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professor 寫道:

her elder daughter is 4.5 yrs old, and her younger daughter is 4 mths old

cway 寫道:
5好諗咁多喇, 人人行既路都5同架! 至緊要係量力而為嗎

如果你真係好想生多個, 咪返去同老公再相量下, 大家傾下, 當係一個話題傾下計 :mrgreen:

professor 寫道:

yes, of course 要量力而為

你好叻, 你比我理智

cway 寫道:
有時你提下我, 有時我提下你, 咁咪增加大家既智慧囉

professor 寫道:

cway,

If you sell out your car, I think you can 養多個 too la, why you don't think think it ???

professor 寫道:

yes yes, i am very 冇用, very easy to 5 開心

cway 寫道:
我想生多個既困難, 部車只係佔一個好細既比例, 講真架車你隨時5要都得, 但係生多個, 我仲想比到基本既生活空間 & 生活質素佢, 而呢兩樣野, 我諗現階段都做5到, 即使做到, 會令到一家4口都可能好辛苦, 呢樣又係平衡既問題, 所以暫時要 喇!

professor 寫道:

coz 養 a car needs few thousand a month ga ma, few thousand a month 足夠 to 養 1 baby la

cway 寫道:
我諗幾千蚊養一位小朋友, 比到基本既生活佢梗係冇問題啦. 但係你諗諗, 淨係學費, 課外活動只5只幾千蚊? 再加上如果有多一個, 每人喺一間屋佔既空間就再少d 喇 咁樣平衡過, 係咪仲要堅持生多個呢

professor 寫道:

in my mind, 幾千蚊 is enough for myson ga la bor coz i don't 要求高 and will not let him attend many 課外活動

cway 寫道:
我都冇打算比10項8項課外活動比梓淳, 當1-2樣啦, 我諗呢個係基本, 好似你都會打算比myson學音樂, 學畫 or 游水, 呢d 要幾$, 大家心中有數. 何況未計住屋問題喎!

professor 寫道:

of course 未計住屋問題 but 幾千蚊/month is really enough for a baby wor

cway 寫道:
我自己計數就5夠喇, 所以5可以 lu!

professor 寫道:

cway,

don't worry too much, 學野有平有貴 ga ma, 可以自己 adjust

professor 寫道:

hehe of course 你會最清楚 la

but if i were you, i prefer to give up the car and have a baby ga

cway 寫道:
所以我話部車並5係令我放棄多一位小朋友既原因囉 講真, 如果因為一部車而放棄呢個機會, 果個都5係你地識得既我啦

cway 寫道:
professor,

我曾經諗過, 不如生多個, 但係到時兩位小朋友都5會有課外活動, 揀學校會以平為主要準側. 不過呢d 條件, 我sure我同老公都情願放棄第2位小朋友囉