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大宅

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發表於 05-6-8 17:16 |只看該作者

Re: What should I do - I found some condoms in my hushand's brief case

對不起,因為近來公司及家裡勁忙(my new maid just arrived), 所以未有上來傾談。

近來心情平伏了一點,現在正想想怎樣confront the case to my hushand。 我打算寫一封比佢,話比佢知我近來對佢的感受同埋心倩,請佢解釋一下點解會有condom係佢的公事包裡面同埋一D我覺得有問題的簽單。 I hope that we can have an open communication (希望啦,因為佢係果乜都放係心裡面D人)。我亦都會開心見誠講我有乜野錯我會改,但如果佢個心已經唔係呢個家我亦都可以比佢走,佢絕對有得揀,但只得一條路,無得一腳踏二船。


洋房

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發表於 05-6-8 17:38 |只看該作者

Re: What should I do - I found some condoms in my hushand's brief case

不過如果佢求其搵個藉口(例如話係同事既), 或者死口唔認, 你都會諗定點做.

記得update我地呀.


大宅

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發表於 05-6-8 22:11 |只看該作者

Re: What should I do - I found some condoms in my hushand's brief case

chuchuma 寫道:
對不起,因為近來公司及家裡勁忙(my new maid just arrived), 所以未有上來傾談。

近來心情平伏了一點,現在正想想怎樣confront the case to my hushand。 我打算寫一封比佢,話比佢知我近來對佢的感受同埋心倩,請佢解釋一下點解會有condom係佢的公事包裡面同埋一D我覺得有問題的簽單。 I hope that we can have an open communication (希望啦,因為佢係果乜都放係心裡面D人)。我亦都會開心見誠講我有乜野錯我會改,但如果佢個心已經唔係呢個家我亦都可以比佢走,佢絕對有得揀,但只得一條路,無得一腳踏二船。


我覺得你做得好好,好勇敢去面對和比機會你愛的人,God bless u!!!


別墅

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發表於 05-6-9 06:13 |只看該作者

Re: What should I do - I found some condoms in my hushand's brief case

chuchuma,

Finally see you again la. It's a good idea for you to write him a letter expressing yourself. Sometimes it's hard to say everything face-to-face. I hope he will give you an answer that will make you feel better. Best of luck.


大宅

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發表於 05-6-9 09:08 |只看該作者

Re: What should I do - I found some condoms in my hushand's brief case

chuchuma,
i think it is a very good idea too. you dont write a letter to your husband everyday, so he should be able to know this is an important matter within your family, and he should confront it himself as well. after all, it is not his own matter and it is involved by both parties.
keep us advised ar and good luck.


公爵府

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發表於 05-6-9 21:43 |只看該作者

Re: What should I do - I found some condoms in my hushand's brief case



chuchuma 寫道:
Agree.

As I am a working mom and my job will become busy in the coming months. I will keep my energy on my works first (finance is too important for me at this critical moment).

Of course, by the meantime, I will keep silence and collect all other evidences ie visa statement on his expenses pattern, etc.

Once I settle everything in office, I will present all the evidences in hand to avoid any arguement from him.

However, my most concern is my son who is only 2 years old. If there is any changes on my family, I will feel deeply sorry to him. Any mom has any experiences to avoid any unhappiness arise from the child ?


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等待驗證會員

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發表於 05-6-16 01:18 |只看該作者

Re: What should I do - I found some condoms in my hushand's brief case

chuchuma: 你身上的擔子多大仍可冷靜處理, 好佩服, 希望事情盡快解決
salami


民房

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發表於 05-6-20 13:03 |只看該作者

Re: What should I do - I found some condoms in my hushand's brief case

chuchuma,

You must be very upset, yet you are so tough and rational. We will support you.

BTW, I think one book may interest you, as it uses a third party's view to analyse people's marriage. It states out different kinds of marriage problems and how the social workers should lead the couples / victims the ways to face the problems. From its analysis you may find out the cause of your husband's behaviour and it will predict what possible reactions you and your husband (maybe most people ) may have in the future.

Since I don't know how to type Chinese but it is written in Chinese by the "Breakthrough" organization, I just try to translate directly into English (but may not be a proper translation).

The book:

Name of Book:Marriage Counselling (Fan Yan Fu Tu)
Publisher: Breakthrough (Dak Bor)
Price: HKD 98.00
Author: Ms. Wong (a senior social worker)
Selling place: in some Christian book shops (but the content is nothing about Christianity), one of the bookshop: ELIM
ISBN No.: 962-8791-30-3

I think this book should suit you as you are a rational person and it will guide you to well-informed decisions. This book I think is suitable to people who are considering separation or divorce.

Amy
:mrgreen: :mrgreen: 8-)

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