I also take care of my daughter by myself most of the time. She also cries a lot with unknown reason. I broke into tears for several times with my baby girl crying holding in my hands. And at the same time, I've got some problem with my eyes after delivery and furthermore, my local domestic helper resigned 1 week after my daughter was born, I was really afraid that I would get postpartum depression. But I told myself that I couldn't get depression because I had to take care of my baby and I chatted alot with my mother, sister and felt alot better. This week, my baby girl is very naughty. She always cries and wants our hugging. I feel really tired and sometimes really can't stop myself from yelling at the baby to stop crying. I also can't help myself from hitting baby's pat pat (only once). But like other mami, when she is not crying, I like to look at her, play with her, chat with her. My husband and my mother would sometimes take care of my baby and let me go out for a while to relax. And I would feel better too. So, OneTwoThree, you are not the only one. Please share with us and you will feel better.
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I always sing and talk to my baby girl but sometimes she just shuts her eyes and cries and cries and just ignores me. My husband wants her to use pacifier but I really don't want her to use it.