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twg:

working mom
==> 我諗 both working or full time mom 都有佢地既 difficulties 啦, 最重要既係今時今日既 mom is different from 以前, 生得佢地出都想教好佢地, 唔係等佢地天生天養, 因此我地"有要求"左, so 有要求就自然要 pay respective price ga la...hehe....但一諗起第日佢地條路, 人生會 easy/relax 左, 都值得啦...係冇..??

要我屋企d老人家合作--->好難!
==> 雖然我冇此問題, 不過我好明白箇中感受, 有好多野想做又做唔到, 企硬又令大家都難受個種手掌係肉, 手背係肉既感覺我都知...不過...

都係個句啦....做人要對自己既信念有一定既堅持, if you believe what you did for the kid is CORRECT, 就要企硬, 大家係一家人, 唔會有隔夜仇, 而且講到尾, 好多野依家唔教好, 第日受個個係父母, 我一諗到呢點我就打死都唔放手的了...

另一方面, 你亦可以問下自己點解 to a certain extent 你又堅持唔到呢, 係咪老人家既意見你都有d同意呢...?? If that is the case, then 就諗下其實佢地既 worry/suggestion 都有一定既原因 backup, 同意的話你就跟都跟得心安了, 唔同意的話理由又響邊呢....大家係傾 facts 嘛...this is much easier...

當然, 你老公要 support 呢點又係一個 very important factor 啦....

so 有時我明白可能要用 avoiding strategy 大家先會好過d, i.e. 唔好同老人家一齊住, 唔駛佢地湊小朋友 etc...睇唔到就大家都好過d了...

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彥媽:
多謝你明白我的感受,有時真係好難改變老人家的教/湊法,我都知佢地都係為小朋友好(例如食飯追住餵-->想佢地肥肥白白,健健康康)

好多野依家唔教好, 第日受個個係父母,

--->

同意

我現在所擔心的係我小朋友將來返half day school,放學後的安排!
佢喺我6299度一定放肆!就算我比佢去學嘢都唔可能day day都schedule晒ga?!我小朋友又唔會自動自覺跟time table的scheduled activity去做eg依時訓覺(就算我train到佢做得到,佢去到6299度都會打回原形)咁請問我可以點做呢,彥媽你有無咩高見呀?

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twg:

佢喺我6299度一定放肆!就算我比佢去學嘢都唔可能day day都schedule晒ga?!
==> so it seems 問題既癥結在於依家係 6299 湊..?? Then the only way 係 "遠離左 influence 就小左", so 揾另一d人幫手湊, e.g. 工人...我知工人都唔一定好 (好睇彩數), 但咁唔代表 all 工人都唔得, 而且 at least 工人可以話, 同佢要 follow your instruction, 你俾得 6299 湊就冇計, 預左要 follow 佢地既方法教仔咁啦.....唉~~

有時要睇下 6299 係咪 spoil 得小朋友好勁, 有d都唔係真係太犀利既 then it's OK la, e.g 你要佢地接放學, then 就由得佢響 6299 屋企開心下一個 afternoon, then after work 辛苦d, 自己帶番屋企, then at least you can fix 細路 zzz 既 time, 同佢講響要跟 daddy mammy 規矩, 多d提住啦...., 我依家都係, 只係偶爾過時過節 (or some Sat/Sun) 就會俾佢地去同d 表哥堂姐, 6299 etc 玩得癲d, 呢班細路個個都食飯就一人一罐汽水 (勁冇益, 又對住個 TV 送飯, 又揀飲擇食) 但我唔理, 我同我自己d細路講, 人地係點我地 cannot control, 但我地自己要做好....日子有功, 依家我d細路從來唔扭食薯條汽水, 反而係會我響過時過節見大家高興就主動俾佢地飲少少啦...佢地 so far 都唔敢太過份, so 有時少少 is definitely OK la...

其他時間我要佢地飲食, zzz 定時架...有d人 may think I am too 規律, 但依家唔規管, 第日鬆左就 koo 唔番, 我寧願等佢地大d , e.g. 小五咁啦...就會慢慢比番多d自由佢地了 (at least I have to make sure 佢地唔會"濫用"左呢d"自由")

我每次唔俾佢地做一d野個時 or 要佢地做一d野個時我都會 try my best to explain WHY I have to do so, e.g. 唔準佢地訓響床樹睇書, 唔得含住啖飯, 唔可以成日對住個電腦會壞眼 etc....雖然佢地唔係次次都明我講乜, but at least they will know 媽咪唔係"蠻不講理"咁唔俾佢地做 (因為佢地一定見人地可以做, 但自己就唔得, so will feel unhappy ga) , 我會同佢地約法三章, 可以 under what condition 先做 (e.g. after finishing homework, took a shower, etc) , 所以我都唔係乜都唔俾, 係要佢地知唔係乜都一扭就有啦.....要先做好自己先得架...

慢慢嚟啦...小朋友六歲前既可塑性甚高, 你要把握呢個機會盡量發揮父母對佢地既 influence, otherwise 蘇州過後冇艇搭架喇..因為佢地越大就越受 peer influence 多過 parental influence ga la....

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Re: 彥媽與你 BB 讀書/學習交流站

彥媽:
我有幾個問題想請教下你
一. 我在幼稚園概覽中看到每間學校都有這些教學人員的資歷表:
1.幼兒教育證書C[ECE]
2.合格幼稚園教師Qualified KG teacher
3.其他師資訓練Other teaching trainings
4.合格助理幼稚園教師Qualified assistant KG teacher
研究這些是什麼東東的資歷?
二. 我看到有少量的幼兒園暨幼稚園中的教師資歷只屬(3.其他師資訓練),但沒有屬(1.幼兒教育證書)或(2. 合格幼稚園教師)即是否意味著該等幼稚園中沒有教師受過任何幼稚園專業的訓練?
請指教!

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彥媽

do you know which HK side KG has its own primary section AND allow you to enter lucky draw to other gov't primary??

besides St Paul's Convent, Sacred Heart, which other KG has this benefit??

thks.

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e.g. 工人...我知工人都唔一定好 (好睇彩數), 但咁唔代表 all 工人都唔得, 而且 at least 工人可以話, 同佢要 follow your instruction

--->6299樹有工人湊我細b,而且大仔唔跟佢,試過放兩個仔比6299+工人湊,佢地都怕咗呀大仔,唯一可以免強管住大仔就係用滕條 --->雖然我覺得唔係咁好,但老人家的體力及能力有限,唔能夠下下捉得住佢講道理,加上佢地的exp話比佢地知係work嘅,所以我都要接受現實ga la

你要佢地接放學, then 就由得佢響 6299 屋企開心下一個 afternoon, then after work 辛苦d, 自己帶番屋企, then at least you can fix 細路 zzz 既 time, 同佢講響要跟 daddy mammy 規矩

-->我都迫住要咁諗,當比佢after school relax下
==>彥媽:以你所知,其實有無一D somewhat like nursery centre 可以幫手接放學&有地方比小朋友zzz?

其他時間我要佢地飲食, zzz 定時架...有d人 may think I am too 規律

---> I don't think it's too 規律

但依家唔規管, 第日鬆左就 koo 唔番, 我寧願等佢地大d , e.g. 小五咁啦...就會慢慢比番多d自由佢地了 (at least I have to make sure 佢地唔會"濫用"左呢d"自由")

---> totally agree!

呢班細路個個都食飯就一人一罐汽水 (勁冇益, 又對住個 TV 送飯, 又揀飲擇食) 但我唔理, 我同我自己d細路講, 人地係點我地 cannot control, 但我地自己要做好....日子有功, 依家我d細路從來唔扭食薯條汽水, 反而係會我響過時過節見大家高興就主動俾佢地飲少少啦...佢地 so far 都唔敢太過份, so 有時少少 is definitely OK la...

---> 我都開始train my boy some habit like this, eg switch off TV when we're having dinner (每晚工人會送飯比我地--me & my elder son, becoz my 6299 lives very near to us, so I could do this, now my son knows we have to switch off TV for dinner, previously at 6299 side, he used to watch TV to have dinner), so u'r right --->....日子有功, he knows and he will switch off TV for me when we're having dinner
I'll keep trying to build up his habit

我每次唔俾佢地做一d野個時 or 要佢地做一d野個時我都會 try my best to explain WHY I have to do so, ........雖然佢地唔係次次都明我講乜, but at least they will know 媽咪唔係"蠻不講理"咁唔俾佢地做 (因為佢地一定見人地可以做, 但自己就唔得, so will feel unhappy ga) , 我會同佢地約法三章, 可以 under what condition 先做 (e.g. after finishing homework, took a shower, etc) , 所以我都唔係乜都唔俾, 係要佢地知唔係乜都一扭就有啦.....要先做好自己先得架...

---> 我有時都會咁做,不過我仔唔係次次都合作,係咪都係仲細呢?

小朋友六歲前既可塑性甚高, 你要把握呢個機會盡量發揮父母對佢地既 influence

---> 我都係咁諗,所以我先上嚟請教有exp的mama, eg彥媽你,學多d教仔方法,btw多謝你咁有心機為我分析及解答

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Re: 彥媽與你 BB 讀書/學習交流站

twg:

好...又一齊研究下:

唯一可以免強管住大仔就係用滕條
==>well...somehow 我唔反對"罰"呢個方法, it is one kind of negative reinforcement only, "打" is one of the mode la...我一向認為教導子女係乜野方法都應配合使用, and to what extent 去用 only, 即係"打"在我認為係可以, 不過我唔係指成張 chair 車埋去呀, 又或勁丙個停....但真係好曳, 打手仔, 又或罰佢靜思, etc (有時我大彥好曳, 我要佢企響屋一角, 諗清楚錯乜, 亦等大家都 cool down 左先再同佢傾, 效果會好好多, at least 大家都唔會咁 emotional)...但注意既係同一方法唔可以長時間同樣使用, 係一次罰佢企, 下次再罰佢分分鐘已"慣"左, 就唔覺個種係 "罰", 個效用 will lost somehow...so 有時我又唔要佢罰企, 而係 stop 佢一d 佢 likey 既野, e.g. 沒收玩具, 唔俾佢睇佢最 likey at TV programme etc, 總之成日要用唔同花款對佢, 間唔時先 repeat 番, 等佢有"切膚之痛", 下次就唔敢

另一方面, 表揚同讚賞佢有 improvement 既地方, 同佢做 target setting, 俾d 目標佢, 等佢對自己都有 expectation, 做人先有動力, 有 motivation, 幾十管齊下, 再加上恆心, 又係個句, 日子有功, 總有進展, 當然個個進展都唔可能一樣, but the most important thing is : 有進展丫嘛...right? 呢d就係心機啦..做阿媽既唔可以輕言退縮, 唔得就諗到得, and kids will be influenced by us too..right?

彥媽:以你所知,其實有無一D somewhat like nursery centre 可以幫手接放學&有地方比小朋友zzz?
==> 有d人試過將佢放去 D nursery, 係要的話總有呢d centre (我知有人再將個細既放去另一間 KG tim..) 但我唔太贊成此方法...一來聽你講 6299 都唔係真係好 spoil the kids, 係打得多唔多好啦...二來個d nursery 知你係"搭單"咁放小朋友 here only, 多數唔會太上心去睇佢架...so as long as 你每日都親自接番佢教佢睇佢, 唔係冇得救既...仲有, then Sat/Sun 就多d 親自 train 番小朋友, 俾佢群多d有規律既 family 同小朋友, 等佢可以"有樣學樣" 番d...慢慢就會好轉...

我反而諗, 你可唔可以揾到工人 at your home to take care of the kid instead of putting him in 6299 home ar...因為咁會爭好遠, 你可以 total control 佢作息時間同 cultivate 佢既 habit ga....

I don't think it's too 規律
==> hehe..我都係咁睇, 唔係我都唔會咁做喇..我眼見有d朋友對細路既方法我都覺得

, 但仔係人地既, 我要尊重人地做野既動機既, 只係我都係個句, 依家冇問題, 因為響父母眼中, 仔女做乜我都可以包容, but this NEVER happen to others, 先唔好話大個做野了, 一上到小學, 行為唔學好, 惹人討厭 (e.g. 攞人野好似老馮咁, 問都唔問, 呢d已經好抵打, 屋企人唔話佢, 佢唔會覺有問題) 到去到小學俾人告, 俾老師"哦"個時我咪仲難受..?? so 我寧願佢依家辛苦少少, 多少少規範, 我唔駛我d仔受萬人歡迎喜愛, 但我絕對唔想佢地係令人覺得佢神憎鬼厭, 避之則吉個停喇...so we have to help them, 好多野就係要教啦....

我一向諗野唔會只睇一面, 所以我唔係只想要佢地有個"快樂童年", 亦更想佢地第日條路可以輕鬆d啦, 唔係 only 揾到錢, 而係要可以同人相處到, 有堅強既意志力, this is very very important, 世上太多唔同既引誘 (esp nowadays), 咩係應該做唔應該做, 佢地要識分, 同識堅持, 唔好下下耳仔軟, 明知唔應做都"順應民意" 咁去做就大獲.....要識得 control 慾望, 唔係乜都睇到就要擁有, 要懂得滿足已有之物, 而唔係只會追求無盡既野....wa...easy to talk, difficult to do ga....

日子有功, he knows and he will switch off TV for me when we're having dinner
I'll keep trying to build up his habit
==> good ar..I always support you, 努力啦, 真係會見效架...

我有時都會咁做,不過我仔唔係次次都合作,係咪都係仲細呢?
==> 細係其中一個原因, 但唔可以作為籍口, so 都係要教, 不過一次唔聽, 第二次再 repeat, 第三次, 第四次, etc , then he will know "you mean what you say", 好多時細路係 test your bottom line only, so you should never give up to do what you think is good for them.

所以我先上嚟請教有exp的mama,
==> Welcome to discuss and share la...不過記住呀, 你都認為岩既, 就要去做, then reflect and learn from the result, 好既就 continue, 唔得就再 think of other alternative and try again.... 咁先得架...

:mrgreen: :mrgreen:

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Re: 彥媽與你 BB 讀書/學習交流站

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To answer your questions , 先 quote 段野比你睇:

根據現行政策，所有在職幼稚園校長須在二○○五�○六學年完結前修畢幼兒教育證書課程。政府並沒有規定在職幼師必須修讀幼兒教育證書課程。

政府十分重視幼師的培訓，並一直推行多項措施，逐步提高幼師和幼稚園校長的資歷。同時，政府亦確保有足夠的培訓學額，以達到政策目標。有關政策措施包括：

(1) 由二○○一�○二學年起，把幼師的入職條件由香港中學會考兩科及格（包括一個語文科目）提高至五科及格（包括中文科和英文科）；

(2) 由二○○二年九月起，要求所有新聘的幼稚園校長必須修畢幼兒教育證書課程；

(3) 由二○○三�○四學年起，要求所有新入職的幼師必須具備合格幼稚園教師資歷；

(4) 要求在二○○四�○五學年完結前，百分之百的幼師為合格幼稚園教師(按教師與學生比例為一比十五計算)；以及

(5) 要求在二○○五�○六學年完結前，所有在職幼稚園校長必須修畢幼兒教育證書課程。

(quoted from 立法會十八題：幼兒教育師資培訓)

so 從上面你可以睇到, 以前一向阿公都唔太監管幼稚園既師資既, so 中學畢業都叫做教得, so 亦唔令大眾太尊重呢個行業, 所以人工既差別都可以好大, 唔同中小學有哂 pattern, 依家因為大家都對學前教育重視左, 所以就出左d xx 証書, 去令幼師既專業性增加, 都係一件好事哇...

so 再 specific D 答你....

1.幼兒教育證書C[ECE]
==> 即係上面講要讀既, 以前d幼師唔駛, 依家個個都要有, 舊個批就算冇都要去讀番番嚟

2.合格幼稚園教師Qualified KG teacher
==> 即係可以響幼稚園教得個d , 新入職既要有埋 (1), 有得 (1) 就係 qualified KG teacher, 但因為以前制度下有機會係未有 (1) ga ma...so 佢地都仍然可以做 qualified KG teacher, 不過都係要補番 (1) ga la (sooner or later)

3.其他師資訓練Other teaching trainings
==> 即係對教幼稚園有幫助既野啦, not a compulsory qualification (e.g. child psychology, etc) 但會有用, 即係個老師係 more versatile la...

4.合格助理幼稚園教師Qualified assistant KG teacher
==> 呢d係助教 only, 唔駛要有 (1) , 但唔可以做主教, 即係只係可以幫主教老師做 assistant , eg. 維持秩序呀, 收功課呀, etc gum....多數係d 冇 (1) 既人但又好想教幼稚園個d 先做住先, wait till 有 (1) or more la...就可以轉做主教

順帶一提...依家幼兒教育因已逐步專業化, 所以已有"幼兒教育學士學位課程"既出現, 雖則現在未係 compulsory 要求所有在職幼師要有此學歷, 但在於"大家進步"既關係, 依家打份文員工都大學生啦, so 要 all KG teacher 都有此學歷先可以做既年代雖未到, 但亦不遠矣....

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aprilk:

FYI, only private schools 私立係可以 allow or not allow 你去搞珠~~~

HK island 既 private school 有:

1) 聖心 (AM school only, PM school 係津貼)
2) Rosaryhill 玫瑰崗
3) 高主教
4) St Clare
5) 蘇淅
6) 嶺南小學
7) St Paul Convent
8) St Louis
9) 慈幼
10) St Stephen' College (唔係 girls 個間, 唔好搞錯)
11) 弘立
12) 救恩
13) 真光
14) Victoria

Go here and key in 私立 as selection criteria and you can get more details:

小學概覽

do you know which HK side KG has its own primary section AND allow you to enter lucky draw to other gov't primary??
==> 先講第一句: 貪心...哈哈...

(不過我都想, 嘻嘻...

)

==> 雖則我冇一個 full list 邊間得邊間唔得, 老老實實, 好現實既問題....所有有d名望同成績既都唔會比你咁做, 試諗下你係校長, 你都會咁, 因為:

(1) 佢地大把人爭住去, so why bother to give you 方便...因為俾得你去搞, 即係証明你"唔專一", always 坐亞望冠, 有邊間名校鍾意人地咁睇佢架..??

(2) 俾得你去搞, 即係分分鐘到六月開彩既時候又有一大批學生會利用此方便去轉走, that means 佢地行政功夫又多左 (e.g. 要 call waiting list, etc) 咁麻煩既野, 佢地又唔係冇客仔, so why 要對你好..??

then if 真係有d 肯比你咁做, 咁我可以話你知多數呢d 唔係家長心中既 1st choice 學校la...so 佢唔俾你佢搞珠點得, 一陣唔俾你去你連留位都唔制咪死火...? then 無論佢俾唔俾你都好, 你都未必想去讀既, right?

呢個世界係咁架喇...魚與熊掌, 不能兼得架喎...hehe...

besides St Paul's Convent, Sacred Heart, which other KG has this benefit??
==> 唔明你問乜...which KG 有 this benefit? 你係指直升小學....你呢兩間都係考到就要 give up lucky draw ge....

==> 但睇你咁問, 你係想問邊d小學有直屬幼稚園, right? if yes, then:

1) 聖心 (AM school only, PM school 係津貼) ==> 有
2) Rosaryhill 玫瑰崗 ==> 有
3) 高主教
4) St Clare
5) 蘇淅 ==> 有
6) 嶺南小學 ==> 有
7) St Paul Convent ==> 有
8) St Louis
9) 慈幼
10) St Stephen' College ==> 有
11) 弘立
12) 救恩
13) 真光 ==> 有
14) Victoria ==> 有

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thks 彥媽,

besides St Paul's Convent, Sacred Heart, which other KG has this benefit??
==> 唔明你問乜...which KG 有 this benefit? 你係指直升小學....你呢兩間都係考到就要 give up lucky draw ge....
====>> i heard that these 2 KG has 直升小學 and allow you to have lucky draw. just give approx. $1000 留位fee. in case you didn't draw a good public primary, you can still have a space in their primary section. sounds very "jetso" eh? thats why all girls at HK side would like to enter these KG. i just wonder if there are more KG like these.

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aprilk:

in case you didn't draw a good public primary, you can still have a space in their primary section. sounds very "jetso" eh?
==>No..this is not what I heard , 呢兩間係名校, and for sure 聖心據我所知係一定唔得, St Paul, you better check, cos I dun think so...the version may be 係可以俾番位費, 不過 if they know you go for lucky draw 佢地會 cancel your 留位, this may be more 可信...

再者真係有咁 jetso 只會令 KG 更難考而已 (因為更多人會好似你咁諗又去考), so 都唔係一件好事...呵呵..

You may call to the school to confirm your hearsay.

As far as I know...St Paul KG 同 nursery 都係 HK island 區最難考既一間 KG cos super 多人爭....聖心都仲好D...

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彥媽,
多謝你的詳細解答!!

又請問
1)是否所有的救世軍幼兒園都一樣好?
油麻地救世軍vs海富苑救世軍(好像比較細),那一所會好些?(因為bb的婆婆住近海富苑那一所,這會方便她接送)
2)你覺得小朋友日日要坐較長程校車上學,會否影響他們的學習?(一朝早搭車都搭到"牛"晒)

彥媽,你不只解答到我bb讀書的問題,就連如何管教子女的心得也可以給我很大的啟示.......我會一直支持你的!!!!!

;-)

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fefe:

1)是否所有的救世軍幼兒園都一樣好?
==> 基本上所有救世軍 group 既幼兒園教既野都係一樣, 唔同既只係在於環境 (好似你話齋, 有d大d, 有d細d), 同d人唔同 (有d 老師好人d, 有d strict D, etc), so 揀邊間真係好應考慮埋接送既方便喇...

2) 油麻地救世軍vs海富苑救世軍(好像比較細),那一所會好些?
==>比我我會揀海富個間, 一來呢間新過油麻地個間, 二來接送又方便d, 雖則海富個間係細d, 但油麻地個間好耐的了, 環境亦較舊, 佢亦唔係有好大既 outdoor area 比小朋友, 你可能會覺佢名氣較海富個間為大, 但呢點係因為油麻地呢間好多年的了, so 多d人識佢一d都唔出奇丫, 但多人識 =/= 最好啦, 我亦響 some other BK topics 聽過有人對油麻地呢間有 complaints, so 我唔會特登要行遠去呢間了

2)你覺得小朋友日日要坐較長程校車上學,會否影響他們的學習?
==>呢個又唔一定, 因為小朋友既適應能力都好強既, 而且成車都係同學仔, 佢"吽"極有限, 一定係吱吱喳喳成班人玩就真, 唔會悶既, 傾下傾下就到學校架喇...只係我反而唔鍾意明係一段 say, 15 mins 既車程因為要接唔同學生就要坐出成 45 mins 出嚟, 我會覺得好"浪費生命"架, 因為若唔駛咁, 我可以用多出個 30 mins 同細路響屋企親子多d, 管教佢地d規矩多d, 咁仲值得 in my eyes only.

我一鍾意研究如何用 minimum resources to achieve maximum 丫嘛, 我有三個仔, 絕對有 jetso 添啦, $500+ 一個校車, 三個要 $1500+ ga

, so 俾錢仲要浪費時間我就會覺得唔多值, so 我會因為咁寧願 (1) 揾間響屋企附近既學校 or (2) even 搬近學校 (我依家就係咁) 又或 (3)搬去校車尾站 (即係一上車唔駛再兜大圈就去到學校) 個停~~

依家我一有時間 (e.g. 放假) 就會親自拎 lunch 比大彥 or 湊中彥放學 (近丫嘛) 大家沿路一起傾下偈, 講下笑個種感覺真係好 warm ga... :mrgreen: :mrgreen: 對我呢d working mom 嚟講真係要好珍惜 such chances ga...

我會一直支持你的!!!!!
==> 咁你就多多繼續幫襯啦...

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彥彥媽咪:

我想問吓, St. Paul's Church 呢間幼稚園在你眼中, 評價如何呢? 亦想知將來升小學有否聯繫? Thanks.

我囡囡係 Catholic, 我不知道比佢讀 Christian 開辦的 Kindergarten 會唔會有負面影響. 可否分享你的看法?

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彥媽, am i correct? thks.

幼稚園入學年齡為2歲8個月, 由K1 讀到K3.
幼兒園入學年齡為2歲由n1 讀到 n4.

My baby is born on Apr 06. so......
* At around Oct 2007 (18mons) can registered N1 and study in Aug2008 (2yrs 4mon)
* At around Nov2008 (2yrs 7mon) can interview K1 and study in Sept2009 (3yrs 5mon)
* Sept09 – Jul10 K1 (3yr5m – 4yr3m)
* Sept10 – Jul11 K2 (4yr5m – 5yr3m)
* Sept11 – Jul12 K3 (5yr5m – 6yr3m)
* Sept 12 (6yr 5m)-->

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aprilk:

你講既全對....俾個"叻"你....

但有d可以補充:

1) N1 規定係足2 歲先可以入讀, 所以若有d家長好想子女"早"d 入學, 就可以 2008 年 4 月 (一足兩歲) 就去插班入學 (以前我中彥就係咁), 但到左 2008 年 9 月新學年小朋友都係讀 N1 only , 唔可以升班, so that means 即係會讀 around 1 年半 N1 先可以升 N2 or K1

2) 同樣地, K1 都係, 有d 幼稚園想要多d 生意, 當你小朋友一足 2 歲 8 個月就會收佢讀 N1 (即係 2008 年 11 月) , 但 even 收係讀 K1, 之後 2009 年 9 月新學年都係讀 K1 only , so 都係冇用...

3) 因為政府規定, 所有小朋友要考 P1, 一定要足 5 歲 8 個月, 所以心急早都冇用...

4) 因此好多家長若唔係話真係唔讀唔得既 (e.g.屋企冇人湊仔), 都會"好頭好尾" 咁讀, 即係等到 2008/9 先讀 N1, and/or 2009/9 先讀 K1, that means 小朋友屆時係 2 歲半 or 3 歲半了, 在我我覺得冇問題, 我唔會因為小朋友較人地個d "老d" 就覺有問題啦, 我當年揀都揀令小朋友響 3, 4 月份出世就係覺 3, 4 月先係好 (我三個仔都係 between 3 月中至4月中出世架), 話大唔係最大 (比起 1 月出世個d ), 話細又唔係最細 (比起 8 月出世, or 12 月出世 or d) 我乜都鍾意中中停停架...呵呵~~

5) 細彥我會跟中彥一樣, 等佢一足 2歲 (2008/4) 先去插 N1, 再響同年 9 年 continue N1, 至 2009/9 就轉 K1 , 我想佢去插班 (2008/4) 係因為大部份 K1 係同年 10 月- 12 月就招生 interview for 2009/9 學生既, so if 我俾佢 2008 年 9 月至返 N1, 番得唔夠兩個月就要去 interview, 怕佢仲係超怕生保, so 多d 時間俾佢 get used to 陌生人會好d...

6) 最後, 順有一提.....要知道, 由於現行"學前教育" (即 N1- N4, K1-K3) 唔係阿公一個 compulsory 既教育, 所以唔係"一定"要讀既添 (按阿公既 policy) , 小一開始至中三先係"強迫教育" (即係唔俾阿仔讀係"犯法"架) , 即係所謂九年免費教育了...so 你都見過新聞有d 神奇家長話要自己響屋企教仔, 唔俾阿仔番學既 story la...

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imuran:

St. Paul's Church 呢間幼稚園在你眼中, 評價如何呢?
==> You mean 聖保羅堂, the one near HKU, right? 我對呢間幼稚園所收評價不多, 只知係一間 OK 既幼稚園, 有埋小學, 就係咁....唔係最 top 既 school, 但亦唔係聽到佢有d乜野好差既 comment 咁啦...

我囡囡係 Catholic, 我不知道比佢讀 Christian 開辦的 Kindergarten 會唔會有負面影響.
==> 我本身冇 religious belief, even 我由細到大都讀 Catholics school, 我去 mass 既次數多過我個係 Catholics 既老公 (我中學時日日去望 mass ga) , so 本身我係較 prefer Catholic 既, 但依家我d仔讀培正係 Christian schools, 我又唔見得唔接受噃, 因為在我嚟睇, 宗教既 objectives 都係導人向善, 目標係一致既, 只係用既方法同一d rules 係唔同, 因此, 我會睇間學校係教d乜啦, e.g. 係唔係一定要強迫人信教 something like that, 我主張信教你由心出發, so that's why 我唔會日日對我d仔說教邊個好, so even 佢 daddy 係 Catholics 我地都冇因此而帶個仔去 baptised...

我反而想等佢地大d , 就試帶佢地去教堂, 等佢地自己去接觸個宗教, 想信就信, 唔信就算....I always believe they will find their own way la...因為我會尊重阿仔係一個獨立個體, 我可以 influence 佢, 但唔應該左右佢, so 信宗教 should be 佢既 decision, not mine.

而且依家d學校都唔係話打正旗號係乜教就日日洗腦既, 都係主要傳受d大路道理 only, 因此 I can't see Catholics schools appears big difference with Christian schools here.

So for me, I am fine with it ga.

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