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HI, 彥媽, million thanks for your reply.

Some unclear parts:

My bb is my first child. Will she got 20 分 (old girl + 適齡兒童) instead of 25 分?

(一) 父�母全職在與該小學同一校址的幼稚園或中學部工作 (20分)
(二) 兄�姊在與該小學同一校址的中學部就讀 (20分)
(三) 父�母為該小學的校董 (20分)
(四) 父�母或兄�姊為該小學的畢業生 (10分)
(五) 首名出生子女（即為家庭各子女中最年長者）(5分)

<<<<以上 5 項只可以選一項 >>>>
My strategy of choosing KG now is working backwards, ie, identify the dream secondary schools first. That's why I am asking DGS (女拔中). In fact, I am a graduate of DGS. I am planning to send my daughter to 油天 and then see if it is high chance to 派去 DGS for secondary school . AS DGS is DSS, are there still chances to go there through 派位? any credit for old girls? Any other choices of similar 中學 in that net?

==>所以想入 DGS 一定要由入 DGJS 開始
Personally I do not want my bb to start from DGJS as I do not want her to adapt the mindset and value of the tradition DGJS girl. 一句講哂! 太貴族! 不知人間疾苦! 我唔想她太目空一切 and self-centred.
另外, also do not want to nurture her in a pure 女校 in primary school.

As I was trained up in DGS (我是由油天派去的, 那時候--n年前la..不是太難入), I totally agreed your comment on DGS girls and I want to send her there for the secondary school training when she gets older. I am considering other similar secondary schools such as Maryknoll, ST. Mary etc. Different strategy of choosing KG and PS, of cousre! I am thinking that it might be easier for her to follow my footstep.

One more question: What is your comment on the training method of Rightmind kindergarten?

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ykkwoka

My bb is my first child. Will she got 20 分 (old girl + 適齡兒童) instead of 25 分?
==> icic....對對, 你岩....我以為你有埋 catholics 分, 咁就 25 入硬咁滯.... 唔~~~咁又爭d了, 因為依家多左好多人無那那信教...咁.....大家都 20 分, 要抽了....

AS DGS is DSS, are there still chances to go there through 派位?
==> 有d DSS school 係都有參加阿公派位既, and I am not too sure whether DGS 依家仲有冇 (but I guess not, since DGJS 都大把人)

any credit for old girls?
==> 冇, even 佢佢有參加阿公派位, 中學派位唔同小學, 係講食力同特異功能既, 即係要睇小朋友 P5/P6 成績 (仲要睇埋師兄師姐當年既 factor) 而定佢係 Band 幾組別, so if 係 Band 1 就揀先, so on and so forth, 冇得靠關係 (當然, 事後扣門就永遠係另一回事)

Any other choices of similar 中學 in that net?
==> 若以學校整體而論, 我會答你 NO, cos they are all culturally different.....in fact 間間都唔差, 老老實實, 呢樹你 up 呢d 學校 (St Mary, Maryknoll etc) 呀, 是但一間收都正啦, right?

so 你識咁諗, 人人都識咁諗, 咪大家睇下邊個跑出啦...

那時候--n年前la..不是太難入
==> 除左你有一定實力係其中一個因素外, 以前唔係個個家長都同小朋友操呢樣操個樣架嘛...依家就個個都驚操少樣就唔夠人嚟, (依家考學校d profile 都彩色 printing, 分分鐘頁數厚過我塊面皮, haha

咁點搞...??), 水漲船高之下, 再加上僧多粥少, 要考當然會難過個時啦, right?

as I do not want her to adapt the mindset and value of the tradition DGJS girl
==> well...呢樣野 unless 你連 DGS 都唔考啦, culture 一早已形成, cos 以前 DGS 係津中, of course can get a lot of different PS graduates, 但早年結龍後已 90% take over DGJS girls, so how can you avoid them? 何況到得你個女讀中學個時更係怕且全部都係 DGJS 上咯...so?? what do you think?

My strategy of choosing KG now is working backwards
==>我完全明你心意, 因為十個有九個都係咁諗架嘛..但既然你已明白個派位制度 now, then you can think think nowadays 個d 名幼稚園對考到呢d某d小學既影響有幾大啦, 何況你仲講緊中學, 考到乜中學好睇小學成績+小朋友既本領啦...

一句講哂! 太貴族! 不知人間疾苦! 我唔想她太目空一切 and self-centred.
==> 唔~~~咁講啦....學校冇錯係對學生都好有影響力,但 even more important 係家長點睇野 as well la....so if 個家長自己都係眼高於頂既, 做女既當然完全受哂 la...so vice versa too....

==> so from my view, whatever parents 為佢小朋友揀既我有理由相信係為仔女好既, so I always respect and understand, 但你以上所講既係 subjective comments, 所謂 "有人辭官歸故里, 有人漏夜趕科場", 人人都有其原因去做一d 決定, 我會明, 只係我地都唔可以話個個揸 LV 袋既對眼就一定生響額頭架嘛.....so again, just a matter of VALUE and PERCEPTION here only.

因此....我冇意見 here, but I can feel how much you love your girl ga

Rightmind
==> 中文係乜? Keenmind? 彥媽懶 to search~~ :wink: :wink:

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彥彥媽咪,

How do you comment "GOOD HOPE" primary & secondary school? (overall comment!)

Million thanks!

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Susanna:

關於 PTH, 其實 training 既方法同你幫小朋友 train up 英文係大同小異, 不過因為英文係較 popular, 所以d resources 好似易揾d咁啦...

若你自己唔識, then 唔多唔少就要倚賴外面d 老師幫手了.

有以下預備功夫可以諗諗:

1) 先俾多d PTH 佢聽 (e.g PTH news)
2) 出去上d補習班, 不過我認為可以的話, 一邊上小一時先開始都未遲既
3) 你想去教佢, 咁你自己都要學埋一份先得架喎...依家有d學校都有d親子班, 你地可以一齊去學
4) 有冇識d家長/朋友係內地人? 有就多去同佢地傾下偈, 等小朋友習慣同 PTH 為母語既人傾偈

揾老師教 PTH 要小心, 依家坊間 (both English and PTH 都係) 因為大熱, 所以好多人都教, you have to make sure 個 quality 係得, e.g. 比我揀我要係 PTH, 唔係台灣國語, 因為口音唔同..即係好似 UK English 定 Aussie 個d, 可以好唔同...另...要有老師最好係有教語文既 background 唔係 only 一個內地人就 OK, 普通話水平測試唔甲等都要乙, 同睇佢教開d乜人為主....再最後我會睇佢點教, e.g. 課程 design 係做乜, 因為有好多 PTH course 係以唱遊為主, well...我唔反對係要 fun, 但我唔想齋係咁啦...要有d , say, 15 mins 教拚音, 15 mins 教常用字 (e.g 尤其係廣東用語同內地用語好唔同個d ), etc...etc...

因為彥媽奄尖, 又懶懶閒, 所以依家都未揾到岩我心水之人....

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彥媽
多謝你回應先.
另想問下, 你覺得一星期一堂普通話夠吾夠呀?

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Sorry 彥彥媽咪, I also want to 借一個小角 here........because I just found somebody who has such a similar mind set as me........But for sure I am your super fans also!

ykkwoka,
When I saw your message, I just wanted to say hi to u, because u think what I think! I am also from Yaumatei Catholic, and I chose SMCC at that time. I agreed no more about what u said about DGJS and DGS (at least from what I learn from my friends). I have a girl (1+) and I am thinking of letting her follow my footsteps. But as 彥彥媽咪 explained, it is so hard nowsdays! Anyway, good luck to u and your daughter!

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Susanna:

若要小朋友有心學好 PTH, then 一堂就梗係唔多掂喇 (provided 仲係之後冇任何支援, e.g. 父母幫手教下, 出去同人用 PTH 講下個停)

And since PC 個 PTH 得一堂, 仲係 30 mins 一堂 only, so unless 小朋友好有學習語言既天份同興趣, otherwise 頂多至可以做到聽得明少少人地講 (咁就點都唔會完全唔識既) 同講得到dd (好似依家d HK 人咁唔咸唔淡咁囉)

So if you wanna let the kid 可以聽講寫同稱得上"流利"的話, for sure 1 lesson/week is not too good la..

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Culver:

I also want to 借一個小角 here
==>嘩~~要收租架喎....

Welcome to discuss here la....

I am thinking of letting her follow my footsteps
==> Hehe...this the most common decision making pattern for everyone (based on past experience) , right? :mrgreen: me too sometimes ga...hehe

As I said, whatever you all mums decide, I believe that will be the best decision you could make for your kids ar...

大家齊努力+加油呀....

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彥彥媽咪,

想問一問：

培小多唔多學生去補習架？大彥需要嗎？

你平日係點指引佢溫書同做功課呢？洗唔洗坐定定同大彥一齊做架？

大彥係文靜或是活躍呀？你有乜野suggestion train唔專注同活躍kids 呀

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彥彥媽咪,

你好, 想睇你個topic好耐, 今日終於找到時間, 我花左幾個鐘頭, 只係睇到p.14, 仲有long long way to go...
但我忍唔住想回應一下啦, 好多謝你花咁多時間同我地分享呀, 我覺得你諗野同我諗野係好唔同, 當遇到問題時, 你睇得好通, 這點我是做不到的, 我會繼續努力catch up返之前的分享...等我可以一齊係度討論和請教, 因為唔想重覆問題呀, thanks

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彥媽媽,

請問你認為學Phonic及普通話在什麼年齡最合適 ?-(

如果報34區的幼稚園對考34區小學有無幫助 ?-( 若我同時住在34區呢?若有20分入同區是否機會大D ?-(

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Ellensu:

培小多唔多學生去補習架？大彥需要嗎？
==> 呢點我唔肯定, 因為d 家長冇刻意同我講, 不過我相信都會有, 依家 HK 地有邊個唔補架, 不過 "補習" 唔一定係 "打補針"個停既, 即係好似我大彥咁, 我依家都有揾個大姐姐幫佢跟下佢d 功課, 我事後先 back up, 好過大家為又為功課角力, 所以我有揾補習比佢, 另...我相信去到高年班個陣都唔到你唔揾了, 因為就算我得 (可以教佢), 我都唔會科科掂架嘛 (e.g. 你問番我 HCF, LCM 我真係暈得 ?-(

), 所以都係要揾d 學緊個d 去教好d啦...), 依家個姐姐又收得唔貴 ($50 per hour, 1.5 hour per day now)..亦好好心機, 所以我都算滿意了...

你平日係點指引佢溫書同做功課呢？洗唔洗坐定定同大彥一齊做架？
==> 大彥一向唔駛我篤佢, 佢都可以自己 close door 自己做, 呢點係我地自細由 K1 有功課開結要做就係咁, 所以依家佢都 OK , 只係有時就擔天望地咁啦, 間唔中就要入房去 check 下佢有冇遊雲囉...but so far he is OK la...溫書功課我係比個補習姐姐同佢搞, 之後我就買d supplementary exercise 比佢, 考下佢, 同佢再溫, 不過我既角色反而係同佢講d 課外知識多 (e.g 講故事, 教佢認多d 字, 教d 老師未教過既野...etc)

大彥係文靜或是活躍呀？
==> of course super 活躍啦, 都坐唔定既, 走足一日都唔叫攰架....我都投降~~

你有乜野suggestion train唔專注同活躍kids 呀
==> 比多d 文靜d 既活動佢地啦, e.g.

1) 陪讀~encourage reading
2) 佢響指定時間內做唔完一樣野就唔俾佢做佢心愛既野 (e.g. TV)
3) 油顏色簿
4) 可以數下豆豆 (比d唔同色既豆, e.g. 紅豆, 黃豆, 綠豆, 黑豆 etc 撈亂哂, 要佢分番開 etc)
5) 玩"揾錯處" (即係有兩幅圖, 揾 5 個不同地方個停)

All these are good activities to train up kids' attention span ga....不過...都係個句, 要持之以恆, 唔同活動循環使用, 日子有功的...

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vonvon:

Welcome!!!

慢慢睇啦, have you read 精華篇添呀....also good ga.. (hehe..賣廣告~

)

我覺得你諗野同我諗野係好唔同, 當遇到問題時, 你睇得好通, 這點我是做不到的,
==> 先多謝欣賞...我花咁多時間寫呢個交流站正正就係想指出令多d 人可以響思考一d問題時可以從多d 唔同既角度去睇野先去 make one decision, 唔係人云亦云, 人地做乜我就要做乜, 我咁講唔係話人做乜我唔可以做乜, 而係做個時要真係好清楚自己做緊乜先去做, 而唔係盲目跟風啦...即係好似好多阿婆見人排隊買野佢又排埋一份, 但佢根本唔知自己排緊乜, 好喇...排餐死到排到啦, 先發現賣個d野自己根本唔需要, 咁你話幾唔抵呢...?? right? 所以彥媽成日話, 排唔排個 decision 係響家長既手, 冇意見, 不過我真係好想d 家長明白佢地要有一個過得自己既 reason 先去 decide 而唔係因為 "大家都做" , 咁就又去做啦...

(呵呵...彥媽d um chum 又嚟啦....大家唔得笑我老架...嘻嘻..

)

我會繼續努力catch up返之前的分享...等我可以一齊係度討論和請教
==> no problem ...實等你....嘻嘻~~~

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BabyJV

請問你認為學Phonic及普通話在什麼年齡最合適
==> 我認為語文唔駛太早去 drill, even you did, 都係d 非正式咁, e.g. 同佢傾, 間唔時比d VCD 佢聽下睇下已經 very OK (仲係一隻兩隻就夠, 唔駛一大堆, 價錢亦唔值花太多), 三歲以前我唔認為需要 join d 乜班物班咁, 到得小朋友上 K1, 就可以籍住有老師開始 lead 佢地既 learning 時再加少少 language drilling, 但因為 K1 都仲係 learning 既 honeymoon time , 我唔會想太快令小朋友太忙, 我會選 when he/she is 4 (around K2) 開始俾佢正式上一d language classes

如果報34區的幼稚園對考34區小學有無幫助
==> 無....你對考小學個制度知道冇架...?? If not, you better read 精華篇噃..因為 (1) 考津小就係睇你住邊而抽籤, so 只要你住34 網就得, 你讀 91 網既幼稚園都冇問題, (2) 相反, if you want to 考私小/DSS, 咁只要個小朋友得, 咁讀邊個網既幼稚園, 住邊個網亦唔成問題...,一樣掂...

若我同時住在34區呢?若有20分入同區是否機會大D
==> seems like 你唔係好明點考小學架喎...喂喂..有冇先溫書 (睇精華區) 再嚟問架...

~~~

有 20 分係 talking about 1st round , 咁話之你考邊間, 住邊區都唔係問題, 係計分 game only...

到得抽籤個陣, 就係 2nd round 了, 所有 1st round 考唔到個d 先會要 go to 2nd round ga ma....then 就計校網了, i.e. 就係要住個區先可以抽個區既學校, 有幾多分同呢 part 無關, 大家係講 luck only, 明冇....??

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