彥媽，多謝你答我的問題，而且還引導我想嘢要闊些．
我其實都係聽人講這幾間比較好．因我在荃灣住（只有三年而已）．如果行路以上的學校要20min.
我有想過搬近亞媽，不過佢住旺角，學校網好好．但是flat rent is very expensive. I cannot afford. 心裡一直想亞媽幫下自己，但她己over 70. Always very tired. 而我，生完後，仲係成日唔多好．．．oh sorry,彥媽，講番之前的先．
請問，荃灣有那間K是可以上連繫小學呢? 希望比些意見我啦．謝謝!
我其實都係聽人講這幾間比較好．因我在荃灣住（只有三年而已）．如果行路以上的學校要20min.
我有想過搬近亞媽，不過佢住旺角，學校網好好．但是flat rent is very expensive. I cannot afford.
==>旺角有分 "油尖旺" 同 "何文田", 兩個網既學校已好唔同, 隔條街就有分別的了. 你係講緊邊個先?
請問，荃灣有那間K是可以上連繫小學呢? 希望比些意見
==>好似唔多覺 wor...有間 "德貞", but at Shamshuipo 唔算荃灣....多數係九龍多, 而且, 可以講既係, 要可以由 KG 直升小學個d , 間小學一定會係私立 or 直資的, 咁你係唔係想俾小朋友讀私校先? If not, 讀官津小學既話就冇得由 KG 直升的, 一定要抽獎.
彥媽,多謝你抽時間回答我的問題．我得一個小朋友，都好想比佢謮私立 or 直資．但當想到我自己要退休的時候，亞囝仲未中學畢業，我又頭疼了．私立 or 直資，個個月要比學費的．
==> 頭咩痛呢...人係要向目標前進架 ma...你問得咁多野, 即係証明你好著緊阿仔, 既然係咁, 為佢諗多d , 頭痛又如何? 事實上呢個亦係你做阿媽既責任呀 (我係指為佢諗, 唔係指一定要讀私校)....so 若然你認為私校比到佢既野對佢會好, 咁就 think of possible ways to ACHIEVE it 嘛...但若然 budget 對你黎講係真係一個問題既, 就唔好諗佢, 睇都費事睇, 轉諗 other options, 就係 so simple.
但如果比佢去官津小學，又會好緊張，聽講好焀；我現在己經要9:30pm去sleeping la.....我性格又係緊張媽媽，咁點呢??
==> 既然你話自己係緊張型既, 咁你同阿仔唔好考d 程度太高既學校咪得囉, 依家冇話普普通通個d 唔得 bor, 你咪見出面d 人講黎講去得個幾間學校就當全 HK 只可以讀個幾間先得架, 事實上仲有好多小學雖則係冇乜名氣, 但咁 =/= 佢地唔得 wor, so 你驚乜...
另外, 人越大, 識既野越多, 就自會越多野跟架喇...this is natural , so same as kids, 年級越高, 功課會多d , 深d, 呢d係必然現象, 係必經階段, so 你做阿媽既角色就係要協助佢去 manage 自己既 emotion, 同面對呢d 將會出現既困難啦 (去到邊間小學都會有架 wor) , 而唔係同佢一齊去 "緊張" 架嘛...緊張唔係問題, 但只係識緊張, 跟住就企左係度, 乜都唔知點做好就係問題, 明嘛? d野都未殺到埋新就先緊張, 咁對成件事都唔會有幫助, 只係令自己更騰雞 only. 你依家阿仔 K1 都未考, 仲有時間丫, 依家開始逐d 逐d 做 data collection 仲黎得切 bor.
再者, 我講唔少次, 人要學識係適當既時候放手, 你阿仔最終都係要靠佢自己走出自己既路, 你作為阿媽, 你既角色係輔導, 唔係幫佢行埋, 整埋個結局比佢....so what you need to do is to manage YOURSELF first, (即係自己都 relax 先啦) , 咁先可以冷靜咁去諗辦法將來輔導佢架嘛....而且, "緊張" 亦唔係一個 excuse, 緊張又好, 唔緊張又好, 世界唔會因為你緊張就行慢d , 所以我地要學識既係要自己主動跟世界而行, 唔係企響樹等個世界拉你行呀.
這個問題我己想了有成年啦，都冇答案，現在才膽有問你，指點指點．
==>你肯問已係積極既一步, 我已好努力幫緊你, 但你要先有系統地組識下你諗既野先, 恕我直言, 暫時我睇到依家問題我睇係出響你樹先多d wor...衷心建議你睇下我精華篇既野, 希望可以就 mindset 上既 change 俾到d 啟示你, 之後先再同你 work out other steps forward la...
attitude 唔變, behaviour 改唔到的, 咁 consequence 亦會依舊...你睇睇我之前寫既野就明, 唔止 applicable to kids, but to adults too.
我亞媽住油尖旺區的．屋企付近是油天小學ar.....
==> 咁係 net 31, 個網 OK ge...
另外, 你係大人就梗係 everything under control la...但當你帶住個人仔, 一陣佢唔肯行, 扭計扭抱唔舒服就唔係咁計架喇....有架校車, 車程唔耐既話, 一上車就去學校, 咁係最保險既做法.
再者, 有乜頭暈身慶, 近近地, 即坐 taxi 去 pick up 佢都怕快過你爬隧道卦....right? (當然, 你若打算叫姐姐就 stay nearby to wait 就另唔怕 this point ge..) 不過...我唔會想俾個姐姐係個樹 heah (尤其中環, 來回又 waste time , 係樹 heah 我就真係唔多想佢唔知去左邊 or 同d 鄉里打牙較, 我寧願佢 back home work 好過, better control) , 九龍既都仲 OK, 起碼來回都有限時間.
講到尾, 點解我會主要討論交通 here 係因為就係兩間都係差不多, 又冇乜邊間特別有優勢過另外一間, 係咁既話, 另一d priority 就會係我既 decision base 了. 但既然你又自己都話兩間都係差不多 (in terms of syllabus, 校風), 咁你下一步想 base on 咩揀先..??
呢d 就係要你做呢個做阿媽既做 data collection 先會知, 又要好好心機一個問唔到, 就去 check from other sources 先會知, 就咁問人地 "好" 同 "唔好", 呢d 答案對你唔會有用, 你只會越聽越朦, 因為 A 話 A 好, B 又話 B 好, so I can't see how could you make use of these info to make decisions ga wor...right? :)
彥媽你好, I had read your messages, summary. I knew you're a very good mum and a very good advicer too. Now I had a question for n1, would you mind to give some comments in terms of their curriculum, teaching method and displines.
1) HKCS Tai Hung Tung (fullday)
2) Funful (Int'l am)
I knew your eldest son had attended HKCS but not the other two.
would you mind to give some comments in terms of their curriculum, teaching method and displines.
1) HKCS Tai Hung Tung (fullday)
2) Funful (Int'l am)
I knew your eldest son had attended HKCS but not the other two.
==> 基教既學校係用瑞吉歐 approach, 著重 project approach 同以兒童為主導, creativity, 佢係幼兒園, 亦即係 full day, 呢點你睇我有講 "幼兒園同幼稚園" 既分別 at 精華篇就會知.
我大彥之前讀過大坑東的, 間學校都唔錯, 起碼老師們對小朋友都好著緊, 我細彥本來都有考入, 不過因為之後我地 plan 有變, 要搬, so travel 唔方便了, 先冇去.
Funful 係私營幼稚園, 我會將佢放在同 cannan ar, York ar ...呢類一起, 因為佢係私營, 會自然較著重小朋友既成績表現, 英文自係佢必定要 high priority 既野, 因為唔係的話, 小朋友考小學考得唔好就直接影響佢將來收生架嘛..但我咁講唔涉及彥媽話佢好與唔好, 因為呢點係視乎家長想要既係乜而已.
Discipline 兩間都 OK ar...幾歲人仔 only, 我睇唔到可以有幾難搞 bor :)
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