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別墅

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發表於 07-2-27 13:16 |只看該作者

Re: 放假後第一日, 九龍塘真光中學就有人要跳樓!

Teachers are ordinary people like everyone who need to face problems in life and at the same time under great pressure to be a "saint" from the society. Some studies indicate that they are actually more prompted to destructive behaviors. So why don't we be a bit more sympathetic to this teahcer instead.
Martina 寫道:
i think that is a student, a mature adult should not do that. Especially I respect all the teacher - they should have high EG to handle problems.


男爵府

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發表於 07-2-27 13:18 |只看該作者

Re: 放假後第一日, 九龍塘真光中學就有人要跳樓!

甘大個人, 唔应該帶自己的私人煩惱回工作地點. vice versa
老師都情緒不穩做儍事, 學生咪有樣學樣 ?


男爵府

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發表於 07-2-27 13:20 |只看該作者

Re: 放假後第一日, 九龍塘真光中學就有人要跳樓!


子爵府

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發表於 07-2-27 13:23 |只看該作者

Re: 放假後第一日, 九龍塘真光中學就有人要跳樓!

anyway, 快d 康復, 我諗d 學生都好想念佢ka.


男爵府

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發表於 07-2-27 13:27 |只看該作者

Re: 放假後第一日, 九龍塘真光中學就有人要跳樓!

Teachers are ordinary people like everyone who need to face problems in life and at the same time under great pressure to be a "saint" from the society. Some studies indicate that they are actually more prompted to destructive behaviors. So why don't we be a bit more sympathetic to this teahcer instead.
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不是不同情她, 但是身為專业人士的她应該有比尋死更好之處理方法, 找朋友, 找社工.....
同埋唔应該係 學生面前放棄自己, 事情發生後, 她現在連回到學校只會面對比前更大的壓力. 而家情况不是更糟?


大宅

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發表於 07-2-27 13:30 |只看該作者

Re: 放假後第一日, 九龍塘真光中學就有人要跳樓!

I basically agree to your point, but, "teacher" is a very different career, not a job, when you choose this career, you have to ask yourself whether you can manage it.
Since you are suppose to lead all the students, so they watch you, they learn from you, they act like you. And the most important thing is, they do not have the ability to judge whether what the teacher did is good or bad, they are supposed to learn at school.
So, thats why teachers are "saint". I would suggest before taking up the career as teacher, one should make sure they can handle their own emotion.
One more thing, even she choose to suicide, she should not choose the school, I think she is not qualified to be a teacher.

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DMJ103 寫道:
Teachers are ordinary people like everyone who need to face problems in life and at the same time under great pressure to be a "saint" from the society. Some studies indicate that they are actually more prompted to destructive behaviors. So why don't we be a bit more sympathetic to this teahcer instead. [quote]


別墅

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Re: 放假後第一日, 九龍塘真光中學就有人要跳樓!

DMJ103 寫道:
Teachers are ordinary people like everyone who need to face problems in life and at the same time under great pressure to be a "saint" from the society. Some studies indicate that they are actually more prompted to destructive behaviors. So why don't we be a bit more sympathetic to this teahcer instead.


不是不同情老師,但如果老師不能自制情緒,真是很危險; 在學生角度,在家父母為首,在學校,就是老師了,就算今次老師沒有跳,已在學生們心中留下了一個陰影.

老師這種工作,教育的是未成年的兒童,兒童一般思想未成熟,很容易受到影響,所以當老師真的比其他行業更需要有責任感和自制能力.

希望該位老師不會被解聘,並能為問題找到出路.

人死了,不是找到出路,而是走上絕路,再沒有彎轉,希望該位老師珍惜自己生命.


複式洋房

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48#
發表於 07-2-27 13:48 |只看該作者

Re: 放假後第一日, 九龍塘真光中學就有人要跳樓!

我想就算不解聘, 也會調他去一些次要 d 的岡位, 真光是我的母校, 且它是一所虔誠的基督教學校. 我也記掛他們.

小學時也有一位我不認識男老師在學校跳樓死亡, 當時我太細亦不太明白, 只記得很多老師很傷心.
耶穌說: <我是好牧人, 好牧人為羊捨命.>


複式洋房

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發表於 07-2-27 13:52 |只看該作者

Re: 放假後第一日, 九龍塘真光中學就有人要跳樓!

不過我想教師都是普通人, 當壓力太大, 情緒失控, 便會爆出來, 她自己都處理不到, 老師的eq 都很重要. 但周圍的人都要多些包容去接受.

debbie2006 寫道:
我想就算不解聘, 也會調他去一些次要 d 的岡位, 真光是我的母校, 且它是一所虔誠的基督教學校. 我也記掛他們.

小學時也有一位我不認識男老師在學校跳樓死亡, 當時我太細亦不太明白, 只記得很多老師很傷心.
耶穌說: <我是好牧人, 好牧人為羊捨命.>


大宅

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50#
發表於 07-3-3 17:30 |只看該作者

Re: 放假後第一日, 九龍塘真光中學就有人要跳樓!

若一個人已去到自殺地步, 其"行為"不是可以用常理推動去做.


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51#
發表於 07-3-3 20:15 |只看該作者

Re: 放假後第一日, 九龍塘真光中學就有人要跳樓!


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