if you afraid she will 對bb不利,set webcam lar!! Even you treat her like friend, if she is the bad kind of maid, she will still 對bb不利!!
I also try to treat my maid like friend, I will chat with her and buy her snack.. but honestly.. haha.. deep in my heart, in most of the cases, I would feel unfair..... coz' I am paying her
I guess we can treat them nice, but on the other hand, when things related to her work, we need to be strict!! Afterall, we are the employer.. I guess no matter how, we can't in the same level like our boss gar lar.. why the maid can be different?!??!
I guess when you point out her mistake... try your best to show her you are looking at the matter but nothing personal~~
Yes, I had the same feeling when my maid asked / said things like your maid!!! I think even they said it unintentionally (I sometime think maybe it's the language barrier... )... I still feel like she is trying to say i am not taking care of BB well... sometimes I feel like I'm working under her coz' she sometimes will said thing like I asked her after work...... but eventually, I learnt to overcome that feeling.. and when she asked / said things like that, I will response in a very cold tone.. let her know she said something stupid~~
actually, i have brought a web cam but don't know how to install... i have set a topic to ask anyone can help but no one reply.....
i think i should follow what you suggest....response in a very cold tone when she is impolite...
you know, in these few days, i seldom talk to her and look at her.... although she has "串" me yesterday, seems she say more thing... e.g. this morning i told that she can have day off tomorrow... then she told me that she would go and buy sth for her children and asked her fd to bringing back to Philiphine.. and thus she requested her day off on tomorrow...
may be we are too friendly before, so she think it's ok to say anything...
hope that she will keep on la..if not.. I should FIRE her.
我同意安全感 is given by the parents mar... I think as long as the parents provide enough 安全感 to the BB... 換工人 is better to keep a 工人 not taking good care of BB
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