激到我同我亞媽勁嬲, 個時我有左bb, 咁我就同我亞媽講$1都唔出, 唔洗指意我比個孫佢地見.
我老公個邊得2個男丁(計賣我老公在內) 我係第一個同佢屋企生左個男孫, 點知佢地知道左好開心, 個時我同我亞媽講唔會比佢地見, 我亞媽話算啦, 點都要比佢地見一見, 點知見完比$20利是我 & 我個仔, 咁算咩意思?? 結婚酒唔出錢都算, 連滿月擺酒都唔出錢
仲要係冇提過擺酒d件事, 個時真係想爆粗. 我亞爸話佢個邊唔理, 我亞爸自己擺, 我個邊又唔係冇錢. 之後一年都唔知有冇比佢地見我個仔2-3次. 個時我老公個亞麻叫我62同我老公講帶多d我個仔比佢地見, 我一句同我老公講~唔得囉! 我生完佢地醫院都冇黎探過我(保品都冇煮過比我食), 個孫滿月, 新年都係比$20當我地外人呀?? 仲想叫我搬去同佢住, 發下夢就得. 宜家不知幾心涼, 佢地宜家都唔敢叫我帶個孫比佢地見(對上個次比佢地見係今年新年, 宜家只係簡中62打黎問下我個仔點?), 連我62打比我老公, 我老公去左沖涼, 我62都好有禮貌叫我話比我老公聽叫我老公打番比佢.
宜家佢地不知幾驚我唔比個孫佢地見添.
wkchoy 寫道:
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puffpuff 寫道:
wkchoy,
唔係呀? 俾$500 禮, 都幾侮辱。 如果係我, 真係喊餐死。
puffpuff 寫道:
cheerful-mum ,
你99可能覺得橫掂佢個仔都要搵錢俾你洗, 佢梗係唔執輸, 心諗亞媽洗個仔既錢, 天經地義。
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cheerful-mum 寫道:
My case is the worst one! my 62 99 didn't give me anything on my wedding day. 99 only gave me a HK$100 lai see when I served tea to her. That's all. You can tell how bad she is. And now, she always expects me and my husband to buy her gifts, to pay for her trips, to treat her yum cha/dinner, etc. But she never spends money on us even though she has.
, 我都唔洗理佢, 但我好錫我媽咪, 我媽咪在意人地甘樣對佢個女, 而唔開心, 所以, 我先甘嬲•happybaby&mom 寫道:
哎...我未結婚前都覺得de金好老土..但係到著褂'jump'茶同入門時, 真係好感激我阿媽...因為佢用晒我老公比佢de禮金, 買晒金器比我, 加埋好多姨媽,舅母等都有送金器比我, 等我入門時老公de姨媽姑姐同埋99即刻冇聲出...因為佢地成日以為我娘家住屋邨, 冇$, 黏佢地金糠........以前唔明阿媽點解成日話要趁金平買家de金比我地幾姐妹出嫁, 但係結左婚, 做左人地阿媽之後, 先至知, 佢地老一輩人都只係想個女嫁得風光de, 唔好比人睇死...所以之後我比番一de 媽咪, 話當留番比個妹嫁時送比佢...![]()
lucy_lucy 寫道:
其實唔送咪重好,費事第日又要還呢樣俾果樣;好似我咁,我結婚果日雖然叫做有送禮,但係所謂既老爺送咗一條好似朱義盛既鑽石鍊,62d兄弟仲好,一個封八百蚊人情,另一個送咗一對不知名牌子既表,一隻舖滿黑點既金手扼,而且仲飲到好似去朋友果餐咁,最遲到,最早走,中間仲要講家事,鬧到面紅耳熱咁,佢地又唔諗吓之前d節日就算我人唔到都會禮到,去佢屋企食飯又話煮飯好辛苦,又話整d鮑魚好魚你食,出街食飯仲衰,永遠冇等人,收工遲咗到連餸尾都冇得食.到我爸爸唔響度,人又冇到,電話又冇,個孫女出世,連影都冇見,所以我覺得既然6299人品差最好乜都唔好收,冇來往自然冇激氣.![]()
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debbyma 寫道:
我都估到99無金器送比我,仲要係斟完茶,99比咗利是之後,因為在場d人以為會送金器,無人叫我地起身,繼續"貴"係地下,於是99就攤開雙手(表示無),當時都唔知點好,其實結婚前都問老公佢會唔會送,話佢無提過,老公仲話佢自己出錢買,我寧願唔要留番d錢,而且唔好益99,等人以為佢對我好好,雖然媽咪知道後有d唔開心,我話99份人係咁,對自己既仔女都咁差,何妨我這個外人呢.
milkbear23 寫道:
我老爺奶奶佢地帶我去買叩我自己簡, 我奶奶仲分析比我知若果你買龍鳳厄, 只可以個日帶, 佢叫我可以簡D時款D, 第時都可以帶得番, 我老爺話隻厄咁輕有冇實心D, 佢話怕我帶左出來唔得大體, 怕我父母唔鐘意, 佢仲買左條金頸鍊時款既, 都係我自己簡的, 佢仲問我爸媽要幾多餅, 佢地話要10斤唐餅, 要50張西餅, 佢地仲話我地要咁少, 佢地話比100張西餅我地, 至於禮金我老豆話隨便就可以啦, 睇我老公心意喎. 我都好滿意, 好開心.有個好奶奶, 好老爺, 但針茶有牌針啦,![]()
cheerful-mum 寫道:
No way lar! I pay for the monthly mortgage installment, and my husband pays for all other expenses. equal share! My husband has lots of debts. My 6299 know that their son has no money and my husband doesn't give me any money. I just want to point out that my 99 is very greedy & selfish. She doesn't know what 'give & take' is.
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puffpuff 寫道:
cheerful-mum ,
你99可能覺得橫掂佢個仔都要搵錢俾你洗, 佢梗係唔執輸, 心諗亞媽洗個仔既錢, 天經地義。
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cheerful-mum 寫道:
My case is the worst one! my 62 99 didn't give me anything on my wedding day. 99 only gave me a HK$100 lai see when I served tea to her. That's all. You can tell how bad she is. And now, she always expects me and my husband to buy her gifts, to pay for her trips, to treat her yum cha/dinner, etc. But she never spends money on us even though she has.
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