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Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

如果佢唔肯放棄個BB，咁你同佢離婚啦！這個男人唔值得你再去愛佢！你都可以有自己既幸福0架！

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發表於 06-12-25 10:08 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

" 幸福無比 " 講得啱架,
"點解仲要任佢決擇, 主導權可吾可以係你呢"
點解佢做錯事仲可以任佢鍾意點就點? 你真係可以接受以後多埋bb的日子? ?-(

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發表於 06-12-25 10:38 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

咁第3者好奸，意外有bb真是不易，
好多事是有心也不定

我就不會俾機會，因一個bb的影響力，
是可以大過對你的愛呀~~

d咁衰的男人就一腳伸佢走就good

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發表於 06-12-25 10:38 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

hi,

他說就算和我離婚, 亦未必會與她結婚或一起, 他已叫第三者落bb, 是她不肯.

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發表於 06-12-25 10:59 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

I can give you some advice 'cos my ex-husband had got another woman 3.5 years ago. I think you should ask him whether he wants to be with you later. If yes, he should not see that woman forever. If he still sees her and doesn't let go, you'd better leave him.

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發表於 06-12-25 11:06 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

In my story, he said he didn't want to be with me but of course he still saw that woman as well as I. I could bear it so I let go (I could finally do it 6 months later). At last, we didn't see each other 3 years ago. The end of the story is that I met someone else 2 years ago and re-married with my present husband for several months. I didn't know what would happen if I didn't let go at that time. I was extremely depressed and had to see doctor. Now, I'm very happy and treasure my life, so I think it's better to do what I do now. Maybe I still love my ex- but my present husband treats me very well now. I really can't accept a husband who has another woman. If my present husband has another woman too, I still can't accept it. If you love him, you can't accept it. If he has a woman, it's better to leave him and let go and find your true love. Otherwise you may cry every day just like I cried a lot of times every day at that time. Only you can save yourself, don't wait for him.

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發表於 06-12-25 11:11 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

In my case it's simple 'cos we didn't have bb. Now, it's troublesome for you 'cos that woman has a bb. You have to ask yourself whether you can accept it 'cos having a bb means he has relationship with her for a long time, at least 6 months (having a bb is not easy). If you forgive him, it takes a long time for you to forget everything. To me, I still can't forget my story 'cos it hurt me a lot but I won't cry now when I'm talking about it, just like a story. All of my friends said that I'm brave and smart to let go and find the true love.

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發表於 06-12-25 11:19 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

Thank you PPyeung, I now have a pre-decision that I should leave him and face everyone bravely later. I think I can't accept it if he see that women and bb in the future.I need to let it go..otherwise, I can't find my true love in the future.

Thanks for your experience sharing again.

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發表於 06-12-25 11:20 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

Of course I was young at that time.

I met my ex when I was 19.
We were together when I was 20.
I married my ex when I was 28.
I found that he had a woman when I was 28 (9 months after we married).
I let go when I was 29.
I met my present husband when I was 30.
I re-married when I was 31.
Now, I am 32.
Now, My husband and I start trying to have a bb.

Every woman should not accept another woman if you love your husband. If he said he would leave her, think about what he did, not what he said.

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發表於 06-12-25 11:25 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

The most consideration was I am not young now..I am 32. But, I don't think that he will leave her since he said it before that he use the baby as an excuse.

Now, I think i should let it go. I still didn't have baby and have my economy independent. I also have a new job waitinng for me to reply.

I need a new start now, including my personal life and carrer.

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發表於 06-12-25 11:26 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

If you still love him, you may give yourself time, say 6 months to see if you still have chance with you husband. But you should know that it's hard time for you, always crying, seeing him find that woman....

After several months if you find nothing improves, you should tell yourself it's useless and a waste of your precious time. Then you should let go everything. I moved out and changed my tel. no. and didn't tell him. We still contacted through email to talk about $. You should know a woman doesn't have a lot of time to find a man. When you get older, it's more difficult. so you'd better be decisive and control your life quickly. Some of my friends think that I find my present husband so quickly but it's what I should do otherwise no man likes to find a divorced old woman. I was divorced but I was still young when I met my present husband (30).

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發表於 06-12-25 11:29 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

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發表於 06-12-25 11:31 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

yes, I also think that i will move out first to let me calm down and try the new lifestyle. If I give myself serval months, then my tresure time will not have much remaining.

But, I need to move out or he should move out? Then, I can hold his house ar.

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發表於 06-12-25 11:32 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

32 is not old. You still have chance but you should find a job ASAP 'cos having $ is very important. He may think you won't leave him 'cos you don't have $.

Your husband won't leave that woman 'cos they have bb. (I don't know whether it's true or not, maybe an excuse). You still don't have a bb, so don't wait for him.

You and your husband have too many problems so you can't have bb with him forever. Do you want a husband who has a bb with other woman and you can't have a bb with him? Don't do it.

At that time, I just thought 'I spent 10 years with him and he treated me like that so I should waste more time. I should find someone better soon.

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發表於 06-12-25 11:35 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

Don't care whether you can get his house 'cos it's not yours. If you want to get it, you will spend a lot of time fighting with him.

Remember, what you don't have is time. Leave him ASAP and calm down and have your new life ASAP. Then you will know how good your life is.

It's what I learnt after my very bad experience.

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Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

由 lovebb74 於 2006-12-25 11:25:31
The most consideration was I am not young now..I am 32. But, I don't think that he will leave her since he said it before that he use the baby as an excuse.

Now, I think i should let it go. I still didn't have baby and have my economy independent. I also have a new job waitinng for me to reply.

I need a new start now, including my personal life and carrer.

天空之城, 快樂之地

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發表於 06-12-25 11:36 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

i have my present job now and want to change my job. And there is a company waiting for my reply after thsi Christmas holiday. So, I do not need to care about $.

I also spend 11 years with him, but he still treat me like that. I think I should treat it as an most imporatant experience in my life. He is my first man in my life.

Yes, he always said that I shouldn't suitable to have a bb as I am not mature enought. But, why he can have bb with that women without thinking it?

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發表於 06-12-25 11:38 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

If you can move, it's also good 'cos you can have a new life.

Ask him if he can support you now 'cos he's till your husband. If he doesn't want to pay you any then you know he's not a good man.

If he still treats you well, it means he's not too bad. but it doesn't mean he loves you.

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發表於 06-12-25 11:42 |只看該作者

Re: 老公與第三者有了bb

My ex- is also my first man so I was very sad at that time. I spend over 1 year forgetting the bad experience.

Don't be silly. He said you're immature. How about him, he has a bb with other woman. I think he's the most immature man. Don't believe him. Don't let him hurt you. You should still believe yourself.

I learned a lesson. I should control my life and believe myself. I should also make myself happy.

I need to have lunch with a friend. Talk later.

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