷心, 不過而家反而學會放得低...

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