pluva: hee all Singapore are proud to be one …………me too but I realised it's not so ideal after all …………after much travelling ……if only it's a mix of Singapore n Aussie education, with more freedom n artistic expressions.
yes ur child will surely benefit more from sin education, but to me, staying closely to both my parents n go through ups n Downs is more important n satisfying rather than high end jobs with no EQ n family concepts.
agreement have to be towards the same goal loooo. if not u guys may fight because of this in furture ………may la.
top schools or not depends on ur child, if he can n he likes y not. of Co's never try never know.
can always try out there first since he is still young n can change anytime later.
hope this views help …………
Co's I'm always away from my kids so …………I know they missed me more than I miss them
No able to access BK in China. I do agree with you. But myself can't change anything if another half really want to go back SIN. My husband's family and friends are all in SIN. My family and friends are all in HK. He already live in HK 10 yrs+ because of me..I am too selfish if I insist to stay in HK.. I am also thinking to get something to do there after they move back.
Finally, my husband and my son will be moved back to Sin end of this Month for N1. I may travel between HK/SIN for a while. Hope we don\'t have to live apart for long
So you r not coming over to Sin. For my case, it's opposite. I was back to Sin with my kids in Aug and my hubby is still working in HK. My hubby and son PR had been approved and hopefully my hubby can get a job easier in Sin. Hoping that by then we can be united again. Finger cross!
Hi Sim, I may travel abt every 10-15 days and stay 10-15 days each time.. It\'s not easy for me to give up my biz in HK. I expect traveling abt 2 years and look for any biz opportunities in SIN.
So you have your own biz? That's good!! Good financial support. My hubby is the only income supporter so it is importance that he can find a good job here. He has been working in his current company for >10 yrs so it's tough for him to start all over again in Sin and salary might be lower.
Both my kids enjoy their school life here. It's not that harsh as compare to HK. I felt relax as well. This is way I came back. My hubby also think it's better here for the kids.
Hi Sim, yes.. There are give and take. Having own biz and better financial support, the lesser time spend to child and family. I can only make sure I give every Sat and Sun to my son. I did discuss with my husband to send our son to study in HK SIS. He still can receive SIN edu and we still have complete family together. But he insist to send him back. My husband gave up his job in HK and no plans in SIN yet!! He always telling me that the expenses in SIN is nothing compare to HK.. Is that true?
I understand it\'s difficult for your husband.. Properly, he can try to look for jobs from Internet and see the offer.. A family, It\'s not good to live separately for long. My case is more troublesome.
I also planned to apply for HK SIS but it's really too expensive and not convenient. So, your hubby had quit his job. Maybe his worry is not so much as you can still be the financial supporter.
Expenses in Sin is high. Education fees maybe lower if you choose gov school but still high for the foreigners. I need to pay S$500 for my son next yr for his school fees next yr if he is not PR. It's not cheap if you study in Private school too. Anyway, my friends told me that it is better to study in gov kinder.
Yes, hope getting PR will make it easier for him to find a job. Your case is not that worse, you can still meet your family every month but my children can just see their daddy every 3 -4 months and only just 1 week.
Why does your son come back so early for the N1? I thought new school yr will be 2nd Jan. We will be going back in Nov, maybe we can meet up for a cup of tea.
Yes, he just quit his job.. My husband is always very positive. He is seldom worry in his life :;pppp: Here comes problems, there comes solutions. Maybe he doesn\'t want to show his worry to me. Who knows?
We have discussed regarding our son\'s education. If in HK, we will not put him in main stream. HK SIS is consider cheaper international school compare others. But at last, he still prefer to send our son back to SIN because the 1st choice kinder got space in Nov. Furthermore, After all subsidies and bb money to money, child care is less than HKD1800 full day.
My travel plan is just very ideal one. Properly, for first couple months and see how\'s the traveling. End of Oct, I will travel with them to SIN and stay for abt 2 weeks to help my son to fit in the new environment. Sure, we can meet up when you are back to HK or I am in SIN.
So sorry for the late reply! my son is having exam these days. When will your family be coming over? Where do your family stay? Your mother-in-law will take care of your son after you return to HK.
No problem! We are leaving HK next Wed.. Now very busy on packing my husband and son\'s stuff. We live at Jurong West. My husband will take care my son himself in Nov and see how\'s the situation of my son in full day child care centre. My mother-in-law will also help in cooking, house work etc.
In HK, My son only attend half day kinder and helper take care him after school.. Do you have any opinion to put 3yrs old kid at full day child care/kindergarten? Is it a big change to him? Do you think he will be scare of going to school? I will stay 10 days to 2 weeks and see how.
How's everything going? Do your son get use to the life in Sin? I think he can cope well with the new environment just like my kids. I'm living in Simei so it is really far from Jurong West. We will be back to HK 2 weeks later. Miss the winter time.
My son is stll little bit miss our HK home..He asked to take a taxi to go home the 1st night.. Today is the 4th day, he still prefer to sleep at Sofa instead of room.. I believe it's because of the lighting not so bring as our HK home.. We will see how when he start kinder next Mon.
I got no idea of the place of Simei. Anyway, we are busy on setting up nicer bedroom for my son..I may go back HK next weekend.. Properly, I will come again in another 10 days if I miss my boy too much..
Yes.. It's not easy at all.. My case is a little bit complicated..I really got no idea how to handel my emotion when I am apart from my son and miss him.. But I believe time will tell the best way..
Now I just do whatever I can do for my son, spend time with him as much as I can, work hard to have better financial support to his future education after his Primary.. Hope he will understand when he slowly grow up.
Hi pluva， how r u, has your son settled in sin? Seems that I m on the same case as you, really in a dialama, can u share some more with me about your case? My hb wants to bring my kids back n I stay here too:;pppp:
Hello ngmyan, yes.. My son and my husband went back SG 2 and half months ago.. My son has attending his child care there. I travel one or two times a month to see them.
Different family, different case.. My case is my husband still prefer to live in SG because he can\'t really fit in to HK\'s life even he had stayed in HK for many years and got quite good income here..if your kids are still young, Sending child back for education shall not be more important than family member living together and educate children together! I am a person who is worry more abt future. Eg. Child\'s education fund, family emergency cash, House etc.. My husband is easy come, easy go.. He is not really worry when he is using savings to support daily life.. He believe he can find a job before money dry up.
I would suggest either you follow your husband to SG or get your husband stay in HK. To children, nothing is better than family member living together. Especially, for young kids.. Deep talk and make proper plan before big change..
We decided to stay in hk for at least three more years coz my daughter gets into SIS primary one in the forthcoming year. My hb worries the most is the education standard here, he likes SIS just that it\'s really expensive n I have another baby girl some more..... Will go n see.... Hope to earn some more money n move back to Singapore together later.
. Today is the 4th day, he still prefer to sleep at Sofa instead of room.. I believe it's because of the lighting not so bring as our HK home.. We will see how when he start kinder next Mon. 
.. But I believe time will tell the best way.. 
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