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jks


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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

hello all,

我頂唔住卒之病啦,傷風感冒我諗係Liane傳染! :-(

我睇完Veroshea個message覺得香港的小朋友及父母都好可憐所以病都要留番個msg, 我覺得veroshea你也不應自責，想小朋友開心無太大pressure係應該喎,相反我覺得老師就有點不對啦,小朋友學唔識係佢哋責任多D喎,其實也應該對小朋友fair D, 佢哋返學已經用了唔少精神學嘢又真係應該俾番Ｄ時間佢哋玩，又或者可以考慮用遊戲方式學習!好似Liane每天返學3 hours,我都唔知佢日日做乜架，因為個個小朋友都learn at their own pace & their own will, 老師的責任就係observe小朋友進度,如果發現某方面慢了咪多Ｄ encourage 佢做多Ｄ果方面嘅嘢law, 唔會force架! 咁樣, learning先至係follow佢哋既internal needs, 佢哋先至會enjoy learning及其過程! 因為學校的long term goal 係教佢哋學習如何學習嗎! 好似Liane咁,佢都未識哂D alphabet架,不過佢好想學寫自己個名, 所以咪自己日日學law, 不知不覺間佢就學會啦! 不過我都知道香港的學習制度, 學校就好比工廠, 即係話同一個input就expect有同一個output, 學生就好似机器，唔可以有學習快慢! 老師就似果D工廠女工俾input law. Actually, 唔係香港吖,全世界既傳統教學都係咁架啦!

囡囡叫「小B崩」, 「嗅崩崩」,佢叫自己做「崩崩」各位得閒click入o黎睇o下
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

verosheas,

莫邁話你呀, 我自己更加抵打, 咁得閒都冇同忠忠溫習, 都係以前佢未入學時就有, 佢返左學就少左啦, 不過暫時又未比老師投訴.

署假都係個句, 找個玩得又食得就好加啦, 睇下啤梨點先
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

veroshea,

我呀女都係咁上下咋！佢重未攪清楚
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WaiMa


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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

Dear chungmother, 啤梨, 噹噹, veroshea, panchu, cslam and other mummy:

Hello, how are you all?

I haven't been here for a long time as I have somethings happened in these few months. I have sold my house on March and busy to finding house. After I found the house, there has a bad things happened. One day my mother went to my house and saw my maid taught Wai Wai to do the homework. She put the book in horizontal way. But my mother told her that it's wrong way to teach Wai Wai. This will misled Wai Wai to learn the wrong outline of the word. My mother asked Wai Wai to put the book in proper way but Wai Wai said my maid always teach her like this. She didn't want to change and cried. My maid then took Wai Wai to go to toilet and locked the door and asked her to do the homework there. My mother was angry and knocked the door and asked my maid to open the door. My mother told the maid that she cannot take Wai Wai to do the homework in the toilet. My maid argued with my mother and said Wai Wai only listened to her and she won't listen to us. When I came home, I asked the maid to tell what's happened. She said she took Wai Wai to the toilet as my mother spoke so loud and Wai Wai was crying. She wants to let her claim down. I told her it is an improper way. And she said we don't know how to teach the child. She said we always spoil the child. I told her I know how to teach my child and this is not her business. She said she won't continue the another two years contract with me. (Her contract will be finished at the end of June and I have told her on March I will sign another contract to her). I said that's ok but asked her to do well in these two months. After that, she went to cook the dinner. She was talking on the phone when she cooked. She told me it's emergency call so I let her to talk. After the dinner, she was talking on the phone again and said it's emergency call but it's so long. I was angry and told her to put down the phone. She said she only talked few minutes but it's really not just few minutes. She said she has only one call or no call at everyday. She was telling the lie as my mother said she had calls everyday when my mother was there. I am sure she has calls in the morning when we all were not at home. She voiced out her unsatifactory. She said she always helped me to pay for the food/things. When I know she has no petty cash, I usually gave her $500 and she will write down on the book how much she bought but I was not checked every night so sometimes she will pay in advance. I told her why she hasn't told me when there has no money. She said I should estimate when the money is gone. She said I have no brain. I was really very very angry and I asked her to go immediately. I find she was ok before. Wai Wai loved her and she is not a bad person. I treated her very well. I allowed her to eat everything without my permission. I allowed her to take a nap in the afternoon and she felt it is the right to her. I don't know why she had this bad behaviour on that night.

From then until now, I have no maid. I was struggled to employ the maid again. At that time I was busy to moving house. Packing and unpacking are done by me and my husband. Everyday, I pick Wai Wai to take the school bus and I go to work. After worked, I go to my mother's home to pick up Wai Wai. After Wai Wai sleeps, I do the housework. It's not easy and make me tired. But luckily, thanks God to give me health and effort. But the worst thing is that I have no time to read the books to Wai Wai and play with her at weekdays. Wai Wai is much naughty than before and she always tells lie and does not accept her fault. I think she finds there has changes in her family and she wants me to pay attention on her. Finally, I think I need to employ the maid.

Wai Wai will start a long summer holidays on 5 July. I have enrolled English course, Mandarin course, swimming class for her. And the music class and gymnastic class will also attend as usual. Any function or outings for our Feb 2001's children on summer holidays? I like to join it.

Talk to you later and pls bless me to find a good maid. Thanks.

* Sorry for long message and I am not good in typing Chinese.

WaiMa

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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

Hi Wai Ma,

After reading your sharing, hope the God bless you to find a good maid ASAP. Take care and don't give too much pressure to yourself.
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

Hello wai ma,

你個工人實在太過份 要唔要到罷 簡直無大無細 :tongue: 不過喺呢段期間,真係辛苦妳啦!好彩wai wai咁乖女,妳都可以煩少樣!咁.......妳依家住係邊?將會搬去邊樹?如果你需要幫忙,可以搵我,揍吓wai wai番學放學同埋煲吓d愛心靚湯我都仲得
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

Hello all,

我搵番2001年2月出世bb,媽咪請分享進度 (一) ,裏面有好多我哋d小朋友嘅成長片段,得閒回味吓
我已貼在版面

2001年2月出世bb,媽咪請分享進度(一) CLICK HERE
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

Dear WaiMa

It is really an unhappy event. I feel so sorry about it when I read the case. You had been so kind to your maid but the maid is not as disciplined as she should be. So was she living in the less developed places in Phillipines? Her behaviour had been primitive.

The violence at home and conflicts about ways of raising kids has harmed the development of the child the most. All other things are not important after all. So you have to be extra patient and positive if you want your daughter to be so. She sure is wanting your attention and she might feel hurt in her heart at the moment.

While shoudering all the burden at the moment, do try to unload the unhappy past and take better care of your health. I have all the heartfelt blessing for you and hope things will work out soon.
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

Hi Wai Ma,

i saw yr msg, yr maid is so 過份, pls dun be so bad feeling for that, now u just need to care of yr moving home and settle down yr everything. And u need to care of yr health too, dun be so hard, hope all the best thing will belong with u.
My son is born on 2001 Feb too, nice to meet u!!!!!
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

WaiMa,
妳之前個工人簡直離譜 , 睇見妳講佢既行為, 真係想 佢一身, 不過未續約前發現到佢既惡行都算好彩, 我上個月都捱左一個月無工人兼老公出trip :-( , 不過唔駛怕, 好快就雨過天清, 預祝妳快D搵到個好工人
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

panchu 寫道:
Hello all,

我搵番2001年2月出世bb,媽咪請分享進度 (一) ,裏面有好多我哋d小朋友嘅成長片段,得閒回味吓
我已貼在版面

2001年2月出世bb,媽咪請分享進度(一) CLICK HERE


多謝晒呀~ panchu ma.
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

veroshea, chungma & all,

暑假想搵咩玩呀? 戶外活動好唔好呢? 例如...去海洋公園? 去音樂農莊? 又或者上年講過既....去酒店游水 & BBQ, 大家提議吓啦~

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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

啤梨 and all,

好耐都無見過面啦,希望今次panchu無事無幹啦!但gathering千祈唔好15-20/7,因為要去旅行呀,thank you :mrgreen:
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)


Dear All
見到妳地個個都雨過天清就開心喇!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

我就真系 :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(:-(:-(
6月4號晚璋璋開始發燒, 到Tue都唔好.....發下停下.......點知到Wed 朝7點幾我媽咪打比我話細佬焜焜發燒, 米即刻打去e院掛號睇中午!!!!!! 唉........到璋璋果日無野米比佢番返學囉, 點知到9點幾就收到學校打黎話佢果班有同學仔染到手足口病~跟住全班消毒, 再check下d細路有無被野到.....唔好彩璋璋同一些同學仔都發現口內有"非之", 手掌同腳掌都有紅點(lee d 系學校check到), 米那那林即刻pork過去湊佢再join埋我老公搭的士去e院復診囉 好彩e生話唔系...........我米話我個細仔一陣都系黎你呀e生; 跟住幹頭幹命同璋璋返屋企食野........返到去都成1:30la, 跟住我媽咪打比我話細佬焜焜好大機會系手足口, :-( :-( 點介無那那會系野到比細佬嫁 到夜d細佬個口/ 手掌同腳掌真系出左一粒粒........我好早就攞10號果日假...因為璋璋學校平估日放假本來諗住可以去玩下tim........唉....米系屋企湊佢囉!!!

d衰野重有......last Friday, when my hubby went back to home, he told me that he had fever and consulted the doctor la.........MY GOD...............我都好驚佢d手腳有野...Touch Wood, 好彩無事...........晚上我老公食左d粥米去訓下囉.....點知到晚上9點幾我入廚房問個工人(佢系到洗緊碗)點介將我d衫燙到系哂燙斗印時 佢那那就突然間系我前面"暈"左 ?-( ?-( , 我米系咁打佢個面, 叫佢囉.........跟住我即刻按佢個"人中"位, 佢就即刻醒番喇 唉............成日都做得咁得慢......成12點先訓.......我米又產佢: 叫左妳要10:30訓(唉....做左5個月都未試過準時上床), 攪到又唔夠"扺抗力", 果日2餐飯都系我煮嫁, 點會暈嫁????? ......跟住我米又做埋佢果份洗碗job囉

到左Sat我一早又要幹住去e院掛號(因holiday無得book)同細佬復診, 又系咁arm我個"親戚"第1日黎探我, 又發現我each hand and foot都生野左一粒tim, 好痛鬼呀, 唉.....我都未見到細佬都野到~~嘩.....果日太陽伯伯好似知有野未做完要出黎照住我, 好辛苦..........掛左號米那那聲返去我媽咪到(因唔想系e院到等佢地) 米不如返左去先再同佢地一齊反番返出黎e院到..........細路仔唔舒服就更系想亞媽抱下佢嫁喇.............好彩都肯食到少少粥(但都系要dum嫁, 因為個口仔內生哂d粒垃好痛, 佢系好想飲奶, 但都飲唔到 :-( :-( , lee個病d燒系好難退, 一到夜晚就會燒過), e生話手足口真系會傳染 睇完返到去都成2點.....好辛苦整焜焜訓左, 又幫亞媽拖下地/ 整下lee d 整下果d又成6點先返去睇璋璋同食飯喇...........拎左好多野番去(好似隻駱駝咁), 條腰好攰好攰........成個人好似散哂咁 :-( :-( :-( , 一路搭緊車都同自己講: 要頂住呀...........千萬唔好有事

唉!!! 覺得好無助..........個rubbish maid又幫唔到我, 又驚果個野suddently佢又暈左, 得璋璋一個系屋到又唔知點 一路都搵緊個新工人但又唔arm; 我好想媽咪過黎幫我, 早排我媽咪都話: 不如炒左個工人唔好waste money, 我就過黎湊璋璋放學然後帶佢返我(媽咪)到食飯訓晏覺; 再等我放左工過去食埋晚飯再湊番璋璋返屋企, 但我個老公又話會無哂我地d時間去教仔又唔鐘意(難得我媽咪肯出到聲幫我), 唉.....宜家攪到2兄弟無得一齊玩一齊住, 黎緊9月璋璋會轉讀全日, 我都諗過唔用工人(好辛苦....日日一訓醒就剩系好似個機械人只悉得鬧佢), 放左學我地食咩都好......唔駛宜家咁成日掛住餐飯, 成日1個鐘1個鐘打番去check住, 日日放左工就pook番去煮; 諗住佢點左我米可以返去睇下細佬囉(都成9個月無得隔日返去睇佢, 只系every weekend湊細佬返黎先見到, 佢就黎連佢亞媽(我)個樣都唔認得嫁喇), 點知重要take care埋lee舊圾垃:-( :-( :-( :-( what can i do! what can i ???????????????今朝坐坐下車返工都 :-( 左出黎, 唉.....................好辛苦好辛苦 :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

To噹噹, & all mami,

我睇完你編野, 真係好登你辛苦ar!!! 希望你2個仔仔健健康康啦!! 你就吾洗咁辛苦. 你個maid 真係一d都幫吾到手呀, 仲要你做埋佢果份, . 加下你照顧埋佢咁滯, 希望你早日雨過天晴, 撐住呀!!支持你!!
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

Panchu

多謝你,你屋企有兩個小公主,仲話幫我手睇蔚蔚,你真好人,我而家都已經適應,好彩有啞媽幫手,不過就辛苦d。

Jennifer, bebe1217, chuchumui, 啤梨

多謝你地關心,希望可以快d搵到個適合菲傭。


不過黑起黎真係有條路,我呀媽端午節果日一個人去街買餸,係街跌倒,個眼腫晒黑晒,流鼻血,成條褲成條街都係血,送咗入醫院,嚇到我死,好彩醫生話d骨無裂。衰既野繼續來,媽媽今朝個電話俾人偷咗,緊係個賊見我媽隻眼睇唔到野就去下手。

噹噹

見到你個case,我就覺得我已經好好,蔚蔚身體都算ok,小朋友病係最辛苦,你仲要睇住兩個,走來走去,真辛苦你,你要小心身體。唔請工人,有好有唔好,好處係唔駛勞氣,save more money,壞處係自己辛苦做家頭細務,好多瑣碎野,會少咗時間同小朋友玩同讀書,真係好難決擇,我就同你相反,係我老公叫我唔好請, 我都係度掙扎緊。

希望所有唔好既野走晒!
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

Waima,

都唔知你亞媽跌親添！ :-|

如果只係靠晒自己亞媽，佢好辛苦架！ 如果唔請工人，你仲要考慮假如亞媽不適，仲有邊個幫到手？！ 如果係冇的話，我就覺得好難唔請工人囉！ 你同老公講，唔能夠將所有責任交晒俾你亞媽架！ 就算唔請外傭，都要考慮物識一d太太或家務助理，同WaiWai打好關係，屋企人有事時，可交給別人照顧一會兒。

我弟婦有一段日子冇做野，自己湊囡，都有佢亞媽、奶奶、佢個妹、及一位住附的太太做後備。

我都有朋友話唔用工人，雙方都要返工的；由於小朋友返全日，於是佢就責任接放學、買餸煮飯；老公就跟功課兼洗碗；假日一齊做家庭清潔。 一家人一定要分工合作才可！

你要同老公考慮清楚呀！ 咪做到頂唔順時，脾氣暴燥引起爭執呀！ 我老公都成日話個工人唔醒，話要炒左佢自己做喎！ 不過...我很了解我老公同我自己，冇左個工人...問題遲早出現！ 所以我當佢發up風！ :tongue:
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

噹噹:
睇到妳段message都知妳好辛苦, 不如妳諗吓呢段時間當中既得著, 例如伯母對妳好好...主動話幫妳, 總知凡事可以作壞打算但要向好處想, 希望妳既逆境快D過去 , 好快就順風順水! 努力加油~ 努力加油~

講返妳個工人, 查實佢點解無啦啦會暈低呢 ?-( 照計唔夠瞓最多都係無精神 / 恰眼瞓, 佢會唔會係血壓低 or 有其他病? 不如帶佢去睇醫生check真D, 亦可以知道佢會唔會係扮暈搏妳做埋佢果份 :evil: ...不過長遠計, 佢咁唔惦(要妳自己煮飯), 妳都係快D揀過個新工人盡快脫苦海.
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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)


WaiMa,

伯母好返未呀? 個衰賊重向受傷既老人家埋手 , 捉到佢真係要

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Re: 2001年2月精靈小寶貝 (二)

panchu 寫道:
啤梨 and all,

好耐都無見過面啦,希望今次panchu無事無幹啦!但gathering千祈唔好15-20/7,因為要去旅行呀,thank you :mrgreen:


panchu ma,

妳地去邊度旅行呀? 我都search緊韓國團既資料, 想同茵茵去玩吓!

:mrgreen:
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