Be strong and stand up because of your lovely daughter. Get her back, you are the one who will protect her.
He is not a good father how can he make love with your maid in front of the kid. Seems to me, he did not want to see you and hv any consultation from social worker. Find a detector and ask him take photos for your husband and maid. In order to prove that he is not a good caretaker of your daughter and make sure to claim half of his money/ asset.
Try to eat well, sleep well. You need to face to the war, you need energy.
I'm really alarmed by your story. It is so horrible that I can't believe in it.
If it is true, I suppose your husband has gone made i.e. he is ill. you have to prioritize your actions:-
1. focus on your kid; the first priority is to find a way to protect your kid; reporting to the police or seek help from a social worker is adequate
2. find way to pursuade your husband to seek help from a psychiologist; any close friends of him you know also? Tell him/her the truth and I'm sure he/she will be alarmed also; he/she will certainly assist
我鐘意你同我講 I Love U, I Love U Too!
You are the sunshine of my life. That's why I'll always stay around. You are the apple of my eye. Forever you'll stay in my heart.
I have enough money..and also I have some assets..I already did something for protect my girl..
My another problems is after pregnant, I get a deep depression..he mentions once if I want to fight back my baby, he will use it in the court. and claim me can't take care a young child..
So I need to get more support information before the court hearing.
I don't keep any hope in this relationship.
Don't worry about me..., and I will be strong enough to fight with him in the court.
1. someone who supports you (you can find them in BK)
2. a legal advisor.
You are hurt painfully now. It will be wise if you can have a legal advisor to logically analysize your situation right now : 1. how to make divorce with your own advantage. 2. how to get your baby's guardianship with your own advantage.
You can only get a 3rd-person professional advise before you can proceed any actions. Especially, you need to gather all evidence to put you in better situation.