All MT Friends..
is this Fri at Dao Heung??...what time ar...can be a bit early 0830....just asking jar..
All LT Friends..
See u all tmr ar.....
Mike..
Thanks for booking ar...
CoCobb..
Miss u so much...NB@TKS (Herbxx) told me you have been there at last Sat.........really miss u ar...
CWY..
haha...finally finish all "S" size...no more for you little bb ar ...but the sticker.......r u free on this Thu morning?? Let's us meet in this Thu ....
Hellohello..
Oh...how come the little bb so beautiful.....
Long time no chat here!!! I’ve been extremely busy with Him Him’s school. He started school two weeks ago.
Anyway, now Him Him’s doing quite ok. Cried so badly when I dropped him off and picked him up. But after 1.5 weeks, he didn’t cry anymore. Today, he even waved goodbye to me when I left him. HOWEVER, his behaviors appear after this “crying stage.” I got a comment from the teacher today that he didn’t want to clean up the toys (or whatever) after an activity. Ai, that’s our mistake because we never ask Him Him to clean up his toys before bedtime. His daddy has a strange concept that “he would clean up the toys at night because he doesn’t have time to play with Him Him in the day time and that’s what he could do for his son at night time.) OK, because he refused to clean up, he started to hit the teacher’s hand when the teacher was trying to re-direct him to join another activity. After a short while, the teacher asked him to clean up again, and there’s another child who wanted to help Him Him to clean up. The teacher said from Him Him’s eyes, she could tell that Him Him didn’t want to clean up, and since another peer was trying to help to clean up, Him Him threw a block to that child and made a bump on the head. Ai!!!!!!
I never think it’s so hard to discipline a child. His daddy spoils him so much, and he's the only child! I’m the one who disciplines him. He almost NEVER hits me, or grabs my glasses. He would STOP when I ask him to, or to tell him that it’s inappropriate to do this or that. He does do that to his daddy and a few uncles and aunties (because those uncles and aunties are too kind??!!) I’ve been telling my husband to stop Him Him’s bad behaviors.
Well, the teacher said they had to talk to me about that. She said it didn’t mean that I had to feel SAD of it, but we had to be aware and we had to work with the school – to be consistent and firm when Him Him is doing the inappropriate behaviors.
I hope Him Him will do better. The teachers do understand that it TAKES TIME for the process and they’re not asking me to change Him Him’s behavior in one day!!! But they do say if we don’t work with the school (like training him to clean up his toys at home, to have “time outs”, or to tell him it’s not correct to greet people with a “physical hit”!!), his behaviors would become worse.
Ai, so troublesome and I'm having a headache of it!! My husband is out-of-town this week. Maybe I should start to train Him Him before my husband comes back.
And, the communication problem. Him Him is usually quiet in public (talks much more at home!) And he speaks Cantonese at school that nobody understands. Anyway, I've noticed that he's learned some English at school. Hope things will get better.
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