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尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講... [複製鏈接]

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CATMAMAHK

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發表於 06-5-3 14:14 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

mylulu007 寫道:
lanlanmami,

我真係唔明妳老公乜野心態, 我講緊係請工人ge正確心態.

如果好似佢咁ge態度, 好老實講, 妳轉幾多個工人都唔會有好結果. 因為妳地已經犯左好大ge原則:

1/ 意見分歧, 重要俾個工人知道
2/ 漠視工人表現, 容忍佢自把自為
3/ 無危機感
4/ 怕煩
5/ 忘記了請工人的原因 (如果主要係睇囝, 個工人做唔到我仲要佢黎做乜?)

由於以上1-5, 可以引致更加多的問題, 如果妳而家唔可以抖正上述1-5, 我建議妳搵扥兒湊好過.

我覺得你應該有自己的堅持我就係比我老公點整到一身蟻！
當日我發現個死印印有問題要抄佢，我老公吾比驚個ｂｂ無人照顧　，於是我打比ａｇｅｎｔ但佢吾係Ｈ．Ｋ，幾日之後個死印印走路之後仲去勞工處告我，整到我成日要去勞工處搞咗幾個月仲要比錢，個ｂｂ一樣無人照顧最後好彩我姑媽可以幫我，到依家我個新工人都未到．如個我當日堅持抄個死印印就吾洗煩．我老公都後悔無抄個死印印．你應該堅持抄佢

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發表於 06-5-3 14:35 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

lanlanmami,

攪笑一下：
如果你個佬下次再問你係咪下個一定好的話，你就反問返佢：咁係咪你出邊有女人、去滾，我都要忍呀？！係咪又要我保證下一個老公唔會去滾先得呀？！人既野邊有得保證架！

PS: 唔好嬲，見你老公個態度，突然有感而發啫.....

lanlanmami 寫道:
mylulu007 / FA8866,
個contract係我老公sign架,屋企有咩事都係個c6話事, 可能係咁個工人就唔係咁怕我囉..... :-(

yenho,
多謝你呀. 我而家明白為人parents係咁擔心喇. 個c6好大脾氣, 咯晚我鬧個工人咯陣佢竟然行埋黎叫我停, 我唔理佢佢就好大力咁"pund"埋對門, 唉...係個工人面前咁樣, 係人都知我地為佢鬧交啦...所以個工人係度我就唔敢出聲喇....我今日返工咁耐個心就驚咁耐...個c6話無咩事就算啦, 除非第日佢再整親個仔, 我同佢講到整親就太late, 佢又鬧話"你係唔係擔保下一個一定好d丫? 唔好咁又點呀"...

事到如今, 睇黎我都係要忍個印印, touchwood我唔洗係度再講佢hurt我個仔啦．．．． :-( :-( :-(

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發表於 06-5-3 19:58 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

FloliMom 寫道:
[quote]
lanlanmami 寫道:
FA8866,

我屋企無裝cam呀, 因為bb係同佢一間房, 換pampus餵奶都係係佢間房度做晒, 我又唔可以係佢間房地裝cam架嘛... :-(

我試過叫佢唔好係房換(等我可以係其他地方裝cam) 但過左2日我個仔即刻凍親發燒, 嚇到我即刻叫佢係房做返晒...

lanlanmami：
我BB同工人都係同一間房，係可以裝cam

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發表於 06-5-3 20:43 |只看該作者

Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

lanlanmami:

我建議你：
由於佢已經自認左因佢疏忽照顧，導致意外，唔只，佢整你個仔個頭...因此，你可以
1. 收埋一部 DV ，係部 DV 前，偷錄你同佢的對答。你要引導佢講翻自己做的野，唔好只問佢，係定唔係。當然，睇情況啦！
2. 當你成功偷錄了，你可以用隱蔽式鏡頭，監視佢的情況，當然，你有沒有偷錄到之前的對答，都可以，不過，有就最好。因為私隱條例，如果有懷疑家中的小朋友或老人家被虐，此為特殊情況，可用隱蔽式鏡頭。
3. 其實，當你完成第一點的時候，已經有證據證明佢虐兒。記住：疏忽照顧屬虐兒的一類。因此，你可以報警及聯絡防止虐兒會要求協助。由於僱主聯盟已和防止虐兒會有聯繫，可幫助你轉介給防止虐兒會。

當然，你同時要找人照顧你的小朋友。其實，依家你都應該要，因為你小朋友的安全係最重要。你同你先生講，唔一定下一個工人唔會傷害小朋友，不過，如果今時今日你唔理，攪到你個仔成世有陰影不特只，身體上有傷害甚至死埋，到時，你就後悔莫及。天水圍個六歲小朋友點死，你應該知道啦！就係疏忽照顧。你要嚇一嚇佢.....

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Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

好多謝各位既回覆呀, sorry因為呢2日掛住攪呢d野所以上唔到黎....

我將各位既留言print左出黎俾個c6睇(好似d簽名請願信咁

), 當然佢既反應都係一樣..."唔係個個工人都係咁既 (

) "..但係佢就話睇下裝唔裝cam係屋企(當係暫時解決左先).... 你地講得right, d男人一煩到佢就情願咩都唔做....但我同佢講明個衰工人一有咩再做錯我就一定一定會"郁"佢架喇

!!!!!

多謝大家既幫忙

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Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

WE WILL SUPPORT U. REMEMBER NOT TO FORGIVE THIS MAID ANYMORE IF SHE DOES ANYTHING WRONG..........LAST SOLUTION IS KIDS TAKING CARE CENTER!

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Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

I thinkthat fire the yan yan and find a local helper to take care your baby temporary (no matter u will employ a new maid or not) is the best way to secure your baby safety. The reason I think that u know gar lar.

For firing maid, one month notice is not recommand since you have a baby at home. Fire her with one month salary is more safety if the finance is affordable.

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Re: 尋晚當我話個工人做野唔好咯陣,佢同我講...

I agree with all the moms that you have to fire this DH. My Bun bun came 2 months ago, she is sooooo careless with my kids, although she may not mean to hurt them, I can not let them stay alone with her for even 5 mins. You see, I am a full time mother and still somehow I need to go out, and now I have to bring them wherever I go! Luckily my husband is a very careful person, he is the one who advises me not to let her stay close to our kids! So I went to the agent to ask for a replacement.

How about making him believe that you are having depression due to this Bun bun and cry a lot in front of him instead of fighting with him. You know, Guys sometimes "take soft but not hard"! Then blackmail your c6 that you will quit the job to stay full time at home to watch over the DH and the kids ( speak softly and sound a bit sad and unsteable)??? Show him that your health is being affected and cannot perform as a good & energetic wife anymore. Will this be useful to make him change his mind?

JJ

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