all+, every family got their own story. - 過節? guess that's all due to $$ regarding to my 99's senior home thing.
99 told us, she got the invitation card - hand delived when brother-in-law visit her in the senior home. Koo-9 dropped in at the same time, and he got no excuse, but verbrally invited her.
when koo-9 realised we don't even those the nephew is getting married, she got hestitated, thinking should she come or not. as if Brother-in-law really want to invite US all, why only printed 99's invitation card but not others (those lived in HK) ...
guess he is doing the gesture in front of the 99.... who knows.. loose hope on that brother.....
betty- u r right, so my 66 call up brother yesterday and leave a message - ask nicely saying 99 mentioned your son (our nephew) will be getting married in the summer, when will it be, do you need any help from us? but no call back...
then my 66 called my koo-9, ask if she knew when will be the wedding day, she said no idea... and not sure how to plan her trip to here...