me also 原本同老公兩個人住,生完之後99倍我坐月, B4 bb born, relationship between 99 & me is good, after bb born, we broke. Her way of taking care BB is not accepted by me, she is hurting my bb.
My husband doesnt have sex with me after bb born, almost 9 month la. I ask why, he said the poor relationship between 99 & me bother him very much, make him no interest.
I do treat her mum transperant in this house, and he complains me that i made her mum unhappy. He said he is very good to me but only no sex, WHAT DO I WANT?
He show me all his financial status, hire a helper for me, request me to quit the job, my job now is only a full time mum to teach my bb.
How bad is my 99?
99倍我坐月, complains my auntie make so many soup for me, ( 2 fish soup per day, and 1 chicken soup or other soup - heathy for me) nood need to have so much.
She dont like to throw the rice of yesterday, and ask my auntie to give me to eat. my auntie of cox not gave me la. She exchange the bowl of rice from me, afraid my auntie will gaive her the rice of yesterday.
Now i am living with her, and didnt call her 99, i not let her to touch my bb, and she will carry my bb after her son at home.
Yes, 佢家陣係我老公面前仲扮到比我恰呀
My husband do love our BB, so he doesnt want me to leave. His exsuse of no sex to me made me very very upset, what is the relationship between my husband and I?
I m afraid i will become crazy to live with her. If her mum leave, my husband will think i am the BAD GUY to make her mum get out from this family.
She can teach her daughter's daughter not to respect her father, can do the same to my girl not to respect me. I really dont like her to talk, touch my BB.
I hate her voice, her face.
when she is 倍我坐月, she is not happy also, and cry to her daughter, complains my auntie, my mum and i repel her. Oh my god! I really polite to her each day, i call her morning, ask her what do u like to eat......
She is a bad woman will do bad things and think I am such kind of person.
Even i am so good to her, she will still have a lot of complains.
I will never good to her again, nos means of doing that.
Then How much i hate her?
I may seperate with my husband because of HER.
i do have the same idea, 帶埋bb同個工人搬, no one happy ( husband, 99 & me), if her mother leave first, husband will think i am doing something to hurt his mom.
Your problem is very serious.... ( I can understand)
You need to talk with your husband very seriously!!!
You can't give up your c6 & the family cos' of 99... 99 will die one day u know!
for a long & good relationship between you & C6 & 99, please don't live with 99 anymore. MOVE!
It is the only way... you keep this kind of poor situtation... you are going to have mental problem one day, you are not just losting your c6, but also your baby... and even YOURSELF!
Face the problem and improve your poor situtation ASAP... Find a positive way for yourself anyway!
You case is almost the same as bb012506.
We all here to support you!
My 99 always tells my husband's relatives that I am very bad. I was extremely sad at that time because my husband's relatives all support her. They telephoned my husband not to treat me so well.
I have done enough good as a daughter in law. That's it. If choose to ignore these idiots and have my life back.
Now, I keep telling myself that my 99 is an elderly and I just say "yes ar yes ar" no matter what she says.
My maid asked me why I can stand such a 99. She told me that 99 always says bad things and makes her very unhappy and humiliated. She said she wants to quit. I told her that 99 treats me the same. She feels better now.