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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

loumaomao,
真係講彩數, 只要樣唔太差, 係印,同係香港做過.

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

loumaomao
唔好呀, 你唔記得我個女同你一樣唔好食. 咁辛苦先有佢地, 生佢出 o黎, 要等到佢地考順我地的一刻.

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

TP
Actually, she loves my daughter and loves BB... so I don't worry about her treating my girl badly. However, she seems not listening to my instructions. For example,

1. ask her to make soft rice instead of congee for BB - she had never done it even I have told her a few months ago. If she had tried without success, fine with me... but no answers from her.. and she still cook congee for BB

2. my BB was sick (vomit+diarreha) for more than 10 days since x'mas. - she still gave her banana

3. one day 17 degree, she gave 4 clothes for BB to wear + thick blanket + turn on heater (21 degree)... - I told her that bb was sweating. she said no ar, she is cold...

4. the other time I told her bb's hand is cold, you need to touch her hand and decide to give her one more clothes, - she said no ar, she ran at home.. that's why cold hands...

5. I asked her not to hang rubbish bag in the drawer of the kitchen. she ignored me...

6. when herself got diarreha, she still drinks fresh milk...

Other than that, she does housework initially without my supervision. She is honest and I don't worry her to steal my money...

tpmak 寫道:
loumaomao,
你工人renew有咩問題?

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

loumaomao,
雖然你個囡既行為真係另你好hurt, 我都可以想像到，但你又唔好想到要去死咁嚴重！錦你爭取多D同你囡囡獨處既機會，同佢出街玩唔好帶姐姐會唔會好D？！

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

loumaomao,

你o既情況好嚴重wor, 你囡囡勁跟工人......難怪你變得化lu.
你囡囡表現好似話無呢個工人唔得, 令人幾頭痛.
你做左敢多努力, 仍然係敢, 都真係要睇開d, 囡囡大d會知你先係佢至親.

我yy平時都跟我/工人/爸爸架, 我餵佢食都肯, 不過有時會食得少(工人餵會好d), 佢都有好"lum"敢抱住我 & 錫我, 不過每次工人放完假番黎, 佢會好"lum"敢叫姐姐要抱, 上次仲面貼面攬住, 睇見心酸.

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

tp
:-( :-( :-( :-(
係呀,有佢真係唔容易,我from 有左到而家都好大pressure,仲瘦過穿婚紗果陣...
最近仲hormone 攪到我一臉粒粒...
真係唔知幾時先見到sunshine...
我試過要入院+食藥,真係想過放棄,都唔知為mug...
:-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(

tpmak 寫道:
loumaomao
唔好呀, 你唔記得我個女同你一樣唔好食. 咁辛苦先有佢地, 生佢出 o黎, 要等到佢地考順我地的一刻.

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

小心女人
有啦... 現在試緊... 但佢一番到門口已經叫 ee ee, 喊定先,一開門就要ee carry,hug hug...

當佢兩個一起既時候,我就係一個茄呢啡...

小心女人寫道:
loumaomao,
雖然你個囡既行為真係另你好hurt, 我都可以想像到，但你又唔好想到要去死咁嚴重！錦你爭取多D同你囡囡獨處既機會，同佢出街玩唔好帶姐姐會唔會好D？！

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

loumaomao,

振作! 你要relax一下, 用女人方法, 多d同佢落街玩(唔同工人), 玩半小時都好.

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

loumaomao
佢係印定係非? 我想如果一個工人真係唔夾我的style, 即係communication, 有問題, 我就唔用佢. otherwise, 佢做野唔太好, 但夾到我, 就ok!

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

sweet
所以你唔好唔開心啦,好多人仲淒涼過你,
咁我亞女有時都對我幾好既,當冇得choose... eg, 同family 出街without maid, 佢就要我唔要other family members 囉...

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

真係要振作, 多d 同大家share!

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

我真係mug methods 都用過,好多bk mami 都give me advice but really useless for my case. 我試過wake up 1/2 hour earlier everyday to take her to podium to play before going to work.. then, tried to bring her downstairs to play after dinner... same same lar..

Anyway, thanks all for letting me voice out.... to release my pressure a bit again!!!

sweet2004 寫道:
loumaomao,

振作! 你要relax一下, 用女人方法, 多d同佢落街玩(唔同工人), 玩半小時都好.

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

loumaomao，
咪咁down啦，見你錦真係有D擔心！學sweet2004話齋，佢大D就至你係佢至親，而家同姐姐friend都好OY，起碼你返工都返得放心D OY！同埋你姐姐放假，可能你囡囡無見佢成日，有D掛住佢都正常既，我囝囝都會架！
咪想太多啦，真係比你嚇親，下次我地gathering, 你都出下黎見下我地依班癲得媽媽OY，包你開心而回呀！

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

loumaomao,

比著我係你, 可能我都會換工人, 因為e+情況係令你不安/大pressure, 工人好似阻礙你同囡囡建立親密關係敢

不過你要有心理預算轉工人, 會對你囡囡影響, 亦有機會問題再現, 因為你囡囡可能只鐘意誰用最多時間同佢相處o既人.
真係要諗清楚 ?-(

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

TP
She is fillippino. She is a well organized and well behaved person. I think her personality is ok with sense... but she is over confident. She knows I know nothing... so she doesn't trust my judgement+instructions sometimes.
It's hard to change now.. as we have been here for 20 months.. I can't set up my image again...

That's why I am thinking to change a new one... so that I can teach her and brain wash the new one, under my instructions.

Then, the problem between the maid and the my BB will be a headache. I'm really afraid the new maid can't cope with my demanding BB. She is difficult to manage. Then, the new maid may feel frastruated and hate my bb. That's what I worried....

tpmak 寫道:
loumaomao
佢係印定係非? 我想如果一個工人真係唔夾我的style, 即係communication, 有問題, 我就唔用佢. otherwise, 佢做野唔太好, 但夾到我, 就ok!

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

小心女人
Sorry sorry all.... to make you all feel uncomfortable. please forgive me...
Everytime I talked about this topic, I couldn't hold my feeling and ended up with :-( :-( :-(
my colleagues get used to my behaviour - facing the monitor, typing and crying...

Really thanks all for comforting me here... even though we don't really know each other...

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

Sweet 2004
I hope the situation will change... as if I change a maid, I will 90% let my bb study full day nursery (if space is available). It's because I don't trust a new maid at the beginning...

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