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原帖由 boobecky 於 09-8-4 09:47 發表


樓主,不要怪我直言, 其實, 你6299係有控制慾,係自私,但你c6 even你自己都應該要有自主權, 你既然話你住緊間屋係你父母幫你比錢,你現在仲還緊,即係由始至終你6299嗰邊都無幫過你啦,既然人地都無當你自己人,又一向都 ...


多謝你, 你令我睇到唔係去定留, 而係c6原生家庭個問題, 將來仲有好多呢d問題, 我今次会企硬.
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原帖由 beagledog 於 09-8-4 12:36 發表
你仲諗緊呀mouth:mouth:" />

人地生仔要去overseas 就去囉.

你地有你地在hk生活, 各不相干.


Thanks, I also use your point to argue with c6, thanks for your advice.
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原帖由 boey 於 09-8-4 12:50 發表
佢生仔點解要你地陪佢一齊去生呀,咁你咪話你都要生,但你就一定留係香港生,叫佢地黎做陪月同去洗碗養你一家又得唔得

真係咩人都有,你9962都咁自私同唔理你地感受,咁聽話有獎呀:;pppp: ...


我知, but c6 not standing on my side, so 我頭痕
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原帖由 Bluestar 於 09-8-4 13:16 發表
我無看前文, 淨知你有個Masters degree, 打算讀博士,
估計你c6起碼都有個學士degree,
有份工 或 career.

你地甘心去做洗碗個d工咩 ?
係咁去外國做乜 ?
就咁混混愕愕過一世人 ? ...


我都知, 同c6講, 佢話親情大於一切mouth:

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原帖由 lo310 於 09-8-4 13:36 發表


嘩, 大開眼界. 若果tvb有套劇係咁實俾人丙到個編劇傻! 大家都會話當觀眾是傻瓜嗎!

話時話.你老公同你有無商量過? 有無同你認真傾過呢個問題? 若無. 不要等. 你要行動了.

照你所講. 呢個plan只有兩家人有著數. 第 ...


Thanks a lot, 我知你一直有睇我post. 講真, 以前一直以為9962要去overseas退休, now know the real reason is because of brother-in-law, so I'm very very angry .
Not just you, when I talked to my close fd, she 'O'咀.

9962 d 偏心野, if u read my previous posts, you would know. Also so many weird things !!! wok wok 新鮮, wok wok 甘.

也許我在hk冇娘家, but I will be STRONG. What you said is so right, thanks.
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發表於 09-8-4 16:52 |只看該作者
In these few months, c6 had many fights with me on this topic, 佢好惡, 鬧我, 埋怨我因我要留下來hk, 佢冇得同父母一齊. Today, 忍唔住捉住c6 談判.

首先, I said if not for him, I won't need to give up my good career in overseas and came back to hk with him. He shouldn't 埋怨我要留下來hk.

Then I analysed the situation with him. (1) His bad job in overseas forever + 佢冇比好日子我過 (弟婦嫁左有車揸-9962比,我返來跟c6生活quality下降,日日迫巴士), 我可能仲要養番佢, (2) 弟婦去生仔呢个reason save me --- 我說人地去你又去, 有冇想過自身情況, + because 弟婦有d 痛脚比我知道, 同c6講, 佢同意. 我話你係一家之主, 有責任保護我地个family & do things in the most beneficial to our family. 如果你堅持去, even 錯, 我同將來d kids陪你一齊錯 (我大佢), 仲有其實真係洗碗, 你洗之ma, not me, 我返officeエ冇問題, 我叫佢唔好成日話我唔肯就佢family, 我係為我地个family 打算. (3) 最後9962唔会打本比佢 ($$ 比弟婦), 我話我冇$$帶去, so c6冇後路一定要face reality, 做粗工以及之後帶來ge problems.

結果, 佢話暫時唔去, save money in hk, 起碼幾年後先諗, 我暫時可relief, 去做自己ge 事in these years. 希望佢唔外change mind or be influenced la !!!
其實我好lost, 个心好unhappy & 好亂好慌. 冇セ組織能力,想say what then say what !!

失眠3日, 而家叫ok d, 我而家去休息, 多謝bk d sisters, thanks for your support
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發表於 09-8-4 17:26 |只看該作者
原帖由 zxzx 於 09-8-4 16:52 發表
佢話暫時唔去, save money in hk, 起碼幾年後先諗..

GOOD NEWS
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原帖由 zxzx 於 09-8-4 16:17 發表


我都知, 同c6講, 佢話親情大於一切mouth:mouth:" />mouth:" />


Then tell him to eat it and wash the dishes - for the rest of his life !!
:tongue:
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發表於 09-8-4 19:08 |只看該作者
親情大於一切?

咁佢同自己d(未來)孩子唔係親情?

已經試過一次 - 為左聽6299話而放棄係外國發展, 搬返香港.

今次原因重搔頭 - 為左伴弟婦去生仔, 放棄係香港發展?

今次的代價係 - 要自己d孩子永遠做二等公民.

因為弟婦d孩子會係公主/少爺.

而自己d孩子要全家擠一間房.
毋機會發展 / 學琴 / 興趣班 etc.
可能要早早出來做part time, 幫補學費...

plus
無時間俾自己d孩子!

[ 本帖最後由 sbandliz 於 09-8-4 19:13 編輯 ]
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發表於 09-8-5 09:16 |只看該作者
恭喜你暫時解決了問題
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發表於 09-8-5 11:23 |只看該作者
弟婦有d痛腳比我知道, 請問我好唔好叫c6/我同99講聲?
(雖然9962唔like我, partly因為弟婦知道我做girlfriend 時9962好like我, so弟婦設法弄走我, partly因為我比較直同真, 冇弟婦把口咁甜同識做戲, 佢係無聲狗咬死人個d, 扮純情, 初時我都差d比佢握倒, 但後來我發現佢d衰野, 但9962就中晒佢毒.)
因為弟婦係99面前扮委屈, 好似d 99同仔訴苦話新袍
唔like佢個d, 攪到99向我暗示家庭不團結係我問題, 弟婦對我咁"好" (扮好, 係99面前對我一個樣, 背後又一個樣), 我應同佢相親相愛.

[ 本帖最後由 zxzx 於 09-8-5 11:29 編輯 ]
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發表於 09-8-5 11:35 |只看該作者
原帖由 zxzx 於 09-8-5 11:23 發表
弟婦有d痛腳比我知道, 請問我好唔好叫c6/我同99講聲?
(雖然9962唔like我, partly因為弟婦知道我做girlfriend 時9962好like我, so弟婦設法弄走我, partly因為我比較直同真, 冇弟婦把口咁甜同識做戲, 佢係無聲狗咬死 ...


If 6299's minds have already been poisoned by your sister-in-law, you have to be very careful and re-think whether you want to do this or not.

They may think that you are making this up just to avoid moving overseas. Or, maybe that you are just jealous of her.

Remember, she has the upper hand now, so one word from her will win over ten words from you.

In 6299's minds, you are the bad person, so they will believe anything your sister-in-law says, no matter how far-fetched or fake.
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