Actually I have more than one 好男人 around me. I have a good husband, a good father, a good brother, a good dog (male too) and a good boss (no longer with him now because I became a full time mom a year ago). I am so proud to have them all. I really need to Thank God.
My husband is a great guy and great husband. He lets me do anything I enjoy doing and will help out a lot when he knows I am in bad mood.
For example, every time when we change maids, even though I don't work, he will come home from work to cook, clean the kitchen and bath the children because he knows changing maids make me stressed.
For example, he will go out in the middle of the night to get me "street food" if I wants them.
For example, when we travel, we don't bring our maids, so he will take care of the kids full time and let me rest.
I know he is great, so I am learning how to be a better wife now after all those years.
We've known each other for 15 years now. He still calls me several times a day just to see how I am doing.
He always asks me to go out shopping and to treat myself well. He lets me in charge of our money and always asks me to spend more. (Well, he is lucky too because I don't like shopping.)
He knows I like taking long bath. So, very often, he will put the kids to sleep (we don't let our maids put the kids to sleep) so that I can have time taking a relaxing bath.
Thanks for this thread, otherwise I don't "remember" all those sweet qualities of my husband.