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hi all sisters.

very tired day for me.
i am happy for last week as my son's behavior is good. (no naughty). i'm happy till this afternoon, my son is naughty for something in class. both teacher and i can't handle him as his emotion is up suddenly. he used his head to bump me and the teacher.... he took a long time to settle down.
this is very dangerous as if i 'm bingo, it may hurt. .........

pls pray for me to have wisdom and power to handle this siutaion and can have a proper way to solve this kind of issue.

............ very hard to tell the details. i really need to look upon God. .....

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由不能接受不育至IVF 經歷神

各位姊妹主內平安,

給我發現了這個forum內彼此支持及關顧都真的很感恩, 好想將自己的經歷與你們分享, 已婚多年(over 6yrs), 看過中, 西醫(日日量體溫等排卵)及很多民間偏方都試過仍末能承受神的產業。其後經婦產科醫生轉介至威院做人工受孕。

不能接受IVF
因要排期見醫生都等了一年多, 期間都覺得自己如能在各方面安排得好點就不用接受人工受孕, 並且很無知地認為若肯付巨額金錢(至少對我來說)人工受孕一定得。那豈不是超越了神的權能嗎? 一方面很抗拒, 另一方面也很掙扎。最後都去了見醫生, 才明白到要自然成孕的機會很低。與此同時神讓我與一位已很少聯絡的姊妹談及不育的問題(其實真的很難向他人啟齒), 她也有著同樣的問題(不育)。並正在威院接受IVF療程, 她告訴我就算做了IVF成功率也很低, 若沒有神在當中的帶領及恩典也是很難成就的。

從IVF療程中經歷神
我和先生相量後都接受了醫生的建議儘早做IVF。由開始食藥第一天已感不適(可能從同事間染了感冒)好擔心不能夠完成整個療程。幸好幾日後痊癒, 跟著的噴鼻、驗血、打針、照ultra sound都很順利, 以為一切都在我們的撐握當中。但到了打針的第7天, 得知我的卵巢反應很差只有三粒卵泡, 要加重藥份(但我並沒有太在意)。

可是到了第9天覆診醫生竟然告訴我有一邊的卵巢完全沒有反應, 只有4粒参差不齊的卵泡, 而且它們都長在子宮的後面, 要用針穿過我的子宮才能抽取, 所以有一定的難度。當時我的心情真的直插谷底, 在車上告訴husband時更認不住哭了出來。但感謝主! 從husband的安慰再一次提醒, 我應當交託及順服神。

到了第14天當醫生告訴我只能成功抽得2粒卵泡(正常是8-13粒), 但我心裡仍然很平安, 感覺到主真的沒有離棄我並時刻與我同在。就算沒有兒女神至少都給了我一個很好的伴侶(my husband)。

主的恩典真的夠用, 第16天醫院竟call我翌日回去方放卵。當時我真的不敢相信, 並安排好其他節目, 若然回到醫院發現是攪錯了,也不至要回到家中失落嚎哭。怎料到了手術室後醫生竟對我說: 「你真的很好彩!
2粒都受了精(但1粒細胞分裂得不好), 而其中1粒的quality則很好」。

由放卵到現在都沒有如腹脹、嘔吐等不良反應。雖然還要多等10多天才能確定是否著床成功, 就算成功仍有很漫長的日子去凡經過。但此刻的我真的願意全然交託並順服在神的旨意中。

在此, 希望我的經歷成為姊妹們的鼓勵, 而且更需要你們的代禱。

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發表於 07-10-21 20:18 |只看該作者

venus tam

原文章由 VenusTam 於 07-10-20 19:03 發表
pipimom,

恭喜你呀!時間的確很快,你bb已兩個月,一切就像昨日發生般,但事實上,我們已經歷了不少,好好享受這個時間,我相,湊/餵bb是辛苦的,但應該也是一件樂事。

bbangel123,

我等了廣華一年有多,total要兩年才可以 ...

多謝你的意見及分享, 其實我都吾知龍柄梁醫生好不好,但我看醫生看到冇嘜方向,因我催乳激數高,他給我藥叫我食d激數正常反,現在激數已回覆正常,但d經期都不准,但現在仍然有藥要食,d藥食完時侯我剛剛要去看廣華,所以我會到廣華看看,聽聽doctor意見先,再算!謝謝你

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chubby

原文章由 chubby07 於 07-10-21 19:18 發表
各位姊妹主內平安,

給我發現了這個forum內彼此支持及關顧都真的很感恩, 好想將自己的經歷與你們分享, 已婚多年(over 6yrs), 看過中, 西醫(日日量體溫等排卵)及很多民間偏方都試過仍末能承受神的產業。其後經婦 ...

謝謝你分享,看了你的經歷,又再一次堤醒"交託"這两个字,我相信你將你的事交託給他,他一定會與你同行,為你預備,願神保守你有平安,喜樂的心等待神的產業,努力姊妹,為你禱告:)

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發表於 07-10-21 20:35 |只看該作者

原文章由 bbangel123 於 07-10-21 20:30 發表

謝謝你分享,看了你的經歷,又再一次堤醒"交託"這两个字,我相信你將你的事交託給他,他一定會與你同行,為你預備,願神保守你有平安,喜樂的心等待神的產業,努力姊妹,為你禱告:) ...

bbangel,

Thanks a lot for your prompt response and prayer.

Chubby

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發表於 07-10-21 20:55 |只看該作者

各位好呀﹗呢排又多左留言，要慢慢追﹗

catmummum﹕好好bed rest多d，有機會，早d去醫院check。希望小b健康成長﹗relax呀﹗

julibe、bbangel123﹕hello﹗keep on & keep pray﹗

在祂沒有難成的事，今日崇拜的提醒是﹕堅持到底的信心﹗真的要有但以理的堅持，就算「即或不然」，都求神堅固我們，不要失掉信心。

venus﹕希望你排卵正常﹗不過你要再等下我消息......未有消息呀~~~ 有排等﹗快d幫我祈禱發功，希望22號出世，同我同一日。:loveliness:

yimyee﹕你要爭取多d休息呀﹗11月的process，一切smooth﹗

kelly﹕希望你仔仔的情緒快d stable﹗而你keep住兩條線，係咪即係bingo左呀？好緊張呀﹗

pipimom﹕梗係記得你啦﹗你個仔仔都兩個月喇.........我仲等緊。

希望我地呢個版o既姊妹一個一個咁bingo......遲d搞個小b感恩聚會，呢個dream，我相信靠祂必成就﹗

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發表於 07-10-22 00:38 |只看該作者

Hi all sisters, Thanks for yr sharings, so touch, so encourage! Praise God! Knew lots good news & bad news from u but we all in God's good hand. So He will lead us.Let's have faith.

Lic9, Can't wait to c yr lovely baby girl! Really hope u can have the same b/d. That'll be amazing!

I'm still waiting for God property. I had finished 12cycles of Clomid, so I don't know after this month what can doc do to me!

Pls help pray for me, I'll have God's mercy someday b4 I'm too old. (41 now, beg I'm the eldest here

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發表於 07-10-22 12:45 |只看該作者

catmummum,

I know how you feel, but don't worry, everything will be fine, just relax and lots of bed rest. When I was pregnant with my twins, I had the same problem, but mine was really bad, I had bleeding, but more than my M, it was really bad, I thought my babies were gone. But then the doctor asked me to bed rest and took some medicine and injection, and I also went to see chinese doctor. Just relax, I bleed for 6 weeks, and after 12 weeks of my pregnancy, no more bleeding and everything was fine, I bed rest for 4 months ar. Pray for you and your baby. Take care.

原文章由 catmummum 於 07-10-19 21:09 發表
多謝你呀lic9，其實我呢兩日都好擔心傢，因為有少許流啡同今日仲有紅，一切交託給神，願神好好保守我地，lic9，可以幫我代禱嗎？:-P

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發表於 07-10-22 13:05 |只看該作者

good day all

lic9
will check tmr and if bingo, will call back to clinic

still have worries . pls pray for my husband and i , have better arrangement for my son's activities. (esp. Sat) .
and i 'm searching for any sources can help my son's emotional problem.

twins_mummy
that sounds scary. and bed rest for 4 months! that's not easy.
hope i can rely on God. ..

原文章由 lic9 於 07-10-21 20:55 發表
各位好呀﹗呢排又多左留言，要慢慢追﹗

catmummum﹕好好bed rest多d，有機會，早d去醫院check。希望小b健康成長﹗relax呀﹗

julibe、bbangel123﹕hello﹗keep on & keep pray﹗ 在祂沒有難成的事，今日崇拜的提醒是﹕堅持到底的信心﹗真的要 ...

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發表於 07-10-22 15:59 |只看該作者

「我年紀已好大，40有+，我同老公都驗過無問題，自己亦辭左工等生b，但試左多次都唔成功！

看了董醫生check排卵、打針，於上週五M小姐好準時嚟到，同自己講：「平常心，順其自然。」到左晚上忍唔住又再哭得很厲害，情緒也十分低落......

今天day4，打電話俾董醫生，姑娘同我講，叫我休息一個月，下次M嚟day1再打電話俾佢。

如果妳係我，妳會放棄嗎？一次又一次，我已經40有+，我諗咩iui、ivf我都冇資格做，前面好似毫無盼望，日子溜走，機會微上加微，連董醫生也說只因我年紀大，我真的很難過，很想放棄，但又很不甘心，究竟我應該點做？」

同先生商量過，試多一次便順其自然，希望自己真的接受到。

請妳們為我祈禱，讓我活出信心的生活，信任神給我的一切，我真的很需要妳們的支持，因除了這裡我根本不敢對他人說。:-(

《在神面前萬事非偶然，因神計劃萬有。》

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發表於 07-10-22 16:14 |只看該作者

chubby07，

看完妳的分享很感動，特別看到『就算沒有兒女神至少都給了我一個很好的伴侶(my husband)。』

主的恩典夠妳用(雖然我只懂對人說)，會每天為妳祈禱，小心保重身體。

原文章由 chubby07 於 07-10-21 19:18 發表
各位姊妹主內平安,

給我發現了這個forum內彼此支持及關顧都真的很感恩, 好想將自己的經歷與你們分享, 已婚多年(over 6yrs), 看過中, 西醫(日日量體溫等排卵)及很多民間偏方都試過仍末能承受神的產業。其後經婦 ...

《在神面前萬事非偶然，因神計劃萬有。》

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發表於 07-10-22 16:48 |只看該作者

pinkypiggy﹕明白你的難受。就放聲和天父說吧﹗

我也曾如此因m come而狂哭.....面對自己的情緒，再讓神來醫治、管理。

birdyfan﹕很久不見喇﹗希望你的身體好，好快有bb﹗

原文章由 pinkypiggy 於 07-10-22 15:59 發表
「我年紀已好大，40有+，我同老公都驗過無問題，自己亦辭左工等生b，但試左多次都唔成功！

看了董醫生check排卵、打針，於上週五M小姐好準時嚟到，同自己講：「平常心，順其自然。」到左晚上忍唔住又再哭得很厲害，情緒也十分低落...... ...

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發表於 07-10-22 18:18 |只看該作者

pinkypiggy

原文章由 pinkypiggy 於 07-10-22 15:59 發表
「我年紀已好大，40有+，我同老公都驗過無問題，自己亦辭左工等生b，但試左多次都唔成功！

看了董醫生check排卵、打針，於上週五M小姐好準時嚟到，同自己講：「平常心，順其自然。」到左晚上忍唔住又再哭得很厲害，情緒也十分低落...... ...

hellon pinkypiggy: 我明白你的難受,確實無論身體或心靈去面對或經歷這個情况真的不容易,放鬆自己,勿給自己太大壓力,將所有自己的事交託給上帝,我自己都是經歷這個情况,但每當我灰心,失意時我都會想起亞伯拉罕,他太太連經期都停了,根本就無可能生育,但神就讓她生育了,極奇妙.在人看來沒可能,但在神裹你凡事都能.努力，為你禱告

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發表於 07-10-22 18:43 |只看該作者

pinkypiggy

pray for u . May God guide u and give u peace.
hope u can get strength from the Above.

原文章由 pinkypiggy 於 07-10-22 16:14 發表
chubby07，

看完妳的分享很感動，特別看到『就算沒有兒女神至少都給了我一個很好的伴侶(my husband)。』

主的恩典夠妳用(雖然我只懂對人說)，會每天為妳祈禱，小心保重身體。

...

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發表於 07-10-22 23:59 |只看該作者

HI all sisters,

Mid cycle for me, I believe I have ov'd as my temp. shows an increase for couple of days so far. Still trying and surrander to God.

pinkypiggy, sorry to hear that you have gone thr. so much. Praying that God will give you strength and peace.

Venus, How are you? Any improvement with ov'? I think I ov'd because of the clomid.

Kelly, any improvement with your son? Praying for you and your hubby for tmr's test. Pray that God will help and guide you.

BBbangel, praying for you 2. Here is a good place to get support from each other.

Sarahlin, how are you?

Grace, still busy? Any improvement with your cycle?

YimYee, your IVF cycle will start soon, how are you feeling?

Lic9, really excited for you. Friend of mine just gave birth to a boy, and another is overdue for a few days. Probably have induced yesterday. Praying for your delivery.

And thx for all the sharing and encouragement. As I can see hope in front of us.

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發表於 07-10-23 00:13 |只看該作者

Pinkypiggy,

Thank you, it is very warm to receive your response and encourage.

I had just read your message. I really understand your feeling; it is not easy to stay calm and peace during the hard time. What we can is: Do our best and left God to do the rest. Don't give up!

As I told myself if I can't get pregnant this time. I'll keep trying to do something. (Even I'm old enough).

God is good who give me so many good sisters here to strengthen each other through our sharing. And it is great to have you for sure.

Thanks for your prayer and we'll keep praying for each others as well.

原文章由 pinkypiggy 於 07-10-22 16:14 發表
chubby07，

看完妳的分享很感動，特別看到『就算沒有兒女神至少都給了我一個很好的伴侶(my husband)。』

主的恩典夠妳用(雖然我只懂對人說)，會每天為妳祈禱，小心保重身體。

...

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發表於 07-10-23 01:58 |只看該作者

Hi Chubby07,

Thx for your sharing. And praying for you that God gives your peace during (waiting) this critical moment. I had 3 miscarriages myself, tried Chinese Ec & western medicine and still trying. The next stop would be IVF if nothing happen in these 3 months. Wish you all the best!

原文章由 chubby07 於 07-10-21 19:18 發表
各位姊妹主內平安,

給我發現了這個forum內彼此支持及關顧都真的很感恩, 好想將自己的經歷與你們分享, 已婚多年(over 6yrs), 看過中, 西醫(日日量體溫等排卵)及很多民間偏方都試過仍末能承受神的產業。其後經婦 ...

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發表於 07-10-23 12:05 |只看該作者

Hello, how are you all? Just read a lot of your sharing, and I can relate to your feelings totally. We have all been through a lot. For me, while I was trying to get pregnant and under going the IVF treatment, I take it as a lesson God has made just for me, there is something He wants me to learn before I can be a parent. He wants me to know that I am NOT in control, HE IS. He also taught me how to LET GO, and leave everything to HIM and have FAITH in Him (which I think it is the hardest part, coz we are all human and we can't help but to worry with so many things). Honestly, I haven't learn all these after my first miscarriage, only when I had the ectopic pregnancy and when I am so close to death, then I realised I am NOT IN CONTROL, not even with my own life, HE IS. After I have realised this, I feel as free as a bird, I gave my burden to HIM, and he took over and control. Trust me, in your prayers tonight, let Him take control, and HE shall give you peace in your heart.

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