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Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

nausica
希望我地前人的經驗能幫到你 :lol:
而家我bb三個半月, 用奶樽情況明顯好左
有時可以飲一半掃完風再飲埋另一半,
但有時就真係只飲得半樽(2-3安)
我都只有由佢話事, 呢d野迫唔來, 免得他反感,
見到奶樽就喊咁咪仲衰
不過間唔中, 我同佢傾偈時會同佢講
媽咪好想佢可以用奶樽飲奶, 希望佢能夠多d彈性
而佢有進步時, 我會抱住佢讚佢錫佢,
俾佢知道媽咪好開心

Emily
你BB重得好好呀!! 令我好羨慕 :lol:

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Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

hi calamus,
我阿b依家兩個月1星期,
你bb係幾大先有改善?
同埋你係用咩奶樽架?

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Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

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Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

calamus,
Thks 你嘅advice. 不過雖然無比保嬰丹bb, 我用咗不理會嘅方法, 同佢分room訓, 哈哈佢呢幾日訓得好咗. 雖然只有3-4個鍾, 總算有進步!

bb而家埋身餵時好易分心, 周圍有少少聲音佢就唔食, 周圍望, 所以好難在外餵佢, 隋時走光. 大家有無同樣問題?

係呀, 好想攪個gathering!

我係哥哥 "齊齊" 3歲10個月, 同埋妹妹 Callista

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Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

kalle,
I am back! I am so busy after I returned work so I didn't have time to visit BK. Moreover, the quantity of milk drops a lot - I am really worry that I do not have milk to feed my BB ! :-(

I really enjoy BF moments and my BB is very concentrated during BF. She never turns even with loud noises, but she cannot concentrate with bottle feeding!

Like you, I would like to have gatherings with Dec moms - we can then share experience and it would be interesting to see how BB reacts

Moreover, it will be fine if we can continue with some regular gatherings to give each other support and watch our BB grow up! I suggest meeting in May or June, what do you think? Any mom would like to join?

BTW, can any mom tell me how can I know whether someone respond to my comment (not pm) if the original topic is not written by me (because no e-mail to inform)? Thanks!

Calamus,
I heard people say that 保嬰丹has 鎮靜劑 so BB can sleep well. So you better not give it to your BB so frequently!

BTW, have you resigned from your job after maternity leave?

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發表於 05-4-4 20:17 |只看該作者

Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

nausica
我同Rabbi都係用nuk黃色奶樽的bottle餵bb, 我仔仔要到3個半月情況才改善, 今日佢食晒6安, 我好

:lol:

:lol:

kalle
鄧你開心la, bb訓得好左

princesshk2
bb個半月時成日he he her her, 訓唔到, 於是我俾佢食左保嬰丹佢食後, 真係好左!! 多謝你提醒我, 我唔會成日俾佢食, 始終都係藥呢, 雖然話係全天然姐.........
我辭左工咯, 心情都有d七上八落ga, 始終工作係一個發揮自己的機會, 而家要盲摸摸學左媽咪

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發表於 05-4-4 21:19 |只看該作者

Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

princesshk2,
係呀, 我返工後, pump出來嘅奶都少咗, 好彩之前儲定. 同埋好難有時間公司pump奶, 而家轉咗返part-time, 興鬆好多.

calamus,
咁有無人幫你? 平時你除咗揍bb, 時間點過? 唔駛返工, 點解要用bottle嘅? sorry, 只是百掛.

話時話, 你地有無人已經是第二個bb? 其實我已經有個三歲嘅仔!

我係哥哥 "齊齊" 3歲10個月, 同埋妹妹 Callista

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發表於 05-4-4 23:47 |只看該作者

Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

kalle
你兩個小朋友隔3年, 好perfect喎我認為

我剛剛辭工, 呢個月有d日子仲要返工, 咁媽咪就會幫我湊住先, 所以仔仔都要用奶樽飲奶
而且我地會返教會, 咁仔仔在教會中, 亦需要用樽飲奶

仔仔食奶時間開始穩定, 我都要開始plan定同佢的時間表, 我要造/教閃卡, 要同佢做體操(而家佢識翻身翻一半啦), 熱d就會做嬰兒按摩..........
我其實都唔識點同bb玩, 卒之早前要買書來學, 同埋在網上學多d

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發表於 05-4-5 00:42 |只看該作者

Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

Calamus,

Are you going to make "flash card"? Can BB learn so early because they are only 3 months old?

My BB also try to turn, but can only turn 1/2 like yours. We must be careful to make sure they can breathe because they cannot turn back!

I really envy you to be a "full time" mom since I feel very tired after returning work!

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發表於 05-4-5 07:36 |只看該作者

Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

我0岩0岩出完trip返黎兩天，在我出trip期間，阿b唔係好肯飲奶，所以瘦左，好心痛，返黎第一次埋身餵，佢飲兩啖又喊，飲兩啖又喊，好似投訴點解媽咪唔餵我，跟住仲大喊添，要安撫左佢一輪，佢先肯飲奶。埋身餵左兩天，食得比之前好d。

想問下大家意見，bb唔係太肯用樽，放假全程埋身餵好呢? 定係某兩餐仍用樽餵等佢習慣?我返工時佢用樽食得好少，放假時唔係好捨得佢捱肚餓。

kalle
我都係有2個小朋友，大女四歲多了。

17/12 3.65kg 29/12 3.73kg 20/1 4.7kg 18/2 5.67kg 23/4 7.1kg

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發表於 05-4-5 19:41 |只看該作者

Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

Celia:
放假我會全程埋身餵，因為咁會keep得個奶量好D，而且唔駛洗奶瓶嘛

我都係有2個小朋友，大仔又係四歲幾喎。

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Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

To Calamus,
我好想知道點解你辭工,而我就好想再返工, 可惜一路都無得interview, 就算以前幾有經驗都無用, 因為自己會考好差! 你是否想做個full time媽咪???照顧bb真係好辛苦呀, 我阿仔真係好唔生性, 成日都要人抱, 晚上唔瞓, bb已有4個月, 都係未戒夜奶, 佢成日都係瞓一陣就醒! 瞓左就放上床, 但真係十次有八次都會醒, 佢一醒左又要再抱過佢等佢再入睡, 真係好累! 在家就只係成日抱住佢, 屋企乜都做唔到, 要等老公返來仲要佢煮埋飯比我食, 我老公成世人最討厭洗碗, 佢都做埋!我覺得自己好無用呀! 老公返工已經好辛苦, 仲要做屋企嘢!!!我好唔開心呀! 前日自己仲喊出來!我真係好無用

仲有我成日都發脾氣仲打bb patpat, 我真唔想, 但真係忍唔到!昨晚bb十一點上床, 一點半就起左身, 比佢食左人奶再瞓, 三點半又起身, 又抱佢入睡, 四點又醒, 又再抱, 來來回回去到天光六點再入睡, 這次可以瞓到七點半, 但我就想死!!! :-( :-(

都唔知bb點解唔可以瞓耐一d!!!!

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發表於 05-4-6 15:47 |只看該作者

Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

princesshk2
你有無睇過格連杜曼寫的[如何教小寶寶閱讀]??
作者之前是為腦傷嬰/幼兒工作,
發現利用閃卡教bb用潛意識學習得到非常好的效果,
咁一路一路改善, 發展至今日的系統同方法,
你可以先看看本書, 可以明白多d

celia
我同意chingching講法,
你一個星期已經有5日訓練仔仔用奶樽啦,
埋身餵下, 享受下親子時間, 同埋洗少2日奶樽啦!!

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Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

Windy,
我辭工係想全心全意教育亞仔, 唔係話要佢成才
只係想仔仔成為品格純全, 有愛心, 懂得愛人尊重人的孩子
我完全唔放心俾maid湊, 佢地只會照顧bb起居飲食,
婆婆99一見個孫喊就抱, 佢地幾肉赤咁,
我唔想仔仔俾人寵壞, 變成小霸王,
所以就決定唔做野, 專心湊佢

老老實實, 湊仔真係辛苦過返工好多,
我有叫過我老公, 不如我返工, 佢湊仔,
因為佢份工辛苦過我好多, 壓力又大
但梗係打c佢都唔肯啦!!!

其實在一些家庭服務中心, 有 family aid service,
係可以上門教人點樣湊bb, 佢地好有經驗, 完全免費,
你可以試下搵佢地幫手, 學下一些方法點樣湊你仔仔,
因為你仔仔都4個月大, 如果情況持續係咁,
你真係會好辛苦ga,
初時我都試過抱住亞仔喊, 我都幾明白那種心情

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發表於 05-4-6 18:37 |只看該作者

Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

WindyChow,
Don't be so unhappy, you are already a good mother! However, I agree with Calamus that you should do something to help your BB 戒夜奶 or at least sleep longer during the night. If not, I am afraid you will 體力不支ah! I remembered the first week when my BB first came back from hospital, the situation was the same. Luckily, my BB already 戒夜奶 after 2 weeks. My BB usually eats a lot in the last meal and she can sleep for over 7 hours at night!

I guess maybe your BB does not have enough milk to eat or need comfort, because my friends told me that BB can usually sleep at least 4 hours after 3 months! BTW, do you have enough millk? If not, maybe you can consider feeding the last meal with formula -> see if it would help! If your BB only needs comfort, maybe you can try to ignore him for sometime to see if he can sleep again!

I will support you, add oil & take care! Hope to receive good news from you very soon!

Calamus,
I think you will be a very great mother because you sacrifice a lot for your BB and read so many books. 真係要向你多多請教! I also agree that foreign maid is not good, so I employ part-time local maid during the day and I will take care of my BB at night alone! 辛苦d law!

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Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

Hi WindyChow,

My BB has similar problems with your BB too. She is about 3 and a half month old now, but she wakes everytime we try to put her down and wakes very frequently! For each meal, she drinks only very little. I have to go to work and my 99 takes care of her. But my 99 can't even put her down on bed and has to hold her all afternoon!!

Now, I try to train my BB to sleep in her own bed and it seems to work. First, I feed her until she is full, then I try to put her on bed and play with her. When she feels a little bit tired, I turned on the music and pat her. At first, she cries a little and moves her hand and feet, but slowly she closes her eye lids. You may try try too~

Add oil ar

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發表於 05-4-7 07:19 |只看該作者

Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

昨日阿b係我返工期間(12小時)，只吃了6.5oz奶，每餐只吃2oz - 2.5oz左右，好擔心佢吃咁少，又唔夠濕的片片。唔知點先可以吃樽吃好d? 我又唔可以唔返工。 :cry:

17/12 3.65kg 29/12 3.73kg 20/1 4.7kg 18/2 5.67kg 23/4 7.1kg

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發表於 05-4-7 13:18 |只看該作者

Re: 2004年12月全母乳媽媽

Hi Celia, I wonder if this is related to the weather change. Instead of drinking 6oz each time, my BB is only drinking 2oz and she is so sweat each time she drinks. Perhaps she didn't fell comfortable and this affects her appetide.

You may try to burp your BB more times in the middle of feeding, and wait until your BB is really hungry before you feed her. It may help.

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