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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

KwanKwan2046,

You mentioned 報告出來是壞消息, what is the bad news?

I had to terminate pregnancy in week 16, as the size of the baby becomes big, so the method of 塞葯自然流出 is recommended. Maybe I can share with you my experience. For me, I started the process from 9 am in the morning, I did 塞 5 times 葯 (every 3 hours you will 塞 1 time 葯 to help the uterus contract), and approx. at 7 pm on the same day, my baby came out. After that, since there is normally still some "stuff" left inside the uterus, so I did "Kwat Kung". Since your baby is 2 weeks younger, maybe you don't need to take so long.

Please be strong. It's gonna be ok. I did mine back in late Oct and now after visiting chinese doctor regularly, I am now starting to try for baby again.

If there is anything I can help to answer, give me a shout!! All sisters here will support you.

When is your operation scheduled for? Which hospital will you go to?

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

to kwankwan2046

我也36了, 我會這樣鼓勵自己:有很多四十至五十的女星, 例如關詠荷吳君如林青霞都可以生到寶寶的, 大家一起努力....

我媽有位鄰居是四十五歲才生第一胎的, 她的寶寶精靈可愛...所以不要放棄, 明白妳的心痛...

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chupatpat 寫道:
gracedolly,

你好呀!我都係book咗下個禮拜做手術架!唔好咁擔心啦,我啲有經驗嘅朋友都話私家醫院醫生嘅手勢會幾好,唔會有事架!
同埋,你宜家要面對嘅係要儘快調理好身體,唔好俾咁大壓力自己, 其他嘢都係其次咋!

謝謝妳的鼓勵, 大家都要加油, 在手術後要養好身體再努力（*Ｔ＾Ｔ）

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發表於 07-1-28 10:11 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Sanmama , gracedolly,

多謝妳們的支持關心和分享經歷, 抽絨毛測試報告出來是三染色體型的唐氏綜合症. 所以沒有辨法下要放棄. 但我依加仲係好擔心和覺得好殘忍. 因為他還在我肚裡活著. 本來一切好好的. 一個報告就要送他去死. 實在好不忍心. 家人朋友都說如生他出來大家都痛苦一生, 到時就後侮不來了. 醫生說等他大多一星期就做葯流會易D. 依加我很痛苦. 每日只識哭而已. 擔心生他出來的一殺那我會崩澮. Sanmama多謝妳的關心妳現在身體回復了嗎? 大家一起加油再努力. 等我回來再上來說吧.

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發表於 07-1-28 11:33 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Kwankwan2046,

I totally understand your situation as my case was also confirmed for 唐氏綜合症 on week 16 in last Oct. It was a tragedy, I also 覺得好殘忍, but I think both of us have made the right decision. Of course we will question why would such happen on us, for me, it's like 1/1000 chance. But we should also be grateful that we now get to discover early and our dearest baby don't need to suffer in the future, like what your relatives and friends have said.
I also had the toughest time like you, my husband almost thought I am going to have depression after the abortion. But come to think of it, at least our problem this time ie the down syndrome is not really inherited problem, we are unlucky this time but we won't be unlucky all the time, otherwise we should win lottery!!! Right? We have to stay positive.
I rested for over 3 weeks before going to work again. I spent the time talking to the sisters here like Oiluen and the others, it really helped. Make sure you do the same, ok??!! Now, I don't try to think back of what happened but instead, look forward.
It is very sad but definitely not the end of the world, crying is ok, but you need to takecare of yourself while crying.
Hope the process will go well for you next week.
You know what? You should go out and eat something you have stopped eating during pregnancy, I went out to eat my all time favourite street-side spicy fishballs, sashimi while I was waiting for operation, it was a slight relief to pain. Because after the operation, you have to eat healthy again ... you might just take the chance!!!
Sorry for my long-winded message.

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發表於 07-1-28 11:40 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Kwankwan2046

You make the right decision, you help the baby not to get pain in the future.

Keep strong and don't cry la!
Everything will be fine in future!

BK sisters always at your side, you are not lonely!

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發表於 07-1-28 11:44 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Sanmama

Are you try again now! ^0^
I also like you, I eat sashimi and chips before abortion to resolve the depression, it seems okay to me to eat the food I like. And after abortion, I eat healthy again.

It is a good idea to eat somthing we like to resolve the depression.

I will try again in April, and I and husband will go to Japan in March, just play one more time before having baby.

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發表於 07-1-28 13:01 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Sanmama,
好高興你心情已平伏, 從你寫既野可以反映出黎!

各位姊妹,
我地幾個月前都好似你地咁, 但係你睇我地, 我地而家又可以準備重頭來過! 大家要互相支持! 有唔開心, 不妨同我地傾下~

我21週小產時, 肚內的bb也是活的, 但, 既然有問題, 我地都控制唔到, 即使拖到24週才生bb出來, 對bb將來實在殘忍, 天可能不想我地bb將來痛苦, 所以早日給bb出來呢!

囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

唔知大家有無好似我咁既情況, 就係由有bb至小產後, 掉頭髮多了很多............. 我真的很擔心呢~~~ 我而家都有睇中醫所以掉頭髮!!

囝囝的blog : http://lhc1128.blogspot.com/

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發表於 07-1-28 21:04 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

oiluen

我同事生完bb都掉很多頭髮
因為hormos 問題遲些會好d
不過要日日洗頭因為有頭油會掉得仲多

oiluen 寫道:
唔知大家有無好似我咁既情況, 就係由有bb至小產後, 掉頭髮多了很多............. 我真的很擔心呢~~~ 我而家都有睇中醫所以掉頭髮!!

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

我是日日洗頭的, 這是我的習慣~
我已經小產三個多月, 但仍然有此問題, 真的令人擔心啊~~~

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妳地好,我都剛12月小產左

其實我地可以係呢度"分享"吓大家意見, 話唔定找到大家共同經驗..

其實我先生精子活動能力和形態都不很好, 先前第一之係靠食排孕丸加untra sound預計時間do do 成孕, 而第二次就沒有食排孕丸但仍用untrasound 預計時間do do 而成孕, 可惜兩次都小產, :-( :-( 有一次聽一個姊妹講, 正常精子起碼再體內生存三天, 如果有問題的通常一天已經不能生存, 如果硬set 好時間do do , 返而比有問題精子成孕, 最後引至小產..

經過事後檢討我唔打算再用untrasound甚至排孕捧check啦啦! 返而遲D考慮做IUI, 可以搵D好形態精子減少小產機會

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發表於 07-1-29 01:56 |只看該作者

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dear all BK sister,

not sure if you gals still remember. I was miscarriaged on 21/11/2006. I'm so sad to tell you that my M still hasn't come. I've visited the western doctor and he asked me to wait... ai....

besides, my husband's sister delivered her baby two days agao and I went to the hospital to visit her yesterday. So sad that the hsopital is where I have miscarriage operation also.... I felt so grey!!

Cherrychris

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發表於 07-1-29 11:07 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

cherrychris

Dont' be grey! Like other BK sister, healthy baby will come to us soon.

Is your doctor suggest you to take 催經藥
It is not good to wait too long
I do operation on 7/12, my M come on 19/1
and my doctor check that it is M, and he tell me previously if my M not come after 1 1/2 month, I need to take this pills to make the M come.

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

點解呢
醫生同我講精子的形態同活動能力不是小產的最大原因
最大的原因係分裂時出現問題或基因突變
如果能夠受孕著床即係精子同卵子都冇問題
我有問過醫生先生要不要驗精醫生講不用啦
佢話不良的精子跟本受唔到孕反而未成熟的卵子可以受孕
所以我下次要食排卵藥等卵子的質素好些
我有個同事小產個兩次第三次都有作小產生左啦

你地醫生點講小產呢

SmartCandy 寫道:
妳地好,我都剛12月小產左

其實我地可以係呢度"分享"吓大家意見, 話唔定找到大家共同經驗..

其實我先生精子活動能力和形態都不很好, 先前第一之係靠食排孕丸加untra sound預計時間do do 成孕, 而第二次就沒有食排孕丸但仍用untrasound 預計時間do do 而成孕, 可惜兩次都小產, :-( :-( 有一次聽一個姊妹講, 正常精子起碼再體內生存三天, 如果有問題的通常一天已經不能生存, 如果硬set 好時間do do , 返而比有問題精子成孕, 最後引至小產..

經過事後檢討我唔打算再用untrasound甚至排孕捧check啦啦! 返而遲D考慮做IUI, 可以搵D好形態精子減少小產機會

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發表於 07-1-29 11:26 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Oiluen,

我最初都有掉好多頭髮, 但過一個月已正常番。
咁你咪好驚咯?有冇試Ｄ防掉髮shampoo吖?

Ksorange,
係呀,我10月底abortion,今個月第一次試。我今日day 29,忍唔住test下有冇中獎,但一Ｄ痕跡都冇。不過邊有咁易!!
所以我都会照原定計劃Chinese new Year去泰國旅行。
老公仲想5月去南非睇動物,但要打針架,of course no lah!
咁你睇定日本有咩玩未呀？

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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

chupatpat,

加油呀, chupatpat, 勇敢面對, 支持你, 希望一切順利!
仲有, 要注意手術後的調理,小心身體, 希望你快快康復, 有健康的身體!

兒女是耶和華所賜的產業．所懷的胎、是他所給的賞賜。
詩 127:3

我的肺腑是你所造的．我在母腹中、你已覆庇我。我要稱謝你、因我受造奇妙可畏．你的作為奇妙．這是我心深知道的。
詩篇139:13-14

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發表於 07-1-29 12:21 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

my doctor said the same thing as yours - more likely to be a problem with the egg rather than sperm.[quote]
ksorange 寫道:
點解呢
醫生同我講精子的形態同活動能力不是小產的最大原因
最大的原因係分裂時出現問題或基因突變
如果能夠受孕著床即係精子同卵子都冇問題
我有問過醫生先生要不要驗精醫生講不用啦
佢話不良的精子跟本受唔到孕反而未成熟的卵子可以受孕
所以我下次要食排卵藥等卵子的質素好些
我有個同事小產個兩次第三次都有作小產生左啦

你地醫生點講小產呢

[quote]
SmartCandy 寫道:
妳地好,我都剛12月小產左

其實我地可以係呢度"分享"

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cherrychris