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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

If your maid is committed to serve your family, no need to 怕她一去冇回 wor!!

>>>佢好好,但係佢之前未試過跟同一個顧主續約,第一個CONTRACT係新加坡,之後去左賽莆路思做續了一次約,但第二個CONTRACT未完回家後就不回舊顧主,隔了五年再來香港.前蹟可見,丁爸和我怕她一去冇回頭.

Did you explore her will/motivation to sign for 2nd contract with you??
>>>佢話會同我地續約,之前身體未有變化

Does she want to change a new boss after finished your contract??
>>>之前身體未有變化時佢話會同我地續約,而且我地對佢好好,佢都應該好HAPPY.

How much years do your maid want to work in HK??
>>佢話做6-8年,但工人的話,聽完就算,雖然佢三番四次話會做6-8年.

Does she love to look after BB with so much workload for the 2nd. contract here? (It reflects her eagerness/motivation to work with you.)
>>>佢初來時暗示過生兩個要有多一個工人幫手.講真我地知兩件唔容易HANDLE,但丁丁K1會讀全日,咁就冇問題,過渡時間有兩個選擇,一是我全職幾個月(要維持生活質素,現在已經開始要準備),二是丁丁N1下學期轉全日(但要顧及丁丁情緒,要跟學校商量)

I think it's important for you to know/plan, doesn't mean that you tell her about身體有變化. Because you may feel secure & settled, no much worry about childcare!
>>>>>因為一切較原定時間早,要適應,但深信神要在這段時間給予必有他的旨意(可能未信的媽媽會覺得我好阿Q,但這是我的信念,我們都深信是他給予的,因為祈禱後,身體就有變化了)

歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

[quote]
fsy 寫道:
話時話, 我

Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself！

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy！！

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

bbpooh,

Busy busy...
But can't help sneaking up here to whisper congratulations and share your joy ah!

Take good care.

Lulube was born weighing 3.2 kg

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

丁媽,

我唔知暪住你個工人係咪一個好既方法, 如果到時續咗約佢返到黎知道要睇兩件, 到時唔高興做到衰衰咁咪仲大穫! 抄佢事少, 到時又要再請過先麻鬼煩. 如果係續約前同佢講清楚, 叫佢自己諗清楚先決定會唔會好啲呢? 我無呢方面經驗, 純粹提議下...

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發表於 07-6-4 11:16 |只看該作者

Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

Ding ma,

Understand more why you're worrying about the maid to run away due to her past disloyal history!

Yes, 2 maids surely are uneasy to be handled/managed!
If she expected to have one more maid for you've 2. She seems unwilling to handle/hold heavy workload bor.
However, there're very very very common in general nuclear families of HK, "2 BBs/toddlers/kids, with 1 maid" la!
She is quite a "Smart & Professional" maid!

Anyway, if Ding Ding go for whole-day nursery, your maid should be capable of looking after the junior.

Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself！

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy！！

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

fsy 寫道:
丁媽,

我唔知暪住你個工人係咪一個好既方法, 如果到時續咗約佢返到黎知道要睇兩件, 到時唔高興做到衰衰咁咪仲大穫!

11月先續約,到時紙都包唔住火啦.

歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

各位奶媽

人家出個道歉啟事來向小丁丁道歉,我都唔知你地做咩要恭喜我.

(冇事發生喎!發生咩事啫???

)

歡迎來看丁噹的成長點滴

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

早呀.....

明明昨晚睇哂先瞓, 咁快又咁多嘅????

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

丁媽,

放鬆啦, 事事上面安排哂 ga la!!!!!!

祝一切順利

!!!!

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

Hayes mama,

Hayes popo 明天要加油支持呀, 希望事事順利!!!!

Sonny & Cyntoby (w/妹妹) 衷心上

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

fsy 寫道:
丁媽,

我唔知暪住你個工人係咪一個好既方法, 如果到時續咗約佢返到黎知道要睇兩件, 到時唔高興做到衰衰咁咪仲大穫! 抄佢事少, 到時又要再請過先麻鬼煩. 如果係續約前同佢講清楚, 叫佢自己諗清楚先決定會唔會好啲呢? 我無呢方面經驗, 純粹提議下...

我無工人......但我又覺得fsy講得啱.....如果我係工人, 僱主早d講俾我知個工作量有改變, 而我又考慮到自己可唔可以接受這個改變而去take offer......咁好似好d.....唔會有被"昆"的感覺.........

純粹吹水....

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

bbpooh,

If I were you, I would let the maid know before she returns home. She can then decide whether she wants to stay or not. If not, I'd try to find another maid.

If she really doesn't like to take care of 2 kids, she would blame you in the future for not telling her sooner.

Lulube was born weighing 3.2 kg

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

Cyntoby 寫道:
Hayes mama,
Hayes popo 明天要加油支持呀, 希望事事順利!!!!
Sonny & Cyntoby (w/妹妹) 衷心上

Sonny & Cyntoby (w/妹妹),

Thousand thanks!!!

Wish my popo walks through the coming challenge smoothly & peacefully, amen!

Hayes 衷心上

Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself！

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy！！

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

Hello Lamblamb~

How's about your new maid??

Lulube, Happy belated 2nd. Birthday wish!!

Did you finally travel with him before reaching 2?

Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself！

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy！！

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

bbpooh,
可以照同佢講嗎？如佢唔like 都要返黎做到完約，反而對於工人冇影響，佢完約時，都係得丁丁一個。至多返黎唔re-new。完約時，寫封信俾佢搵工law...
總好過俾佢影響自己 :mrgreen:

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

[quote]
chiuchristan 寫道:
[quote]
fsy 寫道:
話時話, 我

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Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅴ之07年〥>>偉大的奶媽

So sad that I can't come to the gathering on 619. Have prior engagements already. Hope that I can join you all next time.

Maid - Dunno how to say. Maybe I have high standards lah. She sometimes have her own ideas about things and doesn' like to follow all my instructions. (For minor stuff.) But I feel that she's not totally obedient.

Lulube missed out travelling before 2 lah. But we'll be travelling to Canada to see my grandma in summer. 80% adult fare. :-( Plus enjoy a long haul daytime flight with him...

Also wish Hayes popo all the best. You take care lah. Don't worry too much. All in God's hands.

Lulube was born weighing 3.2 kg

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