you are so right .... 男人永遠最衰; 而衰男人身遑只有衰 (level 底)的伴, 而樓主是個正常有人的品格的女人, 所以 you deserve a better one.
男人衰, 去主動追另一個, 另一個明知佢有老婆和囝囝, 都要受, 這就是最好的正明此女人底級啦. not at human level la, sometime animal may have higher moral standard that this kind of 小三 (和你c6). This means, 佢地level 好夾.
而我, 雖然帶著兩囡, 但身為她們為一的依靠, 也不可再任性, cannot afford not to get divorce, 因我不希望留一個底級男人來污染囡囡.
再講, 去年我的"那些年"初戀情人也直接話好希望和我一起, 不過他已婚 ... 結果比我寸到追冇面再找我. I can say yes to him, but i did not. 佢冇細路, 但我絕不可能傷害另一女人 ("那些年"初戀情人的現妻), 更不可能和這個希望去滾的臭男一起, 我不要降級.
樓主要好好的為囝囝 make the right choice. And remember to live a happy live. your son can feel what you feel, happy and sadness. bring joy to your son ... make the right choice.
I think you and your husband are from a different culture background. So, don't use your background to understand your husband and your husband's family to fight this "war".
Good that you did not slap any one's face. Otherwise, it could be a crime from your husband's culture.
From the culture I am living in now, slap on someone's face is a crime.
Your parents really made a bad move by opening the door of your husband's home (at that time, you guys were separating) according to your husband's family culture.
I married to a husband from a different culture. Giving my home key to my parents would make my husband very mad. I never do that. Even my Mother in Law contributed the down payment for my parents' home, my husband did not give the home key to his Mother.
Your husband's marriage value and family value are different than yours. .......
Your husband might found himself not capable to live in your family culture.
I can understand why your husband's family think your husband have not done anything wrong according to their family culture.
It is no one's fault here. Not you, nor your husband according to your own different cultures. May all of you have minimum hurts after all.
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