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淑筠媽咪

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Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

一定要搵第三者做人証.第三者一定係朋友,唔可以有親戚關係既.咁佢唔走咪call police.但有錢收,又可以回家過聖誕,妳估佢走唔走呢?

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Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

paulina

你可以check下佢passport, 看到佢的原居地係邊架, 我都係甘check我個印印的原居地既, 如果佢的passport係佢手, 你借d e同佢講, 你新年放假, 想帶佢同bb返大陸玩, 要幫佢拿visa, 拿黎看看, 甘未得law.

佢不肯走, call police.

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Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

paulina,

嘻嘻, 你諗果d野同我上次抄bun bun果次都係一樣, 我一開始就好驚同佢講完之後佢唔肯走. 我仲用問過晒勞工署佢再無權留係度, 但始終都未知當bun bun聽到呢個消息之後有咩反應所以都驚左好耐. 起初仲諗住叫埋朋友上黎壯膽. :wink: :wink:

不過, 最後都係無叫, 我抄佢果日都係星期六下午, 我一返到屋企二話不說就同佢講話我唔可以再用佢啦. 起初佢都有解釋架. 講到我都有少少心軟. 但到佢知道無彎轉既時候居然第一件就打比philippines 領事館問晒我要補d咩比佢. 我就知我無做錯. :evil: :evil: :evil:

後來佢真係賴死唔走, 話無地方訓要我比佢留多一晚.

但係果晚我成家咁岩又要去飲都唔知點算好.

最後攪左好耐迫於無奈都要比佢訓多晚, 但係我就同佢講果晚唔計人工架. 同埋我所有錢都無比佢住. 等佢唔敢做d乜. 話晒佢d錢係我度. 如果我真係比左佢我諗我一出左門口我間屋所有野都無晒.

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發表於 04-12-15 16:09 |只看該作者

Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

Well, about writing the testimonial letter. When I fired my maid, I wrote the actual reasons why she was not suitable for my family, including most facts about her poor performance, attitude, output, … etc. I wrote those because I did not want her to sue me for “unreasonable dismissal”.

If you write her good or satisfactory, then why should you dismiss her?

In that morning, I told her that I did not need her service any more and asked her to pack up, of course, I was watching her. I said we'd talk in the agency. (I sent my baby to my relatives one night before, and I asked my brother-in-law to stand-by in case she got ‘mad’) We did all the documentation in the agency and I did not have to say a word. The testimonial letter was given to her after I left the agency.

That happened two years ago.

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發表於 04-12-15 16:18 |只看該作者

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my bun bun is abit tricky

I've a copy of her passport but the place of origin is different from the one she wrote down in the Employment Contract... ?-( ?-( ?-(

Since I cannot locate where is her place of origin (coz I need to buy the ticket), therefore I ask the immigration and the labour department.

The woman from labour department said my obligation is just to send her back to the place of origin stated in the Employment Contract... and therefore I do not need to take care of her domestic flight destination loh (coz none of my business!!!)

and I've just booked a single ticket to Manila (coz her place of origin stated inthe Employment contract is Q.C, Philliphinnes... ie Manila) but coz of peak season... costs $1310 which the date of flight can be changable.

Beforehand, I want her to come to my friend's office to get the ticket... BUT after asking the immd and labour... the guys said... 'better to have the ticket available coz it will shut their mouths and say you haven't provide tickets to them and so they cannot exit HK.'

Really very trouble!

BUT for me, I MUST NOT let her to sleep one more night in my home!!!!!

Paulina

吾家三隻小豬樂融融 ;-) ;-) ;-)

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發表於 04-12-15 16:44 |只看該作者

Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

If you do not want her to stay one more night, you have to let her go in the morning, or at least early afternoon. So that she has reasonable time to find a boarding house.

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Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

訂機票記得叫agent or 航空公司用自己個名出收據,因為咁樣d衰賓就唔可以拎張機票退$$自己袋, d $$只會退返比出票果個人

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Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

我初初睇到你話唔比佢放假我都鄧你工人唔抵,但睇埋原來佢咁九我就覺得抵佢死啦!我係你我都比幾千蚊抄佢好過,唔駛自己咁勞氣,命都長D呀

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Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

Paulina,

你個工人真係極品!

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發表於 04-12-16 00:32 |只看該作者

Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

我一年前炒個bun bun時，一樣煩惱咗好耐，我覺得佢係特登做一Ｄ另到你好嬲嘅嘢，然後搏你炒佢嘅，咁佢就可以唔洗做仲可以攞多一個月人工。最後我因為無時間同佢鬥智鬥力，同埋我有人質起佢手，結果我好肉痛咁用錢解決咗個問題。

我暗地裏揾咗個新工人，諗住等個新工人嚟，先同佢講炒佢，後尾都係忍無可忍，攞咗兩個星期大假，提早送個瘟神走，嗰日我联絡晒agent，叫佢準備晒Ｄ文件，我等佢做好晒屋企上午要做嘅嘢，然後我就同佢講"Lisa, pack up your stuff now, you don't need to black face anymore, as you wish, you are fried" She did not ask for a chance. She made a phone call immediately, I thought she might called her sisters (she had 3 real sisters in HK, if I knew that she got so many relatives in HK, I would not hire her

) After she hanged up the phone, she asked me to write her a recommendation letter. I told her I would give her a letter if she went to the agency with me.

After I paid all the money and air tickets to her. I told her I would not write her any recommendation letter coz I did not want her to harm any other family. I also told the agency that all her "傑作"at my home and asked the agency not to help her to find another employer to her as her working attitude and performace was really bad.

One month later, the agency told me Lisa had lodged a complaint to 菲律賓領事館that the agency should help her to find another employer as she had paid for the commission already. Of coz, I fully support the agency for 見義勇為，I wrote a 9-pages letter ；together with all the copies of warning letters and sent those to the 領事館。
我想佢知道，唔願做，咪唔好嚟hk。

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發表於 04-12-16 09:35 |只看該作者

Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

Firstly, thank you all of you for your informative advice...

This is the first time I employ a domestic helper to work in my home (coz I have a small baby)... but unluckily, 5 months later on the same date

, it also the date I dismiss her... actually I feel very upset, not coz of her bad doings... but I need to re-arrange all my household works to other people... like finding part-time maid, washing car... baby sitter... SOOOO, actually to my honest, if she is not so BADDDDD... I will wait and wait and wait till my new maid come...

Maybe some of you have read my cases... which I posted her bad doings for few times in here... and even though most of you commented I should fire her... still I wait... coz

1. I need to seek approval from all my parents and my parents in law (My bunbun queen is a very good ACTOR, she always treats my parents + parents in law very very very good so that they all trust her -- even more than their sons and daughters like me and my husband

she 100% knows how to make them happy!!!)

It's very difficult in the first place... coz maybe I've no experience at all in how to let them know... and so two weeks beforehand, my mother called me and said to me don't fire her... tell me to accept her bad doings and treat her transparent and okay loh!

My mother even said my bun bun likes my bb and my family very much, every time she and bun went to market, bun must say 'Mum likes this and this and this...'

Even worst, at one time, bun asked my mother to cook the sticky rice for her to eat!!!

and this made me extremely angry and my mother also willing to cook the dishes for her to reheat for dinner ...

(my mother said she afraid bun didn't know how to cook well woh?!)

For my father, maybe you noted my case of cleaning fridge (I asked her to clean the fridge and she said "always has the smell in it and if you don't want any smell, don't put anything in it la

!!!), the next day she cleaned the fridge BUT together with my father!@!!!!!! :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:

and for now, all of them are no comment on my plan and decision...

2. My husband... too much considerate to bun coz when I discussed with him I want to fire bun, he would say...'let it be la... otherwise she would be sad gaaaa... maybe she will become better soon !!!'... and after he heard and presented in the recent case 'Christmas Day holiday'... he also has no comment on my action.

Even yesterday night, he told me not to confront with her... just tell her to leave... + give her money and ticket...

So, by now bun has no help hand anymore... and I just need to wait for two day... (Today and Friday... then...)

New start!

Paulina

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Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

Paulina,

希望你快啲揾到個好工人啦!

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Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

Yip-paulina

This is very import, the terminate letter that you send to immigration dept. Eventhough how you write the maid are not suitable for work in your family, poor performance, attitude...... but those are not the good points for immig dept. staff to consider your bad bun bun to come back Hong Kong to work with the other family. My immig. dept.friend tell me that the letter need to write a main port :'' Your bad bun bun is absolute unfixed to work as the domestic helper."

It will prevent the bad bun has a chance for the further to work against with the other family in Hong Kong.

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發表於 04-12-17 09:55 |只看該作者

Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

Hi tingmon,

Thanks... but is it really work? coz I don't want to harm other families...

Paulina

吾家三隻小豬樂融融 ;-) ;-) ;-)

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Re: My BunBun 女王又一力作 ***

yip_paulina 寫道:
6000 and the air ticket also!!!

coz she wants to find another employer who has maid room, own TV, radio... etc. (Because once she has said to me::: Mom, your home is so small (around 800 sq ft) , no maid room (she needs to live with bb), no TV and radio for me...

Paulina

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