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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

mcdullyin,
thank you for your encouragement. i will try my best. my nine nine said she will help me to feed to bb during night. but i just want her to help during daytime. i think she planned to come and sleep together with us after my delivery. i know her aim is good, she just want to help us. and i know she is a good nine nine. but, honestly speaking, we don't want her to stay in our home at night.... :cry: we don't have enough space, we don't want she stays in our home, i need my husband sleep beside me after delivery ....... what can i do???

myrchan,
i also sat at the right side, but not in the centre, may be next time i can find you and sit together, do you mind??

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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

ricfa 寫道:
mcdullyin,
thank you for your encouragement. i will try my best. my nine nine said she will help me to feed to bb during night. but i just want her to help during daytime. i think she planned to come and sleep together with us after my delivery. i know her aim is good, she just want to help us. and i know she is a good nine nine. but, honestly speaking, we don't want her to stay in our home at night.... :cry: we don't have enough space, we don't want she stays in our home, i need my husband sleep beside me after delivery ....... what can i do???

你屋企係2房or1房？
如果係2房的話她來住都無妨呀,
好過她日日行來行去,會好辛苦的！
如果你真係唔想,可叫老公同她講,
你打算餵人奶,夜晚她幫唔到手的了！
不如只係日頭上來幫手湊下bb,
等你可以休息下和幫手做下家務/煮下野食！
其實你同你奶奶關係好唔好,
我完本同我奶奶好好的,
不過自從她上次來陪我坐月後,
關係就開始差了,因為始終2代湊bb的方式都唔係好同,
你又會覺得她搶左你個bb,所以你要有心理準備！

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發表於 05-1-10 12:51 |只看該作者

Re: 05年7月媽咪會

myrchan 寫道:
ricfa，我坐係前面堆位既最後一行近右邊通路果兩個位，我老公唔鍾意坐太前。我老公聽完之後都講左一句：「辛苦你啦！」我直頭想喊出黎呀！呢樣係最最大既收穫。你又坐左係邊呢？如果可以的話，我會坐番尋日坐既位，到時你黎搵我啦，睇下邊個肥D，hahaha !!我有諗過遲d去買果條美國做既托腹帶，設計好似唔錯，連個胸都托埋，你話有無用呢？其他 d 乜cream物cream就唔多會買啦。

各位準媽媽，你地都考慮下聽個talk啦，即場比錢都得架，$50一堂之麻，物超所值，個course本來要$1000+ 架，係就係有sell 下d product，但都唔會迫你買。

myrchan, i haven't think of what to buy/ not buy. let me have some time, and search some more information in the market first. concerning the stretch cream, i started to use another brand since 10 weeks. i treat it as lotion, actually, i used body lotion before pregnancy, so i just replace body lotion to stretch mark cream.

all mama, i agree with myrchan, if you have time, try this talk.

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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

ricfa, you remind me to do some market search before buying. Let me go to Jusco to have a look. Re cream, others say olive oil is ok. It costs little and can be brought in 藥房.

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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

mcdullyin,
my house got 2 rooms, but only 1 is for sleeping, the other is working room with a piano. the furniture is fix in that room, can't add any bed. i think she plans to sleep with me and ask my husband to sleep in the living room. - all is what i think - but i'm quite sure this is what she plans because last week when we talk about breast-feed, i said i'm afraid i will be very tired during night. then nine nine said i need to pump the milk out during daytime, then she will help me to feed my bb.

honestly speaking, she is very good and nice. but i think stay in the same house can't avoid mis-understanding, quarrels....

i need my husband to help and explain to his mother, big trouble!!!!

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發表於 05-1-10 14:19 |只看該作者

Re: 05年7月媽咪會

myrchan,

我諗唔關事你平日行得快影響到個胎盤, 問題應該係"受精卵在子宮下方著床或在較下方著床或成長"時已經開始, 不過如果醫生而家話你胎盤低, 你就要留意o下, 唔好比自己太過粗勞。

唔知係唔係我成日行得快，又周圍去，影響到個胎盤呢？

你星期三見醫生o既時候, 問o下佢覺唔覺得你個胎盤低, 如果佢都話係, 就要再詳細d問落去, 唔好怕佢知你去睇私家醫生, 最緊要係知道自己o既問題緊唔緊要, 聽多個醫生o既意見, 或者會有唔同o既回應呢?

fungma, 你好!
歡迎你加入呀!

P.S. 你的資料已加上"一覽表"。

click here for "05年7月媽媽會會員資料一覽表"

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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

ricfa，我本身住9_9隔離屋，仲慘過你呀！你都話可以同9_9講yes or no，我就無啦...以前我地之間既關係麻麻地，亦多次因為9_9而同老公意見不同，都係經過好多次死忍，至有今日得來不易既良好關係，無法啦，我老公係巨蟹，就算佢阿媽錯，佢點都認為阿媽係好既。之但係，雖然我唔會講9_9唔好，但9_9有時做d野又好難接受，就算係好意都係咁話啦。However，必須注意，如要對9_9既行為比comments，盡量對事不對人，而且盡量叫自己唔好討厭9_9，畢竟9_9都係想對老公好既，對自己愛人好既人，我又點可以拒人於千里之外呢？尋晚聽完講座，我同老公講，餵人奶真係好處多，無理由唔餵，就算任何人話我個b食唔夠or唔夠飽(好大可能出自9_9把口)，我地都要唔好理佢地。咁我老公都話好，至緊要係我無直接講如9_9...，你唔准理！你最好同你老公溝通好先，再經你老公客氣d同佢講囉，話有需要一定第一個搵佢幫手，等佢知自己係你地心目中幾咁重要。

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發表於 05-1-10 14:54 |只看該作者

Re: 05年7月媽咪會

my_tabo，我成日盼望做檢查果日，但每一次去做檢查，又好驚有咩唔妥check到出黎。第一次係甲狀腺問題，衣家要keep住check。今次係胎盤，雖然醫生無講d乜，但總係一個問題。唉...仲有咁多個月有咁多樣野要check，就好似一關過完又一關，關關都係新既...

有時真係想做下鴕鳥，唔做咁多檢查，唔駛煩。

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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

myrchan,
forgot to tell u. as i said i went to "french" hospital on sat, the following is my feeling:
good point:
the new wing of "frech" hospital is very clean, big, comfortable.
bad point:
the rules in the hospital is too strict. bb should be kept in bb room where nurses will take care of the bb. bb is not allowed to take out of that room. only breast-feed mama can get in (4 times a day), ba ba is not allowed. my friend, who take operation to take her bb out, she is too pain and can't walk to the window of the bb room or breast-feed, so she didn't see her own bb. she also didn't have the chance to touch her bb. she is very said.

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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

我個婦科醫生又係未開門就已經排緊隊，約左十點去，十一點幾先有得睇，仲要醫生係十點四先返！不過佢真係幾多人睇，平均每日都有成廿幾個，淨係產險，我老公話佢起碼每個月都有三十萬落袋！

不過唔係個個婦科醫生都咁旺，我個醫生對面都係婦科醫生，但係就好少人去！

myrchan 寫道:
fungma，好開心又多個街坊呀！你諗住去邊度生呀？

我老公話d婦科醫生幾大牌，約左人地果個時間，但就遲到，而且，你唔係唯一一個約左果個時間既人，所以，次次準時去度，都有一班人一齊等，於是個個鬥早到。不過，如果自己睇果個醫生唔多人，咁又會懷疑佢係唔係唔多掂，唉...好矛盾...

你都有去QE做檢查？我又係。姑娘話唔會同我度頸皮，但個醫生就好好人，唔聲唔聲就已經同我度左，不過唔知個醫生仲會唔會遲D同我抽血驗呢？有就好啦！我上星期六睇私家，醫生話我個胎盤低呀，你話我好唔好話比QE知？我驚QE個醫生知我睇私家，會無咁細心同我睇呀

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19 Jul 05 -- 3.45kg 02 Oct 05 -- 7.1kg 08 Aug 05 -- 4.4k 10 OCT 05 -- 7.25 kg 16 Aug 05 -- 4.8kg 19 OCT 05 -- 7.7 kg 65 cm 19 Aug 05 -- 4.9kg 58 cm 21 Aug 05 -- 5.1kg 28 Aug 05 -- 5.5kg 04 Sep 05 -- 5.8kg 13 Sep 05 -- 6.3kg 19 Sep 05 -- 6.5kg

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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

myrchan,

我咪又係有你呢種咁矛盾o既諗法...... 我仲傻到驚照us o既時候話bb有事。

我成日盼望做檢查果日，但每一次去做檢查，又好驚有咩唔妥check到出黎

我想知如果甲狀腺有問題會有d咩徵狀o架? 事關我上次話比醫生聽 , 我有時o係靜止狀態心跳得好快, 醫生就話下次要同我驗血check甲狀腺, 我一直都好擔心, 唔知會唔會下次check到有問題。不過我o係04年1月做過body check, o個時甲狀腺功能都好正常個喎! 會唔會到而家突然有問題呢?

仲有, 醫生話我上次血糖高o左, 叫我食少d甜o野, 但係我又不嬲都好鍾意食甜食, 尤其係有o左bb之後, 我好驚下次又check到血糖高, 不過我又戒唔到甜食, 都唔知點算？

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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

ricfa，你個friend好淒涼，唔該d姑娘主動拎bb出黎，等人地兩仔na見兩眼都好ar，佢地好殘忍呀！ :evil: 叫你個friend既屋企人用dv機拍低d片段，比個媽咪睇下啦。bb見都無得見，比我就傷心到暈啦。（我見d猫猫媽咪，生完猫bb之後絕對唔會比人掂佢d猫仔架，呢d係母愛既天性。）

係呢，你個friend因乜事要開刀呀？我阿嫂都係法國開刀，第朝就落床la bor。點解你個friend痛到行唔到兼餵唔到奶架？醫生做得唔好

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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

ricfa,
我仲以為私家服務會好D！點知.......。
我當時生那時都成天無得見BB呀！第2天見左一眼又比人抱走,話BB有問題,當時真係好擔心呀,好彩第3天終於有得見15分鐘..............,我在醫院都係只餵過BB食1-2次奶呀,真係好慘的,你叫你個FRIEND要叻D,快D自己撐起身呀,唔係無人幫到她的！

以下就係我生彤彤時的故事,寫左在彤彤網頁的！
我是因為妊娠毒血症導致我高血壓而入院催生的，因為子宮開唔到，所以要開刀。

5/7/03 bb於半夜出世,開刀後其他媽咪可以回產後房休息，但我由於高血壓兼開刀所以要在產房觀察24小時兼不能食野，剩吊鹽水，而bb去左產後房，我三番四次要求姑娘帶bb來比我餵人奶，但姑娘和醫生都唔理我，話我身體負荷唔到叫我唔好急，bb在bb房好好，但我好唔開心，擔心bb食左奶粉唔再食人奶。

6/7/03 第二天早上8:00我終於可以去產後房，心想終於可見bb了﹙身為阿媽的我只在開刀後見過阿b一眼﹚，點知9:00兒科醫生來找我，說阿b的肉很軟很鬆，唔係好正常，所以要送bb去兒科病房，我問醫生點解會咁，她話可能由於我吊左降血壓藥影響到bb咁，我同佢講話我想餵人奶，她話bb剛剛食左奶，到左兒科病房現在唔準探﹙因為sars﹚，叫我可泵奶過去比bb食，另我又想話我想見bb咁點，他話可比我探一次，叫我起到床﹙我開刀後未落床﹚就同姑娘約時間，我說想見bb一眼，她就叫姑娘比bb我望1眼，我抱住bb係咁哭姑娘都唔理，跟住抱左bb就走。
那天下午我問姑娘我起得床未﹙因我仲要食粥水，唔準食粥和飯﹚，她叫我自己起到未起，於是我叫隔離床的太太幫我攪起張床，忍住痛自己起床行，原本都有少少暈，但我都叫自己堅持坐在床到，因為我明早要行去見bb。
我又走去問姑娘借泵泵奶，姑娘問我識唔識用，我話唔識，她就叫我埋床等，跟住來望兩望就話你都未上奶，泵唔到的，叫我等下，姑娘都好好，跟住重教我點用手擠奶及按摩，於是我那天不斷用手擠及用熱水按摩，由下午3:00做到6:00食飯只有10ml，跟住又由7:00做到12:00都唔夠30ml，跟住睡到3,4點隔離床bb食奶我又擠1個鐘，6:00起床食完早餐又擠，一直擠到9:30醫生來，我都知一安半安無作用，但我唔知點可以多奶，咁惟有不斷擠。

7/7/03 第三天9:30醫生來，我話比兒科醫生聽我可以落床了，他就比我過兒科探bb，我真是好開心呀，跟住問姑娘取回我擠的奶，雖然一定唔夠bb一日食﹙得1-2安﹚，但點都好過冇。看完15min後我就要回產後房，人人在湊bb我就在床擠奶，除食飯就是擠奶，好辛苦地終於那天共擠到夠bb第二日食3餐﹙我在兒科問個姑娘bb一餐食50ml﹚，我真是好開心呀，不過個人就差不多虛脫。

8/7/03 第四天我又可以過去探bb，我再問姑娘取回我擠的奶，那天教我擠奶的姑娘見到我擠的奶都好驚奇，問我點解可擠到咁多奶，其他姑娘就話「梗係啦，她好勤力的，一日到黑都在擠奶的」，跟住我就過兒科，好好彩地bb即日可跟我一齊出院了，所以我擠的奶bb不用吃了，她可埋身食奶了，雖然浪費了那些初乳，但bb能跟我回家才是最緊要的呀。

如是這bb出世後第四天的黃昏，bb才第一次埋身食我的奶奶，如是這就開始了我17個月餵人奶的日子。

其間我都曾損到出的奶是粉紅色，bb苛的大便有血，自已發高燒要入院3天。忍痛餵奶，每天得15分鐘食飯，45分鐘泵奶只是小事，直到現在bb18個月都冇咩病過，很健康，我就覺得當初的付出是值得的，現在我的肚裡孕育著另一個小朋友，我希望到BB出世後，我一樣可以俾最好的食物俾她。

此生無悔入華廈，來生願在種花家！

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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

仲有, 醫生話我上次血糖高o左, 叫我食少d甜o野, 但係我又不嬲都好鍾意食甜食, 尤其係有o左bb之後, 我好驚下次又check到血糖高, 不過我又戒唔到甜食, 都唔知點算？

my_tabo,
yes, control and not eat too sweet. the presenter yesterday said if we have diabetic, the bb will be very big, which lead to delivery more difficult. try to control. good for you and your bb gar.

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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

my_tabo 寫道:
仲有, 醫生話我上次血糖高o左, 叫我食少d甜o野, 但係我又不嬲都好鍾意食甜食, 尤其係有o左bb之後, 我好驚下次又check到血糖高, 不過我又戒唔到甜食, 都唔知點算？

你要小心呀,妊娠塘尿病係好常見的,到時日日要你檢血你就麻煩,盡量介下口了！

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Re: 05年7月媽咪會

mcdullyiu & ricfa,

既然你o地都咁講, 咁我就真係唔戒甜食都唔得喇! 事實上我都好驚有糖尿, 怕影響到bb嘛! :-| :-|

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發表於 05-1-10 15:58 |只看該作者

Re: 05年7月媽咪會

my_tabo，甲狀腺功能對bb腦發育有好大影響，甲狀腺分泌過多或過少都有問題，（希望唔好嚇親大家）可能會影響bb智力或導致bb過度活躍。我當初check到TSH過低，要即刻再check T4 同 STI。好彩，雖然TSH過低，T4過高，但STI正常，即身體本身調節到，毋須食藥。不過，醫生話我既甲狀腺分泌唔stable，所以要keep住check，今個月又要check啦。其實，好多正常孕婦都會因hormone既影響，出現類似既情況，只要唔係維持長時間，就無問題，不過要keep住check囉，仲有，bb出世之後都最好check下佢既TSH level，有問題既可用藥物矯正番。

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發表於 05-1-10 16:08 |只看該作者

Re: 05年7月媽咪會

mcdullyin, myrchan & my_tabo,
the head of my friend's bb is too big, so need to take operation. bb weighs 3.7kg, somehow the mother likes to eat sweet stuff. so, we must control not to eat "sweety"

some of my friends said bb can't come out of the bb room because the outbreak of sars in 2003. hospital wants to take all action to prevent bateria spread in the wards. so they are very strict.

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發表於 05-1-10 16:09 |只看該作者

Re: 05年7月媽咪會

mcdullyiu，你真係一個偉大既媽媽呀！你個bb好幸福呢！

my_tabo，其實d醫生（我睇既私家醫生同QE個醫生都係）都唔想講d咩刺激到d準媽咪架，佢出到聲提你既，千祈唔好掉以輕心，乖乖地戒口啦。費事影響到bb，而自己又生得辛苦（整左件巨b出黎會好難生架）。

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