pccw2319, he still don't know my decision yet. But, we will talk later this afternoon with his family. i.e. his father & mother.
but, i have a decision now that i shouldn't always be a passive one. I need to stand up and shout to them that i will not accept those women and the baby.
I will let them know that I will devoice with him.
You should leave ASAP 'cos you don't have much time to find another man who loves you and treats you better.
He said he wants that bb and stays with you. I think it's a lie. He thinks you're stupid. Don't believe him. Believe yourself and find your new life and new man ASAP.
Maybe you also have a problem but you should treat yourself better and leave that bad husband.
One more point, I left my ex quickly 3 years ago and I find that I have earned somehthing, my dignity and my happy life and I find that I'm in control of my own life. Don't wait for him to give me happiness. I should find happy life myself.
Don't be stupid. You won't accept another woman and her bb. At that time, I didn't accept that woman though she didn't have bb with my ex.
If you have some children, I think you may have other choice, say, wait for him to come back....
However, you don't have bb now, so you should leave ASAP 'cos you can't spend your life with him forever. If you know that you won't stay with him in the rest of your life, why not leave ASAP? You still want to wait until he comes back? How long do you wait? 1 year? 3 years or 10 years? You will regret 'cos it's a waste of your precious time.
Some people think that you should wait for him to come back. I think you should if you have bb. But the fact is that you don't have 1 but that woman has 1. So you must accept the cruel truth.
LEAVE NOW AND DON'T COME BACK AND SEE HIM FOREVER!
You still have time to find someone else who loves you and wants to have bb with you.
Some of my friends think it's difficult for me to find a new husband. However, I can do it. If you are a good woman, you must find a good man at last.
If he said he wants that bb, you should forget him and leave now.
1) He doesn't love you.
2) He has bb with other woman.
3) Forget the man you love for over 10 years. I can do it so you can do it too.
4) There're still a lot of good men who may not be handsome but have good hearts and love you and your future bb.
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