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I also don't want 開聲 "鬧"99.....
However, when I have no choice => I will do that!

原帖由 jesuslovesyou 於 10-7-12 20:32 發表

竟然鬧 99!!!

勁呀! 我估我就算幾火爆, 都唔會想開聲 "鬧"99.....

不過若係 "還口" 就唔敢包la....

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唉..... 我屋企最大問題係我老公, 我地財政上有問題,所以要同佢屋企人住,我話想住公屋,我老公又唔肯,又唔俾我返工,因為知道如果我返工無人做家務,6299都好唔鍾意我.又唔俾我bring 我個女出街,又唔幫我湊,已經2 1/2 yrs 啦,我可以點??

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發表於 10-7-13 13:15 |只看該作者

佢真係試過趕我走 ??????
=> If my 99 趕我走, I will be happy and say 'thank you' to her.
Then, I will not visit her in the coming years.

Most important, her son will not visit her too

Do you live with your 99? If yes, you 點做都無用. your 99點都唔滿意.............
It is because your 99 know you depends on her/her son.

原帖由 roywindan 於 10-7-12 20:56 發表
其實真係好想知點解有d人可以令奶奶開心,而我點做都無用.點都唔滿意,我回咀都差D無命,佢真係試過趕我走

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發表於 10-7-13 13:27 |只看該作者

It is because 我係港女

原帖由 jesuslovesyou 於 10-7-12 20:32 發表

竟然鬧 99!!!

勁呀! 我估我就算幾火爆, 都唔會想開聲 "鬧"99.....

不過若係 "還口" 就唔敢包la....

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回覆 2# ac321 的文章

係呀...同佢地住.... 但真係好想離開,見個女甘細唔想佢無在一個(不論mum or dad ) 但係真係好辛苦, 我尋日想bring 囡囡去百佳99都唔俾,話怕佢仲暑,但我係一個好軟弱既人,唔夠堅強, 而每次都係佢地迫我低頭 including my husband

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發表於 10-7-13 13:43 |只看該作者

May be you can think in the other way (to know why your 99 dislike you).
A woman (99) use all his $ (and everything) on his son. And now, his son growth up + married.
She want his son to live more comfortablely. However, his son use a lot of $ on his wedding (give $ / tables / cakes to parent in-law). Then, his wife stay at 99's home (no job) and use his son's money .................
i.e. The wife is the 'loading' of his son, she can't help his son / contribute to his son's family.
Base on the above reason, you 99 won't like you (even you do everything you should do)

P.S. This is not my points. This is the points of most 99.........

原帖由 roywindan 於 10-7-13 13:13 發表
唉..... 我屋企最大問題係我老公, 我地財政上有問題,所以要同佢屋企人住,我話想住公屋,我老公又唔肯,又唔俾我返工,因為知道如果我返工無人做家務,6299都好唔鍾意我.又唔俾我bring 我個女出街,又唔幫我湊,已經2 1/2 y ...

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發表於 10-7-13 13:45 |只看該作者

I think what you should do is: send your daughter to full day N1/K1, and then you should find a job!

原帖由 roywindan 於 10-7-13 13:40 發表
係呀...同佢地住.... 但真係好想離開,見個女甘細唔想佢無在一個(不論mum or dad ) 但係真係好辛苦, 我尋日想bring 囡囡去百佳99都唔俾,話怕佢仲暑,但我係一個好軟弱既人,唔夠堅強, 而每次都係佢地迫我低頭 includin ...

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回覆 1# ac321 的文章

no la ....... we didn't have party to celebrate our wedding . he gave nothing to me or my family ... and he force me to quit my job because of my baby .....其實我有少少覺得佢地精神有問題

[ 本帖最後由 roywindan 於 10-7-13 13:50 編輯 ]

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發表於 10-7-13 13:53 |只看該作者

It seems that you love your husband so much.
You are so .........

Then, why your 99 don't like you?
because you quit your job (no income?)

原帖由 roywindan 於 10-7-13 13:46 發表
no la ....... we didn't have party to celebrate our wedding . he gave nothing to me or my family ... and he force me to quit my job because of my baby .....其實我有少少覺得佢地精神有問題 ...

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回覆 1# ac321 的文章

去到lee個地步我好難再愛佢,因為問題本身係佢到,佢無幫我唸過, 我99唔鍾意我最初係因為我同老公日日嘈,根本已經無得返轉頭,我老公每次嘈都要自殺,我99覺得我唔夠愛佢wor,又話我唔know點做女人,又話我唔知點做阿媽,仲要唔俾我阿媽lai探我地,係唔係應該離開

[ 本帖最後由 roywindan 於 10-7-13 14:02 編輯 ]

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發表於 10-7-13 14:06 |只看該作者

Yes, you should go!
Do you want your daughter to be 'strong' or 'week'? What you are doing now will affect your daughter ................
And my point is: if a man 嘈要自殺=>you should 離開 him.

原帖由 roywindan 於 10-7-13 13:59 發表
去到lee個地步我好難再愛佢,因為問題本身係佢到,佢無幫我唸過, 我99唔鍾意我最初係因為我同老公日日嘈,根本已經無得返轉頭,我老公每次嘈都要自殺,我99覺得我唔夠愛佢wor,又話我唔know點做女人,又話我唔知點做阿媽,仲 ...

[ 本帖最後由 ac321 於 10-7-13 14:07 編輯 ]

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原帖由 ac321 於 10-7-13 14:06 發表
Yes, you should go!
Do you want your daughter to be 'strong' or 'week'? What you are doing now will affect your daughter ................
And my point is: if a man 嘈要自殺=>you should 離開 him.

...

但我好怕我拿唔到撫養權

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發表於 10-7-13 15:52 |只看該作者

why? If you are the person to take care of your daughter (in the past), usually you can 拿到撫養權 (even no job)

原帖由 roywindan 於 10-7-13 14:34 發表

但我好怕我拿唔到撫養權

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回覆 1# ac321 的文章

wow............ 多謝妳的提醒,因為一路以來我只怕我會失去我個囡

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發表於 10-7-13 16:05 |只看該作者

Remember from now on, never never let you 99 to help you to take care or your daughter.
It is because your C6 may use this point: 99 help you to take care of your daughter.

原帖由 roywindan 於 10-7-13 15:56 發表
wow............ 多謝妳的提醒,因為一路以來我只怕我會失去我個囡

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發表於 10-7-13 21:50 |只看該作者

原帖由 ac321 於 10-7-13 16:05 發表
Remember from now on, never never let you 99 to help you to take care or your daughter.
It is because your C6 may use this point: 99 help you to take care of your daughter.

i am planning to go now .... but still need some time . because of the money and place to live... 99arm arm 又發作係到話我唔知點做人阿媽,點做人老婆,話我老公好慘,唔怪之得成日嘈交wor,跟住我打俾我老公同佢講成件事既經過,唉....佢話我知你好唔開心,對唔住係我錯(因為無錢搬) 其實我只係想租屋或者最起碼俾我睇到有希望,唔俾我出去做野,又唔俾我地出去,連社工都話係精神(約代)同音

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原帖由 roywindan 於 10-7-13 21:50 發表

i am planning to go now .... but still need some time . because of the money and place to live... 99arm arm 又發作係到話我唔知點做人阿媽,點做人老婆,話我老公好慘,唔怪之得成日嘈交wor,跟住我打俾我老公 ...

yes....唔比妳出去做野, 又唔比你搬走, 呢d 係 99 對妳們的 "操控"! 妳和c6 對自己的生活沒有了 "自主"....真係好慘.... 我估你 c6的壓力都唔少! (可能你99 都成日不停口咁鬧鬧鬧你 c6..?)

真的..租屋都好丫...平平地租屋，搬出去，所有野都會好轉....

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發表於 10-7-14 13:14 |只看該作者

聽到你咁講都覺得你好慘. 老實講, 唔做野係真係會俾人睇唔起既. 理得你做家務做到隻狗咁, 無人見到你呢d成績. 雖然話FT mama可以多d時間陪小朋友, 但其實對個小朋友有幾大幫助呢? 我見大把人都係FT mama帶大(講緊已經長大成人果d), 佢地會覺得自己媽咪如果後生時有出去做野, 佢地生活會過得好d. 因為其實仔女番學之後, 媽媽都可以出去做野, 只係FT mama多數唔慣番工, 所以一路無做野直到老.

你直接同你老公講你想出去做野既諗法啦, 你唔出去做野, 自己無能力照顧自己(在家更無話事權), 如果你驚你老公鬧你或者俾說話你聽,你可以寫信俾佢, 將你唔開心既野寫晒出黎, 然後出街, 直到佢搵你為止, 睇下佢反應係點. 如果佢咁都仲鬧你, 咁你自己諗下你仲值唔值得留響呢個家度.

撫養權果度, 你都唔驚得咁多, 同埋對於你老公黎講, 佢留個女響身邊都冇好處, 反而你可以成日去接佢去玩, 去邊都得. 一個一三五, 一個二四六, 應該問題不大.

原帖由 roywindan 於 10-7-13 21:50 發表

i am planning to go now .... but still need some time . because of the money and place to live... 99arm arm 又發作係到話我唔知點做人阿媽,點做人老婆,話我老公好慘,唔怪之得成日嘈交wor,跟住我打俾我老公 ...

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