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Sumyeema1

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tkbaby 發表於 13-1-17 03:16
你今時今日先覺得佢廢？？定還是一早都係咁廢呢？？點解你又同佢生？？生前無想清楚？？ ...

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回覆：唔知，重頂到幾耐....

Your husband is the one who you should shout at! Not your little son--he just wants to see more of his mom instead of the babysitter. Your husband is a spoiled kidult and a loser as well. If I were you, I would have divorced him. You are suffering and unhappy. Do you foresee you will live the rest of your life with him? He doesn\'t seem like he will improve and he can\'t see what\'s wrong with him. But you will soon be consumed by all these negative emotions of yours, which will affect your sons\' mentality and affect your relationship with your sons. I rarely leave comments on BK and I hate to ask people get divorce. But I have read all your previous postings and the messages you left. My heart just aches to see how your relationship with your husband went downhill. I am very close to my sister as well and I will say the same thing to my sister. How do women have to be stuck in a poor relationship? My mom and my dad don\'t live each other and they argue with each other all the time. My mom didn\'t divorce my dad because (she said) she didn\'t want to be laughed at by her friends and relatives!!! My sister and I grew up seeing our parents hating each other and still sticking together--we hate it. We grew up to become negative pessimistic people! I think your son will rather be with a happy single mom than be stuck with an unhappy mom and a useless dad who they have no respect towards. Sorry for being rude. I hope you can find your happiness soon. Please remember you still have your sister and your mom in Hong Kong. Stay strong. *hugs*

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回覆：唔知，重頂到幾耐....

返娘家，放棄廢人

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請工人, 自己話事! 另外要同c6傾下屋企責任問題.

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回覆：唔知，重頂到幾耐....

can u ask your 99 to cook and watch your kid at your house instead, since she is just living around the corner... that will save u much time in commute, and u dont hv to wash dishes right away just whenever u hv time later of the night (because it's your house!)
Or, i suggest u taking your elder son to those after-school program (such as 'kids r kids' - not sure they hv one where u live)... they dont teach much but they watch kids doing homework, which means u hv one less thing to worry about at night (and he will hv less chance to get spoiled by grandma!)
不過呢啲都係治標唔治本... in a long run u still hv to solve the problem w your husband!

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引用：Your+husband+is+the+one+who+you+should+s

原帖由 charsiumama 於 13-01-17 發表
Your husband is the one who you should shout at! Not your little son--he just wants to see more of h ...

Thank you for your sharing. Divorcing Mr. Useless is my last resort. I seldom yell at him cause I don\'t want the kids to witness that. Really need to control my emotions and focus on the kids.

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不如請工人啦

你再咁攪會 d 壓力只會越來越大

我鐘意你同我講 I Love U, I Love U Too！
You are the sunshine of my life. That's why I'll always stay around. You are the apple of my eye. Forever you'll stay in my heart.

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引用：不如請工人啦++你再咁攪會+d+壓力只會越來

原帖由 esmehouse 於 13-01-17 發表
不如請工人啦你再咁攪會 d 壓力只會越來越大

都話係米國請工人分人工分分鐘多過你份糧！係米國唔會有人請工人架！

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引用：Quote:月希+發表於+13-1-17+09:16+乜都攬晒

原帖由 方麗娟 於 13-01-17 發表
呢句講得好到point

想借個位呻下

咁可能係時候「大病」一塲喎。

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唔知講咩同唔識講咩...

希望普天下既媽媽會幸福快樂...

媽媽永遠都係最偉大的!!!!!!!!!!!!

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引用：家住米國，唔同香港，請工人好好好貴。我人

原帖由 Sfc9 於 13-01-17 發表
家住米國，唔同香港，請工人好好好貴。我人工比廢人多，要供屋供車，已經冇乜錢剩。廢人係廢人老母家唔可以 ...

你住米國，點解好似hk mom咁要緊張地睇仔功課同練琴？我以前外國既小朋友無咩功課做，學琴亦純為興趣唔係為考琴！你講既schedule真係好似係香港生活，一d都唔似係外國，其實會唔會你自己調節下心態唔咁緊張小朋友就好d？

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兩公婆的恩怨盡量留番兩公婆解決, 你奶奶還要煮飯俾你食, 其實好難得, 日日煮, 煮得唔好多多少少有埋怨, 問心你自己都唔想第時個新抱要你照顧。
多感恩, 放鬆一些吧, 祝福你。安排一個假回娘家鬆一鬆都好丫。

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回覆：唔知，重頂到幾耐....

唉，好同情你，我初初見到你話廢人，我以為你話個工人，點知你話你老公

唔好比自己太大壓力啦，you are doing great

得閒上嚟傾下計，我地媽媽會明白你

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Sfc9 發表於 13-1-17 09:11
多謝各位。我又唔覺自己好慘，只係今日頂唔順，失控，自己都好驚。對住佢，喊又喊過，講過又鬧過。成件事冇 ...

呢個 case 都係發生响一對中國人 couple 既身上, 佢地唔算係我朋友. 只係我個仔 4 年前年返 Pre-School 既另外一班既其中一個家長. 對 couple 都唔係咩讀書人, 2 個都係响大陸嚟. 呢對 couple 老婆 30 頭個老公就起碼 35+. 有一仔一女 (大仔今年啱啱 8 歲個妹就 5 歲). 個老公應該嚟咗美國都有 8-10 年, 但係一 d 英文都唔識, 就連簡單既 name, address 都唔識睇. 自己既地址都唔識寫. 又冇返工, 日日响學校附近行嚟行去. 最叻就係同埋對仔女企响學校門口食煙, 又滿口粗口! 係個老婆自己一個打份餐館工嚟養家! 由早做到晚! 個仔當年 5 歲時個老婆就同其他家長講, 個仔已經同粗口鬧佢 (應該學個衰老豆), 又唔 respect 個亞媽! 而且 2 公婆都分開瞓好耐啦! 有家長都有問點解唔離婚, 個老婆就話為咗對仔女喎. 而且又冇人揍! 而我地當時都多口問過個老公點解唔返工, 佢就話要搵老番工可以有保險. 大佬呀! 你英文都唔識多隻點會有人請你先得架! 總之呢個廢人一定比你 hubby 廢千萬多倍!

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我有時都唔知要條佬做乜?

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Sfc9 發表於 13-1-17 03:12
家住米國，唔同香港，請工人好好好貴。我人工比廢人多，要供屋供車，已經冇乜錢剩。廢人係廢人老母家唔可以 ...

樓主妳真能幹!!!
想問點解當初揀佢又肯生兩個呢??

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樓主, 支持你, 做 working mom 真的不容易！有左仔女之後壓力真係會大好多！

你 c6 有返工又讀緊 master, 會唔會有 d 計劃冇話你聽呀？同埋其實佢一邊工作一邊讀書都應該有 d 辛苦 ,,, 或者男人唔識表達？你唔好一見到佢就想叉佢先, 試下平心靜氣瞭解下？我相信夫婦之道都係貴乎溝通, 冇野解決唔到既 ~ 祝你幸福！