some people believe in 玄學, some don't. and as for me, I know it is really hard to find a good 師父. 每人的believe system 都不一樣, me and my ex husband also Catholic, if I know a good 師父 to warn me at the very beginning, 就冇感傷! so, I think if your 師父 is good, you in fact 是在幫有需要的jm.