Me too! I decreasingly include them when I buy meals nowadays. Though it sometimes depends on my mood for the day.
But back in those days when my good Bun was here, she was most of the time included no matter where we go and what we eat. I think there won't be another helper like this lu !! Sigh...
bb鼠 發表於 11-3-31 22:46
d 6 呀,連叫佢哋去買米都唔好意思架...叫親佢叫大西瓜去買米,佢自己偷偷走去買架 ...
My C6 acts in same way. That's kind of dignity for man (I believe). They don't want to ask a helper, or a woman, to help themselves carry heavy stuff, which, in their perception,should be the duty of man. They may have feeling of inferioirty/shame if they ask for the help of a helper with heavy stuff.