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育兒性格勳章大廚勳章好媽媽勳章醒目開學勳章

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發表於 10-5-12 12:39 |只看該作者

其實其他人既意見都幫唔到你朋友
最緊要係你朋友個心都飛左出去啦
唉！

其實個外國人係未值得你朋友『投資』落去？
問心，依家熱戀期，梗係咩都say yes！
但真係真真正正一齊生活時
小朋友唔聽話，做錯事
外國人係未都可以包容小朋友，繼續愛佢地！

人都係自私家啦，
所以唔係自已親生既係未真係當自己仔？
我唔知外國人做過人爸爸未 or 你地將來會唔會有自己小朋友
依d問題，你朋友都要去考慮家！

如果真係唔愛個老公未分開囉
但外國人真係睇清楚先啦
有d野錯左一次夠啦，唔係又錯多一次害左小朋友就冇謂啦！
一生真係唔係只得愛情咋！

又或者問下你朋友
外國人冇左你朋友會點？
仔女冇左你朋友又又會點
叫佢自己衡量啦！

[ 本帖最後由包包女王於 10-5-12 12:46 編輯 ]

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Bman

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發表於 10-5-12 12:40 |只看該作者

老實講, 愛情只係一種感覺, 你覺得緣份到又點?! 當初佢只係為錢嫁老公?! 如果係, 打得呢份工就唔好三心兩意!!

如果當初為愛, 依家緣份又到, 我就勸佢唔好再害人, 拍下拖咪算囉! 到時同個外佬又生兩個, 離婚又要再諗D小朋友點算!!

講野唔好笑又唔識講爛gag
上forum只為吹水唔好同我認真

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好媽媽勳章

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發表於 10-5-12 12:41 |只看該作者

我一定會帶埋小朋友,如老外唔接受,咪算數囉,佢唔接受我個小朋友,我都唔會接受佢

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發表於 10-5-12 12:42 |只看該作者

原帖由 ewater 於 10-5-12 12:34 發表
Everyone has his / her own top priority. Somebody may set "child" as first priority but others may choose "love".

I think she may has her own reason for having a child (e.g her age, the marriage, fo ...

老實講句,
老公可以選,
仔女無得選！

仔女就算在心目中唔係最高優先,
都應該係最高責任掛？
生得出, 你就預左這個責任係成世的啦？

生左先講緣份？先講自由？先講自己？
sorry, 生左就無得選,
因為生唔生係你自己的選擇,
但生左你就有責任。

當然, 好多人話生左唔代表我要無晒自由, 無晒自我,
但我會覺得好自私law,
你要自由, 唔應該帶個bb在世上law, 小朋友唔係玩具,
父母係有責任陪小朋友成長。

此生無悔入華廈，來生願在種花家！

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ewater

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發表於 10-5-12 12:43 |只看該作者

Agree with this "一個女人有權追求自己既幸福,其實想點咪點羅". "追求自己既幸福", don't tie by her husband and child...

原帖由 rean_chau 於 10-5-12 12:39 發表
變心咪變心羅, 駛乜咁多籍口, 一陣又話原諒左佢, 一陣又話唔係真愛, 一陣又話呢個先係至愛...點解唔話係自己變左心呢? 關緣份咩事, 如果咁講,所有婚外情都係緣分,理所當然架啦....

一個女人有權追求自己既幸福,其實 ...

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ewater

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發表於 10-5-12 12:45 |只看該作者

She can still take care of her child even though she married with another man.

If she forgo this opportunity to change her life, she may not be able to get another chance.

原帖由 mcdullyiu 於 10-5-12 12:42 發表

老實講句,
老公可以選,
仔女無得選！

仔女就算在心目中唔係最高優先,
都應該係最高責任掛？
生得出, 你就預左這個責任係成世的啦？

生左先講緣份？先講自由？先講自己？
sorry, 生左就無得選,
因為生唔生係你自己的選擇,
...

[ 本帖最後由 ewater 於 10-5-12 12:47 編輯 ]

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mcdullyiu

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發表於 10-5-12 12:48 |只看該作者

原帖由 ewater 於 10-5-12 12:45 發表
She can still take care of her child even though she married with another man.

所以我之前未話,
如果個女人照顧到自己同d仔女,
唔駛要過外國人都可以自己高飛的,
她可以考慮下！

如果唔係, 個外國人現在肯,
以後唔肯, 咁她點保護自己同d仔女？
到她將來同外國人有家庭,有仔女,
她又點處世？

另一面, 如果她打算自己走,放低d仔女, 未有d自私law。

就算留返比爸爸, 又話爸爸成日唔在家, 咁又對仔女好咩？

此生無悔入華廈，來生願在種花家！

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包包女王

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育兒性格勳章大廚勳章好媽媽勳章醒目開學勳章

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發表於 10-5-12 12:49 |只看該作者

原帖由 ewater 於 10-5-12 12:45 發表
She can still take care of her child even though she married with another man.

If she forgo this opportunity to change her life, she may not be able to get another chance.

問題係外國人係未真心愛小朋友願意照顧佢地一世呀！

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原帖由 ewater 於 10-5-12 12:45 發表
She can still take care of her child even though she married with another man.

If she forgo this opportunity to change her life, she may not be able to get another chance.

問得愛情與仔女既選擇，但佢好明顯唔想帶埋仔女走麻！

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發表於 10-5-12 12:53 |只看該作者

原帖由 ewater 於 10-5-12 12:34 發表
Everyone has his / her own top priority. Somebody may set "child" as first priority but others may choose "love".

I think she may has her own reason for having a child (e.g her age, the marriage, fo ...

唔同意AGAIN!

無錯, 大人係有權選擇自己點過生活, 大前題係佢唔可以影響其他人, 如果當日佢唔愛佢老公, 點解要同佢生仔?! 就係因為佢老公或者老公家人想要? 佢當d小朋友係乜野?! 佢老公請佢返唻做代母/保姆?!

有d野, 決定左無得返轉頭, 你生左佢出, 依家話當時"her decision may be right. But current conditions... are changed, she may need to make new decisions"咁個仔有冇選擇權?!?! 今日環境變左, 佢可唔可以選擇當初唔出世?!?!?!

"I think she doesn't need to bear the pain her husband made on her and her life. So, I don't think staying with her husband without love is right."

I also think her children don't need to bear the pain she made on them and their life. So, I don't think staying with her mom without love is right. 但係佢地無選擇囉, 佢阿媽仲要諗帶唔帶走對包袱! 帶唔帶, 爸爸要唔要, 新爸爸要唔要佢地都無選擇!!! 幫佢地儘量將傷害減到最低, 呢d就係佢媽媽為佢地負既責任囉!!

講野唔好笑又唔識講爛gag
上forum只為吹水唔好同我認真

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發表於 10-5-12 12:54 |只看該作者

一定係子女啦！！

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mamibb

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發表於 10-5-12 12:55 |只看該作者

我只覺得...這句說話是借口...
只可怪...佢同老外相逢恨晚

[quote原帖由 wimmie 於 10-5-12 12:20 發表

但係，　你地覺唔覺得緣份要來誰知道．．．

[/quote]

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發表於 10-5-12 12:56 |只看該作者

Agree.

原帖由 seaman1982 於 10-5-12 11:27 發表
如果外國人是真心愛你朋友~
會接納和包容你朋友的子女~

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發表於 10-5-12 13:00 |只看該作者

原帖由 ewater 於 10-5-12 12:45 發表
She can still take care of her child even though she married with another man.

If she forgo this opportunity to change her life, she may not be able to get another chance.

現在係個女人有婚外情,
10年前佢老公召妓,佢已經原諒左佢,
佢老公都改了,
還生了兩個小朋友,
現在因為自己有婚外情,
於是搵藉口,
佢要找自己幸福,無人可以阻止,
除非佢老公唔要番小朋友,
如果唔係, 佢唔應該帶走.

[ 本帖最後由 ZZdaphne 於 10-5-12 13:03 編輯 ]

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發表於 10-5-12 13:04 |只看該作者

原帖由 wimmie 於 10-5-12 11:28 發表
但先錯在男方．．如男方無做錯，　女方是唔會離開佢

生子女,唔係單方面既決定,當時做左個生仔女既決定,今日就應該負返責任,唔係覺得開心,就走左去就得,咁叫不負責任

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發表於 10-5-12 13:06 |只看該作者

當初同老公結婚，係咪因為老公有幾萬一個月
咁依家跟老外，係咪因為有外國護照

現今女人有權去追尋自己嘅幸福
但係為了自己嘅幸福而損害任何人，包括自己子女
咁就係自私，一D都唔成熟

個人覺得無論女主角最終選擇了其麽
都係自私，對老公唔公平

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發表於 10-5-12 13:08 |只看該作者

原帖由 ewater 於 10-5-12 12:43 發表
Agree with this "一個女人有權追求自己既幸福,其實想點咪點羅". "追求自己既幸福", don't tie by her husband and child...

so, I agree with you.

但不是 not tie by her husband and child,
而是 not to tie her husband and chidren

佢已經決定要跟男朋友生活,
但又唔想畀人話佢掉下仔女.....

[ 本帖最後由 ZZdaphne 於 10-5-12 13:17 編輯 ]

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