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sarah

thanks. can start a new life

原文章由 sarahlin 於 07-11-26 17:34 發表
Kelly,

Thanks God that no operation is required. Um... I think ec may help as some problems can't be explained by western doctors.

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Kelly,

不用做手術就好啦!希望dr幫到你找出原因。

在想給你甚麼安慰時,初時我想到,神有祂的時間,若然祂的時間未到,無論我們做甚麼,也得不到的。此時,我回想過去你所行過的路,都是不停的尋求醫科的方法,希望得到bb。我不是說尋求協助不正確,也不是在批評你。我記得我之前都是不停的看醫生,我以為那個中醫好,我便去,但完全沒有讓神參與其中,經過兩年多的時間,我學會了,學會了放手。我的感覺是,你還沒放手。我不知道我所說的對不對,只是此刻想到的感覺,希望不會令你難受。當然,我學會了放手後,我仍然想要bb,但已能抱一個平常心了。

sarah,

希望你12月的iui順利。現在好好調理身體,預備新的療程來程。

yim yee,

你的反應都唔錯喎!估計幾時抽蛋呀?希望你一切順利。

bbangel123,

其實我都係多囊架!條路的確唔易走,但不代表無可能,放心、放手交給上帝和醫生,或者你可以去睇下中醫,或者能找到原因。以我的狀況而言,中醫說我是瘀和濕,所以我有濕疹,排唔到卵時,濕疹尤為嚴重,當排卵後,不戒口問題也不太大。

grace,

你工作太辛苦了,有沒有辦法可以舒減一下壓力呢?小心身體啊!工作固然重要,但身體健康更是重要呢!

各位:

這兩個星期,我覺得很特別,我還在消化這兩星期的感受。

自從排卵後,第三日起,我的肚開始覺得扯扯下,就像我當初bingo時的感覺,當時我不敢想太多,怕有壓力。雖說不想它,但有時間時,仍會想。

我記得當我知道快要排到廣華ivf時,感覺怪怪的,一方面覺得ivf很快,但另方面,我又唔係好接受到自己要做ivf,所以曾想到,會不會未做ivf時,已經自己bingo呢?而當我感覺到個肚扯扯下時,我覺得自己好似跑緊馬拉松(ivf),目標快到,終點在望,跑道旁很多人在夾道歡呼,但突然,有一架benz走過來,叫我不用再跑了,它會直接車我到終點,當時,心很亂,究竟上benz好,還是繼續跑好呢?

過了高溫期的第一個星期,一位做護士的姊妹跟我說,做ivf很辛苦架!唔一定成功架!你放手就得架啦!令我很不開心,因為她完全不明白我的感受,我只跟她說,我知道,我明白,我現在所做的,都是由神掌管,成功與否,都在神手中,我只希望到40歲時不會後悔而已。

過了兩星期,即高溫期的第13日,我又再有感覺,我覺得架benz黎緊接我了,當日我去看中醫,中醫亦覺得好似有左。以往的我,已經開心到不得了,但當時我沒有,我只有一棵平常心,因為我知道,再過多兩日,我便知道結果了,不用心急。此刻,我知道,我已經學懂放手了,因為我相信,神有祂的計劃,以前常說這句說話,但原來我只懂說,但卻沒有做到。

結果是怎樣?hm....到第14日,m小姐來找我了,我沒有半點的不高興,反而我卻希望快點來,快點去,原來我已經接受了自己要做ivf,我由當初的不情願,到現在已經接受到了。

此刻我十分十分之希望ivf快點到,我覺得終點快到了,我要繼續努力的往前跑,我不知道跑終點後,有沒有冠冕,但我知道,我快要跑完,而且跑得越來越輕省。我不知道當我做ivf時,能不能抱這個心態,但我知道,我知道甚麼是放手了。若我可以返回兩年前,跟兩年前的我對話,我相信兩年前的我仍不懂此刻的我說甚麼,更加不會放手,或者這是神要我學習的功課吧!

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發表於 07-11-27 13:41 |只看該作者

各位姊妹﹕

很久沒有上來﹗看到有很多新朋友，好似grace一樣，雖沒回應，仍為你地祈禱，願神的心意成就在我們各人身上，令我們更認識祂、更愛祂﹗

venus﹕看到你分享很欣慰。你架benz仲有機會黎架，努力呀﹗返開我屋企o個頭o既office時，上黎坐下啦﹗

kelly﹕好好保養身體，亦好好利用時間陪仔仔和休息呀。

yimyee﹕我開心聽到你對injection 反應良好，希望好快聽到你好消息。

grace﹕好好保重、多休息呀﹗

sarah﹕你都要加油呀﹗

我還有一個月假期，希望可以好好利用。出年就投入工作和學業，希望應付得來。請記念我媽媽身體，她要照顧我和bb，都很辛苦呢。遲一點bb由她全時間照顧呀﹗

而小b呢個星期五要打針，姊妹們，請記念，希望佢對呢枝針反應不大吧﹗

而我和老公將於8-12/12 去吉隆坡，希望好好輕鬆一下﹗

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發表於 07-11-27 17:53 |只看該作者

hi venus tam

謝謝你的鼓勵,我亦看了你的分享,我好有共鳴,因為我同樣學習,放手,交託,這個課程,心情真是好百感交集,但這是个過程,我地要努力,放開心情,我會支持你

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發表於 07-11-27 22:50 |只看該作者

Hi Venus,

Eventually see your post, I 100% agree with you, I think 平常心 to face ivf is very very important, I really learn it this time. Even I have been taking Chinese medicine and acupuncture in the past few months, seems very stressful, but God really has changed my attitude toward the whole treatment. I feel much peaceful this time, even I have to take 3 injections in one day, have a lot of bruise marks on my tummy, but I felt much better than before. I have the same feelings as you, Venus, 此刻我十分十分之希望ivf快點 finish,我覺得終點快到了,我要繼續努力的往前跑,我不知道跑終點後,有沒有冠冕,但我知道,我快要跑完,而且跑得越來越輕省。

My eggs will be retreived this Fri, pls pray for me and my husband.

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發表於 07-11-28 00:29 |只看該作者

各位姊妹,
多謝大家關心，我都知道之前實在太過勞，最近已晚晚盡早瞓，冇陪老公睇電視架啦！

lic9,
妳個女好可愛，特別個 O 咀樣子！不知為何現今的 bb 好喜愛 O 咀，我個同事個女都成日O 咀架！
不用擔心，現在打的釘比以前好，大部份 bb 都不會有太多不好的反應，到1歲那支針就會比較勁。另有人教，打針前可以煲些紅蘿蔔水給 bb 飲，會好些，如認同可以試試。
咁快就可以去旅行玩吓真好，玩得開心d 啦！

Venus,
多謝妳的分享，之前見妳的分享，知道妳還在處理妳自己的情緒，也有些為妳擔心，但今日看見妳的分享就放心了。

Kelly,
妳也要保重呀，放鬆，希望妳能和 Venus 一樣用平常心去面對啦！

YimYee,
Keep up! Pray for you!
Hope to hear your good news soon!

Pigpiglau,
How are you lately? Thanks for always thinking of me.

Sarah,
You are so nice, 願意主動陪一些想去哈拿小組的姊妹去參加，願主祝福妳！

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Hi Grace, great to hear from you again. And good that you are taking some time to rest. How 's your situation now?

lic9, you baby girl is so cute ! Will be praying for her regarding to the injection on coming Friday.

Kelly, so good that hear that no need for operation. Hope you have a speedy recovery. How's your son?

Venus, thx for your sharing and so happy for you that you are coping really well there. And surrender to God.

YimYee, hope to hear some good news from you very very soon.

Sarah,
Second with what Grace said, you are such a nice person. God's blessing is with you.

BBangel, and everyone else, hope you are doing well. Trust in Him.

As for myself, nothing special. Just one more cycle on clomid. Then back to hospital in Feb 08. And waiting for appt. with another infertility clinic. Waiting patiently. Had a break in some hotel with batch of girls last weekend, really enjoy it. Kinda feel a lot more freedom than b4. I think it is good.

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發表於 07-11-28 15:36 |只看該作者

YIMYEE﹕抽蛋蛋一切順利、平安﹗

你已得到"平安、輕省"的冠冕﹗願你更會得到神所賜的產業﹗

原文章由 YimYee 於 07-11-27 22:50 發表
Hi Venus,

Eventually see your post, I 100% agree with you, I think 平常心 to face ivf is very very important, I really learn it this time. Even I have been taking Chinese medicine and acupuncture in ...

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YIMYEE,

Pray for you. 希望星期五一切順利.

Venus,

多謝你的分享, 正如你所言, 大定現在努力, 都唔想40歲之後會後悔, 也學習去用平常心面對,
我身邊就有3位姊妹都等左好幾年先有bb, 我仍相信神會有他的時間表, 我都學習唔o念太多.

all,

明年2月20日先至可以去睇dr.tay, 不過年尾聖誕節, 二月頭過年都會有好多節目, 所以我相信時間好快就過了. 大家都放開心情, 開開心心到過聖誕節吧 !

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venus

thanks for your sharing. let's learn how to walk with Jesus together. I'm thankful with what i've experienced as I know all thses are under God's permission. I will keep seeking His will and have more quiet time before Him since this can help me to hear his words more clearly.
keep praying for u

原文章由 VenusTam 於 07-11-26 23:54 發表
Kelly,

不用做手術就好啦!希望dr幫到你找出原因。

在想給你甚麼安慰時,初時我想到,神有祂的時間,若然祂的時間未到,無論我們做甚麼,也得不到的。此時,我回想過去你所行過的路,都是不停的尋求醫科的方法,希望得到bb ...

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origins

good to hear that u will visit Dr Tay soon. keep praying for u .
agree. time pass very fast. :-P

原文章由 origins 於 07-11-28 17:07 發表
YIMYEE,

Pray for you. 希望星期五一切順利.

Venus,

多謝你的分享, 正如你所言, 大定現在努力, 都唔想40歲之後會後悔, 也學習去用平常心面對,
我身邊就有3位姊妹都等左好幾年先有bb, 我仍相信神會有他的時間表, ...

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pigpiglau

thanks. my son is doing fine these days. it's good that we understand him more and my husband can handle well sometime.
pray for u . let's us rely on God.

原文章由 pigpiglau 於 07-11-28 07:25 發表
Hi Grace, great to hear from you again. And good that you are taking some time to rest. How 's your situation now?

lic9, you baby girl is so cute ! Will be praying for her regarding to the injection ...

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bbangel123
will pray for u too

grace
good that u can sleep earlier . keep praying for u

yimyee.
had prayed for u already regarding the ER this Fri. will keep praying. May God give u peace and a smooth ER. pray for your husband too

lic9
wah! so nice! really hope u & your husband can relax and has a nice trip. :-P

原文章由 bbangel123 於 07-11-27 17:53 發表
謝謝你的鼓勵,我亦看了你的分享,我好有共鳴,因為我同樣學習,放手,交託,這個課程,心情真是好百感交集,但這是个過程,我地要努力,放開心情,我會支持你 ...

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Dear Kelly,

I want to ask anything I need to pay attention during the ER and ET? Did you feel any uncomfortable after ER?

原文章由 Kellyaugust2004 於 07-11-28 17:50 發表
bbangel123
will pray for u too

grace
good that u can sleep earlier . keep praying for u

yimyee.
had prayed for u already regarding the ER this Fri. will keep praying. May God give u peace and a ...

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dear yimyee

thinking & praying of u these days. regarding the ER. i did feel a bit discomfort for the tummy after wards. i couldn't really fall asleep so just closed my eyes. u will feel tired and dizzy after. don't worry. rest more at home . u will be fine very soon.
for ET. i bought my DVD players and watched my favour movie right after back to my bed. rest for 4 hrs for the 1st time and 6 hrs for the 2nd ET.

just relax . what time is your ET tmr?

原文章由 YimYee 於 07-11-28 23:10 發表
Dear Kelly,

I want to ask anything I need to pay attention during the ER and ET? Did you feel any uncomfortable after ER?

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發表於 07-11-29 18:31 |只看該作者

Hi Kelly,

I will have the ER tomorrow 7:30, very early. Someone told me that I should not drink water till the day I have the egg transferred, just drink juice to avoid the uterus swollen. Have you heard about this?

原文章由 Kellyaugust2004 於 07-11-29 17:31 發表
dear yimyee

thinking & praying of u these days. regarding the ER. i did feel a bit discomfort for the tummy after wards. i couldn't really fall asleep so just closed my eyes. u will feel tired and d ...

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i didn't hear about this.
will your husband go to hospital with u?

原文章由 YimYee 於 07-11-29 18:31 發表
Hi Kelly,

I will have the ER tomorrow 7:30, very early. Someone told me that I should not drink water till the day I have the egg transferred, just drink juice to avoid the uterus swollen. Have you ...

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YimYee,

I didn't hear about that. I do drink water every day and my 卵巢 just normally 脹, not serious and acceptable...

Good luck tmr, take more rest after ER and ET. Don't do any housework, just treat it as vacation and treat yourself as panda (a gd excuse to order your husband to do this and that)..

I will pray for you tonite

原文章由 YimYee 於 07-11-29 18:31 發表
Hi Kelly,

I will have the ER tomorrow 7:30, very early. Someone told me that I should not drink water till the day I have the egg transferred, just drink juice to avoid the uterus swollen. Have you ...

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