Could you advise me how to write a letter for changing the K1 class from pm to am? Or do you have one to email me for reference? My email address is [email protected]
Acually, what's the difference between Pui Ching am class and pm class?
Could you advise me how to write a letter for changing the K1 class from pm to am?
==> seems like 你係新朋友了, 先歡迎你光臨...關於轉班信, 我會認為 : 轉班信...well...要寫唔難丫...(1) 你想點轉 (pm to am) (2) 點解要轉 (3) 幾句寒暄收尾....咁咪得囉....nothing really too special here bor.
Or do you have one to email me for reference? My email address is [email protected]
==> sorry, 我冇 sample, 俾 sample 亦唔係我作風, 彥媽行走江湖 N 年, N 個學生問過我攞 sample answer for their essays, 我都唔制, 原因係: 我俾得佢地, 咁即係同我幫佢地寫冇分別, 因為佢地都係搬字過紙, copycat 咁, 咁冇意思, 佢地又唔係我, 做乜要似我呢...??
Acually, what's the difference between Pui Ching am class and pm class?
==>你係指佢幼稚園? 係既話...答案係...分別在於返放學時間 only, K1 係 4 班 AM, 4 班 PM, 上學時間係 9am-12:00noon and 1:15 - 4:20pm respectively, K2 係 all AM, K3 係 all PM. Other than this, I can't see any difference between AM and PM classes. What is your hesitation here?
我家住藍田, 本一心一意首選麗港城迦南, 結果唔收, 好灰..... 之後報民生又唔收, 得藍田啟思(下午), 於是諗住搬去港島.... 又報咗大坑真光(waiting), 得培理收(下午) 同寶血收(下午)...
==> 依家情況 not bad ar...呵呵...我細彥都收左培理 bor (AM) ....呢間學校都唔錯架....校舍都 OK ga...至於寶血, 佢小學係 co-ed , 但中學係女校, 唔見有 jetso to your son bor...再者, 跑馬地/CWB d 樓點都貴過筲箕灣喇...if you concern about your budget, 又 only 要二揀一既話, seems like SKW is better for you bor.
而家又金融海潚, 都未知有冇得搬($$$$), 如果讀啟思, 觀塘/藍田區派位又唔知好唔好....咁點算好....希望彥媽指點迷津
==>若只俾我揀 either Kwun Tong or HK island, 我會揀 HK island, 但當然要到時睇你 budget la...依家先 no worry, 就算搬, 都係 K2 先 move 都未遲丫...另外, 若你係打算參加阿公派位既, 咁讀邊間幼稚園更唔係一個 key issue la...因為都係抽 ji ma, 阿公唔會理你讀邊間架 wor, 你住邊反而至係 concern la...
多謝你彥媽, 心情好似好d, 其實如果唔搬, 可唔可以試下 k2 考民生呢?? 定係讀培理, 疊埋心水係東區讀上去呢??
==> 咁其實好睇你自己意向...i.e. (1) 想唔想搬 (2) budget-wise OK or not? if both factors are positive, 又就你返工 or 生活圈子? (e.g. 唔會因為搬左過海, 下下要過九龍先見到屋企人呀個停), if 冇呢d factors 考慮, then 搬過海無妨, 港島區學校較平勻, 都係一個唔錯既選擇
民生你可以考, but why only 民生..?? if 你真係想要讀九龍區既學校, then you may consider 考埋 all others similar schools 去插丫...有得考既就考嘛~
Hi,彥媽，你好．我是你的fans,己有一年了，每天都會上來看看你寫的說話，因為有見地及智慧．真實我仲未聽話讀哂全個精華篇. 我是60年代出生的，現行的制度我都真係好moon cha cha.
彥媽，我想請問現在有以下收亞囝今年講N1:
1)海濱迦南 （am class)
2)荃灣救世軍幼兒園 (full day)
３）綠楊 (pm class)
pls give us some advice. Thanks so much!!!!!!!
明白唒, 彥媽, 之前睇過你提及"啟思" 同 "英華" 的配搭關係, 即係話"活動教學"既學校"同重視學術"既....難以函接
==> I would say this does not apply only to 英華, 而係...most of the HK schools 根本唔可以 afford 活動個停既教學, 因為在大多數人既眼中, 太活動 = 冇野學 = 競爭力唔夠 = 考唔到好既學校 ("好" 響好多人眼中係 = 要深, 識得多野, 學得多野, 咁先可以 "將來有條好路行") , 所以 in fact not only 英華, even other schools 佢地都知要 "customer-oriented", 咁既話又點敢太 "活動" 呢? 再者, 要活動, it will mean 小班教學, 小組活動, 師生比例要越小越好, 呢d 都要比一般坐定定學習需要用更多資源, 亦即係 = 成本會高 = 學費有壓力呀...咁你話嘞....HK 地...點行活動呢..??
又係我, 八掛問下你的教仔/湊仔心得, 你有三個寶貝, 讀唔同的級別, 你又要返工(我相信係), 咁你點分配去教/跟佢地d功課呢？功課會愈來愈多o架喎, 你仲要係用三倍的時間, so, 我覺得你好勁, 可唔可以大概講下你o既情況呀！ 謝謝！
==> "我覺得你好勁" 你太過獎了, 我都係一個普通媽咪 only, 只係...有幾個細路 at home somehow 幫到我既, 就係反而令我 :
(1) EQ 高左 - 佢地曳起上黎, 爭執個時, 真係直得丙佢地, 但要忍住, 慢慢傾, 我自問都係一個易發火既人架, 有左佢地, 自己都學唔少野, 學識試用唔同辦法去處理同一個問題 (e.g. 曳, 除左打 (我係會打仔之人, 打手打 pat pat 個停, if really toooooo naughty, esp 曳到影響到人地 or 自己既人身安全個停), 可以傾 (但太細既小朋友傾都冇乜效果的, 下一步就試轉唔傾, 只係 repeatly 要佢地 practice 同一種行為, 希望轉之為 habit), 再唔得又再提..提...再提....有時幾日就 work, 有d 幾日 都唔 work , 有d 就 work 幾日又故態復萌, 乜都有, 做父母既就要忍得 here la....
(2) 睇野豁達左 - 因為範圍大左 (有三個), 若得一個既話, 因為所有野 focus 都係 at that only one, 你會發現個細路甩條頭髮你都會好易發現 (時間多, 仲係你兩公婆 gup 佢一個, 有乜會睇唔到丫...) , 當你咁容易就發現到細路既野, 唔知就好地地, 知道既話, 做父母既有邊個會忍得住袖手旁觀呢...?? 即係話, 小小野都係 "追求卓越" , 咁對大家都係壓力, 我之前成日講好多時 "愛" 已經係一種壓力, 細路下下要做到我地既期望其實好唔容易, (唔好話自己冇....要坦白, 邊個父母會冇期望? 係有時唔敢講到出口 je) 但我地屋企人多, 就形成我真係有d 野唔得閒理 (所謂小事個d, e.g. 字體寫到睇得到就算, 有時打小小大風咁我都唔介意) , 有人可以話我求其, 但我一向睇事情係 focus on result (即係睇得到就得, 唔係下下要一條線, 一劃都要直的) , 打爛野識得執番好d 手尾, 有責任既我就可以接受, 下次小心就好了. 讀書在我係 train up 思想, 識分辨是非, 對將來係唔係可以做大官 or 住大屋 is never my concern (因為我從來都唔認為讀得書多 = 做得高位, 只係會多d 機會而已, 後天既爭取同把握先係 key), 所以我唔會有太高要求, 我一向都好識 manage 自己既 expectation 既, 亦會因應阿仔既能力而調較, 所以我從來都唔會話 "好緊張" 個停既.
3) 識放手 - 事實上唔到我唔放, 三個既話唔通我逐個幫佢地沖涼咩..?? 做功課一樣, 一早就要訓練佢地既 independence , 但當中要配合 (2) 去用, 因為你會發現過程中一定有甩漏, 俾老師寫手冊 (交漏功課, 帶漏書) 就都試唔少喇...第一次既時候我好緊張, 係人都唔想俾老師話架喇...但慢慢我學識 sit back, relax, 人既學習好大部份係要黎自 life experience, 細路唔太明白有d 野做左既 consequence 係乜, 因為佢地 feel 唔到 (e.g. 唔溫書, 考唔好, 會留班, 留班 = 好醜怪, 冇書讀, 畢業會遲過人..之類...因為事情未發生丫嘛...) 所以...響可以承受既情況下...係要俾佢地自己 take 番個 responsibility, 我會話其實我都唔捨得 (邊會想睇住自己阿仔測驗唔及格呢? ) 但我既情況在於細路多, 有時真係跟漏一d 都唔奇, 我反而唔會因為咁而下次 gup 得佢地d 功課緊d....因為...功課係佢地既, accountability 亦係佢, 唔係我, 我見佢唔合格既處理方法佢同佢 work out 佢下次可以點 plan for himself, 唔係我去 plan 我以後點 gup 實佢d 功課, 咁只會令佢 shift responsibility, 另外, 亦因為咁, 佢地會有機會睇到事情既 impact, 亦係事後我同佢地 follow up discussion 既好時機 (因為未發生既野, 你講乜佢地都係唔覺好嚴重的)
4) take "support" role, 唔係 "主動" role - 細路多, 亦令佢地識得珍識資源, 因為佢地知媽咪就得一個, 要同我講野, 我只有 after work 個幾個鐘, 咁三個我傾得邊個呢...於是 other than 我主動揾佢地, 佢地就會成日打電話俾我 (雖然好多時係打黎投訴另一個, 哈哈), 但畢竟就製造 more opportunities for us to talk, 都唔係壞事架, 最重要係佢地會 learn to be proactive, 唔係坐以待斃, 呢點最有用, 將來係要靠佢地自己去打出黎架嘛...冇人會做埋個 result 比佢架 wor, right?
依家彥媽都未去到最煩個陣既, so far 都應付到, 係大彥因為已小三, 所以先會多d 野跟喇...中彥係 K3 only, 仲可以 relax D...細彥係 BB 班, 唔駛理住都得既, 係主力 train up 兩個細既自己 take care 自己, 要 help 要學識出聲, 唔好等大人發現個停咁喇...依家中彥係 OK 既, 同埋佢份人 perfectionist 過大彥, 自己都會緊張自己d 野, 係大彥先係你急佢唔急. 我依家係會先俾大彥放學去功課輔導班, at least 有個人先做 first screening 跟跟佢d 功課, 之後 back home 就係我睇下佢做成點, 同佢傾下學校既野, 再有時間就 let 三兄弟一齊玩, 我多數係睇, 間中先加入. 但我會響附近行黎行去, trying to show them that I am always around. 佢地有野就會走黎揾我, 佢地揾得我我就一定停哂手聽佢地講, 令佢地覺得, 就算我唔係主動揾佢地, 但佢地想揾我就一定揾到我.
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