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Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

HA,

依家仲有無事呀? take care ar!

HA 寫道:
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我冇太用力pump ar, 我一邊同婕婕玩一邊pump, 點知pump pump下見到血同奶一起出 :-( , pump多兩下都有, 再pump就冇喇, 我將有血d奶掉左(成三安ga:-( ), 之後再pump冇血d奶就俾左婕婕下餐飲, 我有諗過唔知係唔係谷奶谷得勁得濟所以有血啦? ?-( 因為昨晚由七點半後就冇再食到左邊, 直至今朝9:30pump奶

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Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

HA 寫道:
paulina & laputa

我冇太用力pump ar, 我一邊同婕婕玩一邊pump, 點知pump pump下見到血同奶一起出 :-( , pump多兩下都有, 再pump就冇喇, 我將有血d奶掉左(成三安ga:-( ), 之後再pump冇血d奶就俾左婕婕下餐飲, 我有諗過唔知係唔係谷奶谷得勁得濟所以有血啦? ?-( 因為昨晚由七點半後就冇再食到左邊, 直至今朝9:30pump奶

If the situation persist, check doctor! take care

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Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

HA,
I think it's safer to call the doctor lah. Since you don't feel any pain, a little blood may get into the milk and you didn't notice woh...take care.

I use the sleeping position in the morning feed as well. I guess it's quite relaxing for my son and he usually can sleep 1-2 hours more so I can catch some sleep :-P

All,
When I bf my baby (except morning), he quite often sucks continuously for about 6-10min and then he'll look around/talk to air/arch his back. I may be able to persuade him to take some more milk from the same breast side but the flow has stopped and he needs to suck more to get it flowing again. Sometimes he is too frustrated about the slow flow. I worry he doesn't have enough to eat and sometimes switch to another side, though I think there's still milk left on the first side. He will then suck happily on the other side for at least 6 min. Does your baby have these behaviour?

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Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

HA,

how are you today? no more blood?

hagrid,

Yes, my Joshua also behaves like this... but my case is worser than u...

I usually feed him by 7:00 pm and usually on one side only... first 5-8 mins... he sucks consistently and I can feel that milk flow flurently... HOWEVER, then aftewards, he behaves like your bb he'll look around/talk to air/arch his back

but my milk hasn't stopped

so you can imagine how 'ma fan' I am by that time... then he asks more... so I bf him on the same side again (coz still have milk maa) BUT he will cry,...

and then I need to switch to another side... BUT same case happens again...

Ooooo... this lasts for 15 mins for the whole feeding process (I think he may get enough coz no more complain to me

) but brings me ma ma fan fan... coz my shirt may get wet ... and I need to pump the milk out afterwards coz still milk flow out...

Paulina

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發表於 05-1-22 19:22 |只看該作者

Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

多謝大家關心, 冇血再流la

hagrid & paulina

婕婕食奶通常食食下會要求疴ngng, 坐完痰觀ng完通常都肯再食, 但有時候........就冇耐性, 唔係要ngng, 就同你地d b一樣都係咁八, 咁唔專心

佢食得最好既時候就係肚餓或者係食緊再後個餐奶, d態度先叫做好d

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發表於 05-1-23 00:37 |只看該作者

Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

Ha ha ha...good to know that my boy is not the only baby who is so 唔專心. I can imagine myself spending hour trying to keep him in his seat to finish his meal once he gains more mobility

Once he knows I'm going to feed him, Xavier always screams if I don't put him on my breast in 3 seconds. So I thought he's hungry, but still so 'ma ma fan fan' after few minutes.

HA,
My son also ngng in the middle of the feed and I'm thinking to buy a 痰觀. Do you just buy a simple 'Red A' brand or something else that's better? Also, do you know if there is way to train the baby to do it AFTER the feed? Why do babies bring so many challenges to their poor mother ?-(

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發表於 05-1-24 10:13 |只看該作者

Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

hagrid 寫道:
All,
When I bf my baby (except morning), he quite often sucks continuously for about 6-10min and then he'll look around/talk to air/arch his back. I may be able to persuade him to take some more milk from the same breast side but the flow has stopped and he needs to suck more to get it flowing again. Sometimes he is too frustrated about the slow flow. I worry he doesn't have enough to eat and sometimes switch to another side, though I think there's still milk left on the first side. He will then suck happily on the other side for at least 6 min. Does your baby have these behaviour?

hagrid,
I don't have this problem. I BF my girl on the same side for an hour and she's quite contented.

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發表於 05-1-24 17:41 |只看該作者

Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

Hi Laputa and other moms,

when I saw you post the title, I feel so interested to join the discussion. However, I can't login for several days even seeking help from the web manager and the host of this board. Suddenly, I don't know why I can response to yours in this evening.(I have tried in the morning but failure)

So I don't know whether I can login later.
By the way, I would like to share my daughter-Charis's situation with all of you.

as of today she is more than 51/2 months
- 全人奶, pump during lunch hour in office 2 times, bf in the morning and night for 3 times.
- only drink 5-6 oz mama milk when using milk bottle
- I start feed 2 to 3 spoons Henz cereal to her when she is 5 months after lunch ma ma milk. However, she changes her poo poo pattern from 1 day to 3 to 4 days since feeding cereal. She doesn't like drinking water
- her weight is seem as Laputa's baby around 14 pbs.
-I want to bf till 10 months but I don't know whether I can keep my milk supply after my 8 days trip on Feb. I will try to pump during trip...

Charis will wake up at mid night(2am or 3 am) asking for milk. sometimes, even two to three times per night

Do you baby like that?

I try to give her mama milk and few spoons of cereal at night but the situation still unchanged

I feel puzzle that your baby drink so long coz Charis only drink 5 to 10 mintues to finish one meal and last for 4 hours.

Charis mum :cry:

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發表於 05-1-25 06:12 |只看該作者

Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

aiya my baby also has 唔專心 and ngng while feeding problem. So I have to feed her with both sides all the time. She doesn't like solid suddenly... she only gains 2 oz in 2 weeks.... what I can do?

I plan to pump the milk and feed her with bottle and see if she can drink more.

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發表於 05-1-25 09:04 |只看該作者

Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

PoohPoohMaMa,

If your bb likes direct feed than bottle, than direct feed of coz is much better la... you can save time in cleaning and sterilising the pump set ma...

For the quantity, I remember the nurse told me before that the quantity of the milk pumped is 'lesser' than you direct feed to bb... but if you want to know how many oz does your bb drink, maybe it's a good mtd...

For me, coz I need to work in daytime, so I must express my milk into bottles... but at night b4 dinner, I'll direct feed bb whenever I can do... I feel my breast is much relieved... coz I always feel that there's still some milk left in the breast.

Weaning... I just start to feed banana mesh to Joshua last night (1 weaning spoon) and his response is quite good... first few seconds, he feels abit

and afterwards :mrgreen: :mrgreen: he opens his little mouth and eat!!!

I'll try to feed banana mesh this week to see his response...

Paulina

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發表於 05-1-25 09:10 |只看該作者

Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

welcome, Charis_mum.

My baby Joshua didn't need mid night meal since 4 months old... and to now (5 months 1 week), so far is okay except one or two occassions that he has nightmare and suddenly woke up...

U're a super mum, coz you direct feed your bb by 3 times a day, and pump in the office by 2 times... ... for me, even in the days I had my bunbun at home, still what I could do most was to direct feed bb by 2 times and pump for 3 times...

I haven't started to feed him cereal (my mum said she will feed him with dilute congee instead) but will start when he reaches 6 months old... now I start to feed one weaning spoon of banana.

Paulina

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發表於 05-1-25 09:21 |只看該作者

Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

Charis_mum 寫道:
Hi Laputa and other moms,
as of today she is more than 51/2 months
- 全人奶, pump during lunch hour in office 2 times, bf in the morning and night for 3 times.
- only drink 5-6 oz mama milk when using milk bottle
- I start feed 2 to 3 spoons Henz cereal to her when she is 5 months after lunch ma ma milk. However, she changes her poo poo pattern from 1 day to 3 to 4 days since feeding cereal. She doesn't like drinking water
- her weight is seem as Laputa's baby around 14 pbs.
-I want to bf till 10 months but I don't know whether I can keep my milk supply after my 8 days trip on Feb. I will try to pump during trip...

Charis will wake up at mid night(2am or 3 am) asking for milk. sometimes, even two to three times per night
Do you baby like that?

I try to give her mama milk and few spoons of cereal at night but the situation still unchanged

I feel puzzle that your baby drink so long coz Charis only drink 5 to 10 mintues to finish one meal and last for 4 hours.

Charis mum :cry:

Welcom Charis mum,
My Hoi Ching quite midnight nursing by herself since Nov., though sometime she cries for milk in the midnight (1-2 times every fortnight). I don't know why she have take an hour to drink, I guess maybe she like sucking so much that the time is used to compensate my absence.

All,
Ng Ng during nursing? That situation appeared only when Hoi Ching was before 3 months old. Now she seldom Ng Ng during nursing. 99 said if you have baby 'fly' through dining table during meals, baby will ng ng during nursing ?-( ?-(

After taking cereal, Hoi Ching have ng ng every 2 days. and 好臭好臭

I also gave fruit (Apple and Banana) to Hoi Ching every day as well.

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Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

hagrid 寫道:
HA,
My son also ngng in the middle of the feed and I'm thinking to buy a 痰觀. Do you just buy a simple 'Red A' brand or something else that's better? Also, do you know if there is way to train the baby to do it AFTER the feed? Why do babies bring so many challenges to their poor mother ?-(

hagrid

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Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

Hi all,

My BB quit night feeding exactly on the day when he's 3 months and sometimes may wake up during midnight lor. My bun bun will play the music to him and he'll fall asleep very soon.

Recently, I note my milk supply is decreasing

:cry: probably due to work pressure at office ...... my poor bb will have to take some more formula la. I keep on drinking a lot of soya milk, soup, mother's milk etc., but no great improvement at all!!! ....... also, it's getting hard to pump one side while feeding the other side now...... everytime when I pump, my BB will not concentrate on sucking and just putting his attention to push away the pump and take out the tube (the pump I use has a tube to link between the pump and the machine)!

I'm considering whether I should get up and pump during midnight again. I used to do it until my BB reached about 5 months...... it's hard......

About weaning, just wonder if you give fresh apple/banana or the baby food? My doctor told me not to give BB cereal under he's 6 months coz he's a super allegic BB. But he recommend giving him some baby juice, so I started to give BB diluted apple juice. He can drink up to 4 oz (2oz juice + 2oz water) per day. I'll give BB cereal when he reach 6 months next week. I can't wait ...... coz it must be a very interesting experience

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發表於 05-1-25 16:30 |只看該作者

Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

sandythepooh 寫道:
Hi all,

...
Recently, I note my milk supply is decreasing
me too. and my period is starting again. I do think work pressure is a key factor

I'm considering whether I should get up and pump during midnight again. I used to do it until my BB reached about 5 months...... it's hard......
if you get not enough sleep, you milk supply will also decrease. . .

About weaning, just wonder if you give fresh apple/banana or the baby food? My doctor told me not to give BB cereal under he's 6 months coz he's a super allegic BB.

I gave Hoi Ching banana or apple everyday. not too much, around a chinese soup spoon. so far so good and she likes fruit very much.
But he recommend giving him some baby juice, so I started to give BB diluted apple juice. He can drink up to 4 oz (2oz juice + 2oz water) per day. I'll give BB cereal when he reach 6 months next week. I can't wait ...... coz it must be a very interesting experience

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發表於 05-1-25 23:36 |只看該作者

Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

Laputa,

Let's work hard.......

BTW, have Hoi Ching tried the cereal? I don't know if I should give cereral to hayhay as his first solid food or fruit mesh is also fine? Since he likes the apple juice, I guess he'll like the apple as well!

All,

Hayhay did a funny thing last night...... I feed him using the sleeping position...... he was very happy and relax and when he's taking a break, he "rolled away"....... however, hayhay is not good at rolling on the other direction and he couldn't roll back to me....... I couldn't help to laugh and hayhay is getting angry and shout lor......

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發表於 05-1-26 00:27 |只看該作者

Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

Hi Charis_mum,
My son quits the nighttime feed since he was about 2 months old. I give him a consistent bedtime routine which I believe helps a lot to make him understand it's nighttime. Also, my maid will try to pat or rock him back to sleep when he woke up crying. Sometimes it was just habit or nightmare that woke him up. Now he will just find his finger and gets back to sleep. It's helpful if you can have your husband or maid to trying getting your baby to sleep, otherwise she will smell your milk and wants to be fed. Of course if she can't be settled, you will have to feed her. But doing this should help to decrease the number of time she wakes up per night. Hope it helps.

PoohPoohMaMa,
Learning from other moms in this forum, I think all babies know better about themselves than we mom do. If your baby seems healthy and happy otherwise, don't worry and just let her grow out of it. I think we should not force the baby if she doesn't want food, that will probably make her dislikes it more. Perhaps try giving her other type of solid? If she still doesn't like it, perhaps she's just not yet ready to take solid.

All,
I'm also anxiously waiting for my son to reach 6 months so I can give him solid. My doctor asked me not to give him anything else until 6 months. Reading so many moms' stories of their babie's reaction, I really want to see my son's face when I give him his first spoon of solid

Shouldn't we give mashed vegetable instead of fruit first? I'm just worry he won't eat vegetable once he tries the sweety fruit.

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發表於 05-1-26 08:59 |只看該作者

Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

Laputa 寫道:
sandythepooh 寫道:
Hi all,

...
Recently, I note my milk supply is decreasing
me too. and my period is starting again. I do think work pressure is a key factor

I'm considering whether I should get up and pump during midnight again. I used to do it until my BB reached about 5 months...... it's hard......
if you get not enough sleep, you milk supply will also decrease. . .
me too, from normally 7 oz to 5 oz ... and I notice my period is also starting again... is there relationship btn period coming back and the milk supply?

About weaning, just wonder if you give fresh apple/banana or the baby food? My doctor told me not to give BB cereal under he's 6 months coz he's a super allegic BB.

I gave Hoi Ching banana or apple everyday. not too much, around a chinese soup spoon. so far so good and she likes fruit very much.
Yes, I give Joshua a weaning spoon of banana everyday and so far it's good and his stools are okay.[/colour]

But he recommend giving him some baby juice, so I started to give BB diluted apple juice. He can drink up to 4 oz (2oz juice + 2oz water) per day. I'll give BB cereal when he reach 6 months next week. I can't wait ...... coz it must be a very interesting experience

[colour=990066]I'll give him the training cup when he reaches 6 months old, apple juice/ pear juice -diluted + congee also

I wonder maybe I don't need to continue to rent the pump anymore coz my supply is getting lesser ... [/colour]

Paulina

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Re: 04年8月breast feed mum - discussion and sharing

sandythepooh

BTW, have Hoi Ching tried the cereal? I don't know if I should give cereral to hayhay as his first solid food or fruit mesh is also fine? Since he likes the apple juice, I guess he'll like the apple as well!

Hoi Ching starts cereal since 5 months old because in the day time she only drink 2-4 oz milk from milk bottle. So Po Po introduce cereal to her during lunch hour. Now she can have 4-5 spoon of cereal plus 3oz milk for 1 meal.

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