In fact, 'fate' had also arranged me many 'chances' to establish 'adultery' relationship. There was 'true love' carrying also.
However, I stayed very 'concious' and told myself that 'adultery' relationship was not a 'must' for 'life'.
It is only 'abnormal' relationship which can only bring deterimental effects to my family.
I love my wife/daughter/family thus I manage to stay myself always away from these affairs.