8萬美金年薪 is much more reasonable... but then 等於香港月薪一萬 after tax? Ng hai ar mah...that little after-tax income?!?! Even single and with no dependent doe shouldn't be that much tax bor! He did tuns of ESPP, 401K, and max out the flexible spending account ar!?!? Back then, I made less that that, single, max out 401k and ESPP plan and still have more than 香港月薪一萬 after tax bor.
I am the guy you are discuss at here and I understand your comments base on her sister's description, of course I know her sister care about my gf and that's why she ask for your help or comments, but what's she know not directly from my gf.
1) I hold the L-1 visa work at arizona since 2001, I only mention my yearly salary to my gf, and let her know I contribute 10% to my ESPP and almost the max on 401K
2) I just going to the night club with my friend when I am vacation at hk, I let her know because I don't want lie to her, but someone's already mention 叫鷄無限次, how many of your bf or your husband will let you know if they did it at the past, of course, I don't mention it is good or make any excuse
3) I never mention I don't want to go back hk, but I let her know the high probabilty need me to stay or travel to china. Do you how many semiconductor company at hk (wafer fab.)? You cannot take the risk and just quit the job, because i understand i am not young anymore. The important thing is my gf don't want me to working at china
4) I never mention I will get the green card at july, I am not the god. I just mention it is close to get the green card. I relocate to hk from china when I was 1 year old, but I still count to born in china, do you know how long for the line of china? My priority date is Feb 2003 and EB3, filing my I140 and I485 at Sep 2004, now my priority date just change to current since last month from the information of USCIS and then they sent me the RFE for my birth certificate. That's why I thought close to my case and need to go back china so urgetnt for my 出生証明書, because I sent my chinese version of my birth certificate to them two years ago, but us government never mention the issue, is it make sense I thought close to my case.
5) I let her know the possibilty to get her to usa if she can filing with me before I get the green card, because I can filing my spouse if I still at i485. After I get the green card, the spouse need to wait at least 4 to 5 years. Anyway, she got trouble on her birth certicficate, because she is 偷渡 to hk, and without any birth certificate from china. So, she looks like she cannot apply the 出生証明書 from china, we still try to working on it.
6) Even my dad speak mandarin or my sister may be not nice to my gf on the dinner, it is not their fault and I don't like anyone speak any bad words to my family person. Because my sister and dad don't want to do that and they try to did it for me. I urge them try to see my gf first since I want give my gf the faith. To be honest, how many of you can arrange your family person to see your bf/gf after 見過一次. To me, I never did it before.
7) Phone number with the beginning from3XXXXXX, because I bought the video phone from "3" and it can use it anywhere around the world if you have the cable internet, i don't think this is any new technology and I almost use it more than two years.
8) I don't want to go back hk for work because I know how comfortable to working at usa and you can spend more to with your family. 8 hours work, you can leave if your kids sick or something to do. How can you do that at asian country if you often? So, don't say that too fast at hk and you cannot suitable, just only too comfortable at usa. And I worked 5 years at hk before I transfer to usa. I understand all the above. Why the people can earn the high salary paid at usa, but earn the low salary paid at china even doing almost the same job. That's why I still need think a lot before I make the decision go back hk.
9) I never mention I have the job of IT or R&D, I just the small potato of engineer
10) I try to get marry with my gf in later but she mention her job can only quit on summer time (right now or 1 year later) and cannot quit in the middle. If I pick 1 year later and she will break up with me. moreover, she cannot wait or don't see me so long.
1) you can working or re-entry at usa if you have working visa H1 or L1
2) apply green card is base on where you born not base on which country's citizenship, I am also living at hk from 1 year old, but i born in china, so I still need to waiting at the china's line.
actually, when i said that at 工作時間同your sister 傾電話三個鐘都得架? Moreover, I don't mention me working at R&D. the definition of 得閒 is when I compare working at HK to USA in typically. I think no one will complain on it
to be honest, if you don't have any chance move to usa (偷渡往香港 and without 出生証明 for apply the green card), do you think that your bf will go back hk and marry with you? What 适應唔到 or 香港節奏太快? just the excuse, I only know working at usa more comfortable than hk, that's my five years working experience at hk and another five years experience at usa
to be honest, if you don't have any chance move to usa (偷渡往香港 and without 出生証明 for apply the green card), do you think that your bf will go back hk and marry with you? What 适應唔到 or 香港節奏太快? just the excuse, I only know working at usa more comfortable than hk, that's my five years working experience at hk and another five years experience at usa
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