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meowmi 寫道:
I'm very angry, even until now!

I told my maid that if baby wakes up and cries at night, there must be some reasons and she has to wake up to check his diaper, clothes, blanket...and comfort him. That's her job as she sleeps in the same room.

Last night my son woke up again and again and cried helplessly, I noticed that my maid had waken up once or twice to check his diaper, and then I heard my maid said that "I don't want to hear you cry anymore or else you go outside to sleep!"

Oh my god, how dare she said such kind of words to my son! I feel very angry and go inside my son' room to carry, hug him and comfort him immediately. I didn't blame her at the moment because I thought the most important thing is to comfort my son asap and I know that if I blame her that moment, I'll absolutely lose my control.

This morning when I left to work at 8:30 a.m., she was still sleeping (she is off at 11:30 p.m. last night and how ironic that she can always sleep longer than me!)

I'm still very angry and have asked my husband to talk to her this morning seriously. We don't want our son to have the wrong concept that

"sleeping is such an unhappy thing",
"whenever he has a bad dream, it's his own fault"
"he is wrong to express his fear when he has bad dream"

But I think my husband will not blame her as he always wants to be the good guy!

Tonight I will definitely talk to her again seriously!