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小白兔,
唔介意我好想知 why you can change from "bad" to 信主 ? why you can have this big 轉捩點 ? (sorry, should not bad)
因為我有個女 14 years, 佢好坦白同我講佢唔鍾意讀書, 重話其實好憎, 以前要讀係因為年齡細. 唔敢反抗, now 佢大個啦, 就覺得要 "cup" 時行樂, 已經有 boyfriend...... 就算 exam 期間都唔會溫書, 平時就更加唔駛講, 近呢 1/2 年, 我都無見過佢做 homework, 佢又好坦白咁話我知, 佢 everyday 係抄完同學 d homework 先返 home, 不過佢都唔係咁早返屋企....... 上堂又唔聽書....
我唔識教個女, 有時又會見佢滿懷心事, 悶悶不樂咁, 我有個 feeling 就係佢唔鍾意 home, 問佢有咩事唔開心, 佢只會講 "無野" never told me! 佢都唔算 bad, but 總係好無厘進取心, 好 "pair" 嘅態度 !
我覺得自己好失敗........真係好傷心....... !!!

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2hmama,

long time no see

...我冇嘔, 有阿囡都冇, 不過呢個好似大食積咁, 而家肥左7-8磅, 大左成個碼, 樣又衰塊面好似沙紙咁姐 ....其實你都好似教師, 我見過你1次都覺得你好有耐性同愛心都小朋友玩ar

小白兔,
我唔識睇相都知你感情一定多波折la...之前睇你簽名相都覺得..wah呢個媽咪好靚喎唔怪之得夠guts擺自己d相上黎, 會唔會你d男朋友覺得你個樣唔穩陣唔夠膽同你再行多一步ar

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JJ1122

咁米好law！起碼喜歡個個都是同校，你都有蹟可尋！！

2hmama

原來""老許""老左！

我知有同事gather together

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2hmama,

very sorry! 介紹d咁ga人比你, 我都未攞, 真係衰

佢好似講過會去uk, 但無里交帶

沒有醜嘅女人, 只有懶嘅女人!

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tkoeasy

我今天實在太得閒la !!
既然到這地步，只能欣賞your daughter 夠坦白，你要用開明態度，例如邀請her boyfriend back to home，我知很難，like me ，my son only 7 yrs old，always complaint very 悶，he like to play with his cousin but I hate his couse 11 yrs old，when the cousin came to my home I will black face and

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Thank naughtyboy.
i just want express my hard feeling in here, maybe can't get any way to solve the problem, cause this not a simple problem, need to take time and patient for me to learn how to get more closer with my daughter!
And now i just want can let myself "放鬆吓", 因為有時太大壓力, 我試過係公司忍唔住流眼淚 !

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naughtyboy, hee hee, thanks you.

Want to go with me next time to shop

Me too, 我要即買即知 whether I look good or not, don't like having my suits made, as have to wait for long time, besides, I hate to travel up and down between 深圳 and HK, so many people ne.

"每年換，1年throw 1 次"

So rich ar.

tkoeasy
naughtyboy is right, keep open minded and talk more to your daughter. Invite her boyfriends home as this is the only way you get to know the boy better, at least you will know who she hangs around with. Remember, at this age, they are like a tennis ball, the harder you hit it, the higher it will bounce. So relax.

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vivien,
千祈唔好 say sorry, you are so kind and helpful !! This is his own problem !! Always give me excuse, I make appointment with him for more than 5 times (for fitting) everytime 冇影/冇call, even I call him, voice mail only....

由度身(down payment)到今日, already three weeks, still not yet fitting and 揀布

tkoeasy,
Wah, you look so young but your daughter already "12" !!!! But I understand you feeling, try to talk with her and built up the relationship as friend (not mother and daughter), or try to talk with social worker, is really help !!!

Miss naughtyboy,
You shopping again !! Missha !!!

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Thanks ShanShan & naughtyboy,
actually i met "him" when they are 係街拍拖時, 當時我同我老公都表現我好 nice (面 with smile), at that night i ask my daughter ask "him" come and join us dinner when mother's day, but she refuse me immediately, she just say " 我地 3 個食就得啦 "(me, my husband and my daughter), 之後我都無再講野啦 !

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tkoeasy
剛剛有事所以stop 了！
好似我以前教書，其實d學生年紀參不多，如果純說教，他們根本不會聽，學生要求你講野up date 叻過佢，講嬴佢又要有幽默感！！
所以受人歡迎的老師，應該要有做"top sales"的條件！！

?-( ?-( ?-(

你們有沒有共同話題呀？不如一起去join "小白兔"的化粧班！又或者肉痛d，join summer course "遊學團，去China 呀平d！
好似上次我見個客，皮膚很差那位，我忍不住告訴她，如果她的skin 靚d，可能d學生會請教佢，咁米可以多d話題law！！
唉!我afraid 我個仔都可能會咁 because 獨仔！！我

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tkoeasy/ShanShan/naughtyboy/2hmama：
Thanks for sharing the experience of 親子, I think I need to remind myself ~~ built up the relationship as friend。

呢幾日講既topic, 都令我好impress.

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tkoeasy

That was a very good move of both your hubby and you, may be your daughter was not prepared for it. But how did the boy react? Just keep asking her, I am sure, the day will come.

Don't be upset. I think even I made my mother cried at least a few times when I was young, but now, we are very very good friends ne. Your daughter will understand, just a matter of sooner or later, cheer up.

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冬菇頭寫道:
tkoeasy/ShanShan/naughtyboy/2hmama：
Thanks for sharing the experience of 親子, I think I need to remind myself ~~ built up the relationship as friend。

呢幾日講既topic, 都令我好impress.

冬菇頭, I am also learning from the rest of you ne.

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JOD:
我今日空肚食左靈芝都唔係好得,個人好燥周身骨痛
仲自己咬到自己生埋飛滋:-(
我仲有樽未開的$150同你買,你有人食開$100賣返比
你丫得唔得呀?唔好意思呀搞到你同我買來買去sorry
sorry~

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Hi, all sisters....

Let's have a gathering (dinner + "K") on 10Jun, (since next day 11Jun is public holiday), anyone available ??? Any suggestion for the dinner ???
Please leave your name la......咁早date你o地,唔好話唔得丫......

1) 2hmama

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2hmama 寫道:
Hi, all sisters....

Let's have a gathering (dinner + "K") on 10Jun, (since next day 11Jun is public holiday), anyone available ??? Any suggestion for the dinner ???
Please leave your name la......咁早date你o地,唔好話唔得丫......

1) 2hmama
2) JJ1122

--- 2J 作品

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tkoeasy,

我一定無你咁好EQ...

--- 2J 作品

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10Jun gathering(since next day 11Jun is public holiday)
dinner + "K"
1) 2hmama
2) JJ1122
3)小白兔

joviemum:
係因為我好鍾意o個張相,好warm,好sweet feeling~~
同埋我諗住得個側面都睇唔清楚,咪擺o係度囉~
其實d xbf行得唔長,同我個樣冇關,全因為我以前d性格真係好唔掂~!!最主要都係對佢地太好,又太痴身,疑心又重,唔識得好似放紙鳶咁對佢地,個個都驚左我囉~~

tkoeasy,
我阿媽都見過哂我d bf ga~其實我以前雖然好反叛,但係我好在有個好開通ge阿媽,我有咩都會同佢講ga,d bf都係我主動帶俾佢見ge~其實只要你時時都好似fd咁同佢傾下,唔好俾佢覺得佢講咩做咩你都反對/唔like.你個囡已經好好ga喇,起碼佢肯對你咁坦白~不過佢咁唔鍾意讀書,你點樣勸佢都係冇用,因為佢都未曾行到去o個一步~以前都有好多人同我講要俾心機讀書啦,如果唔係到大時出來做野就會後悔~我咪一樣唔聽,因為未曾經歷過,根本就唔明白~!!
我明白冇一個父母想見到自己仔女行一條唔平坦ge路,但有時喱d野真係唔到我地去控制,大家能夠做ge,只係不斷灌輸一d正確ge觀念俾佢,但問題係佢地聽唔聽呢??有時候佢並唔係唔明白,佢知道我地講ge野係o岩ga wor~但問題係佢想唔想照住喱條o岩ge路行呢??要佢自己諗得通先得~

我之所以完全改變,並唔係一朝一夕ge事~我都係經過左好多事情,神先至慢慢將我修剪到今時今日咁樣.
其實o係我出來做野後,一直都冇辦法接受自己已長大,已係一個成年人,因為我覺得做大人真係好辛苦,要自給自足,要面對四面八方ge壓力,特別係我本身性格好有問題,令我唔多識得點樣去同人相處,覺得出面d人好假,令我好討厭.
大約5年前,一次好深刻ge經歷,我認識左耶穌,佢真係好堅,好真實~當時有一班姊妹幫我祈禱,佢地同我只係第一次見面,但佢地好親切,俾到一種好溫暖ge感覺我,係同我以前所認識ge人好唔同.
但係o個次神幫我解決左件事之後,我並冇繼續返教會,仲依舊好似之前咁落d,但已經食少左fing頭,唔知點解,心態仲慢慢有d改變.我開始覺得再咁樣玩落去都唔係辦法,於是的起心肝正正經經去工作,愈來愈少落disco,仲唔知點解好想試下返教會,好想乖,我覺得似乎係要返教會先可以令我做返一個正常ge女仔.之後我就自動自覺返去,由初初一個月返一次,到每星期都keep住返,返到去我覺得好開心,個人變得好平安,好有生氣~o個度俾到我一個家ge感覺.
但因為我係初信,所以有好多缺點都未能改變,而且o個時我仍然有同男友犯罪(基督徒唔可以有婚前性行為).就o係我洗禮後冇耐,發現自己有左兩個月身孕~!!!

o個一刻仿如晴天霹靂~!!!

待續.........

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