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catherinepang:

多謝晒. 其實最想係搵間比較好一些又大機會入到既基督教學校(津或官)(有20分基督教)本身住係紅磡. 如果不太遠都可以接受
自己都唔知想點, 越問就越唔知自己想點....
==> 你自己都唔知想點, 咁外人又點會知同幫你呢..?:cry:

好學校 (如喇沙, CSK La salle, 油天...)只有15分係咪唔會有機會勒 ?
==> 係, 15 分你想諗 La Salle, even St Jo 同華仁呢d, 都係"自尋死路", 完全唔會有 chance, 另外, 唔好將油天同佢地比, 佢地唔同級數的, 油天試過有人 15 分抽得到, 你想既可以搏, CKS La Salle 15 分都可以試既, 不過 chance 一樣係低, 係好過 "0" 少少咁啦

其它基華你說一般不是太突出, 聖紀文又如何 ? (又好似遠左小小. 但如果學校好都值得)
==> 聖紀文 15 分都有一定難度, 不過 chance 而點都好過 La Salle 既

至於官校正如你說係亞公既不太進取....舊拔只有2班又係男女校競爭好大唔係咁容易會抽到,而且好似又唔係聯校同直屬...
==> 你成日話"抽", 你依家究竟係講緊 1st round 定係 2nd round? 你好似仲係唔係好明個 game rule 咁 wor, 唔該要溫書先有得講落去架...唉..唔好又要我 repeat 得唔得...:-(

我見你講到全港學校都想去咁, 但問題係, 1st round 你得 15 分, 你想去個d 基本上都冇乜 chance, 唯有就係 2nd round 大家"公平地"去抽, 但個問題係, 唔係你想去邊抽就去邊抽架嘛....你人住紅磡 (net 34) , 點會去抽 Kowloon Tong 既舊拔呢 (net 41)? or even net 40 既聖紀文呢..??? 你係唔係打算搬屋定有親朋好友有地址比你先? 係你先好諗, 唔係既話, 你先諗定你想抽邊區先再問學校好似 logical D.

唉.. 好似好多心咁, 但其實係唔知點choice.... Help me 彥媽.
==> 你要人 help 你, 你要先做少少功課, 問下自己 (1) 你想阿仔將來點? (2) budget-wise 你想付出幾多 (3) 時間上 (即係陪太子讀書) 你又可以做到幾多? etc...咁先可以俾到意見你的, 若你只係一咪問人 xx 學校好唔好, 唉....叫人點答呢??....隨便話一句好, or 唔好對你都唔會有用格, 你會咁就信咩? (if without sound factual data 俾你考慮?) cos 每個人對好 vs 唔好既定義都好唔同, 係冇...???

比著你應該點choice. ??好. 對落重有個細佬. 好希望簡間好D
起碼煩小一個..... 比 d意見我啦....唔該 !!!
==> 你要先學識 manage your expectation, 唉...呢個世界十個阿媽十個都係想 "簡間好D" 同埋 "煩小一個" 架喇....咁即係你揀個d 咪人地都會揀一樣囉, 因此, 多做功課, 準備定萬一心水唔得, 可以最低限度接受到咩既學校 etc 係好重要的, 因為如果你話"我一定唔讀d band 3" school 既, 咁又 if 你唔可以 100% sure 可以抽得到既話, then maybe you got to think of other options 做後備 (e.g. 考埋私校/國際學校呢停了), 因為抽獎唔係你 control 到既野, so 講到尾, 你想點同可以點係 the key for decision

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sil...
阿妹又做咗cover girl wor~~

re:幫工人買基金
妳ng講都ng g有d咁嘅嘢tim!!!

mike...
妳阿仔間kinder好好service wor!!

yinyinma...
I have a new plan, which is totally different from what I thought before. 揾日再consult吓妳嘅comment la!!! :D 呢排ng g做乜, 呢樣壞, 嗰樣爛... 好多嘢要整... 幾乎日日困响屋企等c父整嘢... 超悶......... d樓舊咗就麻煩多多... 係時候大翻身la!!!

hellohello...
今日我準時去報名... 去到竟然人山人海, 我前面已經有7x籌... 爭@@就報ng到

:lol

mike, hello...
阿仔changed idea la... 又話想繼續little bee... cos佢想見到佢d friends wor!!!:)

benben...
妳續 ng續ar???

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Hi 'New',
你今日準時去報セ名? 有冇人話我知呀?
你吔成日提小蜜蜂、係咩嚟架? 係未好似童軍類?
Mimia

原文章由 *New* 於 08-5-23 01:52 PM 發表
sil...
阿妹又做咗cover girl wor~~
re:幫工人買基金
妳ng講都ng g有d咁嘅嘢tim!!!

mike...
妳阿仔間kinder好好service wor!!

yinyinma...
I have a new plan, which is totally different from wha ...

mimia

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Mike, Catherine, Mimia
係啦,, 你個仔間kinder甘好既, 有得check甘多野!!

8字腳, 我個女又係好 like PAR 係度sleep 架, 原來會影響架?!?

Re : 皮長
How to judge? 我都好想知. .. . . .同埋咩時候做最好?!?! Age 3, 4, or 5??

New
續約. . .未唸呀, 下年年頭先再 consider lor!! 不過, 彥媽所計, 真係好金. . . 產不多成4個月人工

你報咩丫甘多人?

悶係家中咪上下網lor!!

Silvia
Wa. . . .工人都有基金?

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彥媽:
我又要請教你喇!
1) 阿女有D唔好習慣: 咬手指甲同入字脚
咬手指甲> 試過好多方法、鬧啦、罰啦、獎勵啦、搽嘢、唔理啦、去醫生度比D放大手指嘅菌嘅相、同醫生一齐解釋食手指会有好多虫、手指甲又唔靚、又油唔到指甲等...
K1老師話: 唔好理佢、越理越咬得勁
K2老師話: 上堂淨係咬手指、完全唔專心、唔知教セ、更唔識做堂課
Friend話: 我細个咬手指甲到20+歲、直到有一次做咗水晶甲咬唔到(因太硬)先停咬咋! 可能缺乏某种安全感

引伸到阿女做嘢好唔專心、食午反食小小又唔想食、做家課做小小又唔做 (我係到好D、我工人完全handle唔到佢)、做功課工人全程陪住佢、食反最近个半月因佢越來越扭計、我工人瞞住我比佢一路食午反一路睇TV、前兩日我sick leave、碰到我煑反果中国part-time先踏爆咗、我seriously話佢唔可以唔配合我‧唉、越講越遠添‧佢班主任成日同我通电、最近下学期assessment剛完、話佢中文有進步但仍有混亂、average啦‧但其實呢年我spend咗都唔小時間係佢中文度、仲在出面補中文添‧數学仲差、話一片混亂、其實so far補習班、工人姐姐、同我都有教佢、我教佢中文同數時、覺得佢都明、好多都做到、班主任話she performs better when in one to one but couldn't manage if she's not accompanied.
另、有冇數学班介紹?

入字脚: 如前文講、提到口臭但要繼續努力

2) 選校: 我吔住34網、心仪MCS、有20分、天主教
1st round: MCS (你会否提議我考油天?)
2nd round: 你話甲一MCS、甲二協思、乙一協恩定甲一協恩、用二唔填、乙一協恩呢? 因option 1好似机会好微‧
其實我有41地址、但not physically live there、你話最好唔好報34呢?

考私校: 實行大包圉、因怕女女實力唔夠、但我對中上又ok嘅学校認識唔夠‧諗住考咗音才墊底先、Nottingham 老師話 (佢1歲係果度讀英文到而家、所以幾瞭解佢) KTS会收佢、用嚟墊底、叫我唔好報優才及音才、同highly recommend我報聖士提反女校、佢話聖心同宣道好谷、唔啱我果女‧
老公話: 考ESF (Kowloon Junior)、佢D friend話又開心、父母壓力冇咁大、因我倆工作好忙、成日要飛‧但我想try下local先、最多放棄事業、不過同時要放棄生活質素‧

condition: 学費大致ok、location都冇問題 (因一早plan咗cfm小一後会搬、而家果度係租)

你對我選校有セ意見呢? 有セ中上直資或私校recommend呢?
萬謝!
Mimia

原文章由 彥彥媽咪 於 08-5-23 11:40 AM 發表
catherinepang:

多謝晒. 其實最想係搵間比較好一些又大機會入到既基督教學校(津或官)(有20分基督教)本身住係紅磡. 如果不太遠都可以接受
自己都唔知想點, 越問就越唔知自己想點....
==> 你自己都唔知想點, 咁外人 ...

mimia

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mimia

wa. 你個女都好 click 手. . . .esp. 咬手指!!

happy bee :

http://www.hkgga.org.hk/?page=chi_happybee_members

every sat 早上, 番兩小時, 玩下, 吃下茶點甘 lor!!

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I'm very interested in happy bee member wor. Which lesson and time you r taking? Want to let my daughter join.
Mimia

原文章由 benben 於 08-5-23 05:17 PM 發表
mimia

wa. 你個女都好 click 手. . . .esp. 咬手指!!

happy bee :

http://www.hkgga.org.hk/?page=chi_happybee_members

every sat 早上, 番兩小時, 玩下, 吃下茶點甘 lor!! ...

mimia

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mimia

sat. 9am-11am.

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Hi friends,

Finally I'm able to write something here!

Baby is quite good - easier than Him Him. My Him Him, ai

! He thinks his little brother is a toy, I guess. He always wants to touch him, kiss him, hold him. My in-laws are very "gun cheung" (good that they don't live with us and are flying back to HK soon) and always tells Him Him NOT touch the baby's head. Well, I know the newborn's head is soft and fragile. Anway, I do let Him Him touch little baby's face, fingers and toes. He does want to touch baby's head (you know kids . . . they would do what you ask them NOT to do!!!) Yesterday, when baby's a week old, I let him hold the baby for the very first time. I can see how happy and proud he is, to be able to hold his baby brother! I think it's ok to let our older kid to touch and interact his/her sibling, but of course under our guidance!!

And, Him Him sometimes drives me crazy

!! He just does whatever we ask him not to do. He always has his ears shut off and pretends not to hear us. He doesn't want to go to bed (but keeps giving us reasons like he wants to watch more DVDs, play a little more . . . ) at night, and very difficult to wake him up to school in the morning. Every morning is like a battle and I have to scold him all the time

! I don't want to, but he's really very naughty. I know he also needs a transition to get used to the new baby in the family.

It's not easy to take care of two kids, esp. two BOYS!!! My husband is now on paternity leave and he'll resume work on June 1. I can't imagine how crazily busy I will be, after he's back to work. You know we drive here. I'm worried that Him Him would hurt his baby brother if only two of them sit at the back of the seat. But I have no choice because I have to drive (him to/from school) and the car seats have to be put in the back.

Very tired!! But, I enjoy being a mother of two

, very "mau tun"!!

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new, benben,
基金....都係自己幫佢買, 當好似mpf咁啦.....到時佢走都唔洗羅咁多錢比佢。
cover girl...哈, 是的。入面仲有你好耐冇見既家齊。

minia,
我覺得你女女咁多問題，如果好彩地入到油天或者其他出名既學校，到時都未必係一件好事。你女女又唔會讀得開心，分分鐘又要攪到轉校....不如考慮佢既能力，興趣，感受先過你既意願啦。
有小小分享，去esdlife既親子果邊，有英華林校長既video，睇哂之後希望你有少少得著。
我自己仔仔都係唔夠專注力，佢一定要係傳統學校比人鬧先得，所以佢都將會好可憐。我就唸男校比人鬧既機會可能低d，因為女仔通常係小學都sharp過男仔，如果男女校實比人日日鬧，鬧到冇哂自信。因此，我既目標校就只係英華，考唔到就大抽獎，第時同妹妹一齊讀，等佢開心返d。

http://www.edu-kingdom.com/?10928
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原文章由 pink0325 於 08-5-24 12:16 發表
Hi friends,

Finally I'm able to write something here!

Baby is quite good - easier than Him Him. My Him Him, ai ! He thinks his little brother is a toy, I guess. He always wants to touch ...

哈哈, 比d時間佢啦, 佢仲好興奮。遲d佢發現細佬成日喊, 佢就會覺得好麻煩。(哈哈!)

http://www.edu-kingdom.com/?10928
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其實我都唔知我果女係セ程度、淨係知佢除咗英文從來唔洗我擔心外、其餘普普通通啦! 特別數学就認真麻麻喇! 所以我会盡快解決佢數学及專注力方面嘅問題‧
英華果video仲未揾到bor.
同意你話要去傳統学校train下discipline.
regarding your son's concentration problem, you can check a summer course at 幼联‧時间我果女撞咗ESF果summer course、而家我可能同佢arrange單對單嘅專注力訓練‧
pls check: www.healthyliving.org.hk
I may join her group course after summer holiday.
Mimia

原文章由 silvia_ng 於 08-5-26 11:28 AM 發表
new, benben,
基金....都係自己幫佢買, 當好似mpf咁啦.....到時佢走都唔洗羅咁多錢比佢。
cover girl...哈, 是的。入面仲有你好耐冇見既家齊。

minia,
我覺得你女女咁多問題，如果好彩地入到油天或者其他出名既學校，到 ...

mimia

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mimia810:

咬手指甲> 試過好多方法、鬧啦、罰啦、獎勵啦、搽嘢、唔理啦、去醫生度比D放大手指嘅菌嘅相、同醫生一齐解釋食手指会有好多虫、手指甲又唔靚、又油唔到指甲等...
==> 聽你講都做過唔少野, 佢都仲係咁, 咁就 99% 係心理因素多過其他 (e.g. 會唔會有 separation anxiety, 一見父母唔響身邊就會有 emotion?), 要佢戒 (好似大人戒煙咁), 試下從 diversify 佢既 attention 著手, 即係 keep her busy, 佢就唔得閒搞, 多數咬手指既人都係心裡有焦慮 (但太細個佢又唔會識講你聽), 因此試下 redirect her attention to do something else may help. 一見佢咬就叫佢做第二d 野.

引伸到阿女做嘢好唔專心、食午反食小小又唔想食、做家課做小小又唔做 (我係到好D、我工人完全handle唔到佢)、做功課工人全程陪住佢、食反最近个半月因佢越來越扭計、我工人瞞住我比佢一路食午反一路睇TV、前兩日我sick leave、碰到我煑反果中国part-time先踏爆咗、我seriously話佢唔可以唔配合我‧唉、越講越遠添‧
==> 多口問句, 佢細個係點湊大的, 因為依家你見既野一定唔係 "天生" 的, 而係 accumulated 的, 我有理由相信你因為唔係太多時間管教佢, 而工人因為係工人, of course 唔敢"違抗" 小主人, 而 spoil 左佢...不過點都好, 問題已形成, 只好諗對策 (不過記住你再想有多一個就真係要好好 plan 點去教佢了) 先考慮 (1) 食飯只 limit 一日三餐, 期間唔好俾雜食佢, 做功課時可以先 start with 坐響佢隔離, 之後行開, 佢一 e or 你就同佢講, 媽咪要執野 (whatever excuse) , 行黎行去, 但唔理佢, 並 remind her to work on homework, give her assurance that you are nearby, 最初預左效果會一般, 但唔好放棄, continue to do will mean role modelling to her...慢慢佢就會習慣的

另一方面, if you do feel 佢行為係好有問題既, 可以考慮去做d behavioural therapy, 揾 d clinical psychologist (CP) 都可以幫到你的. 不過你預左係一個 long term assignment, 唔會即刻見效的, 你自己都要有心理準備.

(answer too long, 分幾 part 出)

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Part 2 to mimia810

佢班主任成日同我通电、最近下学期assessment剛完、話佢中文有進步但仍有混亂、average啦‧
==> 你係屋企係唔係又中又英的? 番學係用乜 language? 要小心, 若你一向用開英文為 major mode of communication, 咁小朋友既中文一定相對會差d , 因為中文成個 structure, grammar 都比英文難, 小朋友 once started with an easier one, 再去學番中文就自會覺中文好難, 唔想掂的.

但其實呢年我spend咗都唔小時間係佢中文度、仲在出面補中文添‧數学仲差、話一片混亂、其實so far補習班、工人姐姐、同我都有教佢、我教佢中文同數時、覺得佢都明、好多都做到、班主任話she performs better when in one to one but couldn't manage if she's not accompanied.
==> suggest if you could see so many problems here 既, 去揾個 CP 同佢做d assessment and see if there are any clues on this.

另、有冇數学班介紹?
==> 似乎佢依家既問題唔係佢數學得唔得, 而係 logical reasoning, attention span 呢類 pre-requisite 有問題, 我認為要先揾出問題既根由會有效過你依家揾另一d 數學班, 証明左唔係一d fundmental problems 先再從 skills 著眼都未遲

(part 3 to continue)

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part 3 to mimia810

2) 選校: 我吔住34網、心仪MCS、有20分、天主教
1st round: MCS (你会否提議我考油天?)
2nd round: 你話甲一MCS、甲二協思、乙一協恩定甲一協恩、用二唔填、乙一協恩呢? 因option 1好似机会好微‧
其實我有41地址、但not physically live there、你話最好唔好報34呢?
==> 你可以試 MCS even though 20 分都要搏, 不過好似 silvia 講, 若你阿女依家仲係咁既模式學習 (坐唔定, 做功課都要搞咁耐, 中文水平又未夠, 你小心去到 MCS 呢d 擺明小一就教小二既野, 老師教一半, 留番另一半比阿媽教呢類傳統名校只會加劇你兩母女既磨擦而已, unless 你有信心佢會有改善, 你亦要放棄好多野 (even your job) 去陪佢行呢段路, otherwise 相當大既風險你會賠上佢既成績 + 讀書興趣 + 你倆既親子關係. 我常常都講... 呢類學校係好好, 問題亦係"有得有失", 想讀佢地, 家庭亦要準備相當大既承擔, 就係咁.

油天壓力應冇咁重, 相對地你可以試下, 但佢同 MCS 都係同一類型既野, 分別在於人們對 MCS 既學生期望會比油天更大, 所以學生, 老師, peers etc, 比自己既壓力都唔會少的.

考私校: 實行大包圉、因怕女女實力唔夠、但我對中上又ok嘅学校認識唔夠‧
==> If 你時間上許可 (四維去 interview) 你阿女又肯合作 (肯同你呢樹去個樹去) 既話, 呢個 idea 係可行的

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諗住考咗音才墊底先、Nottingham 老師話 (佢1歲係果度讀英文到而家、所以幾瞭解佢) KTS会收佢、用嚟墊底、叫我唔好報優才及音才、
==> 優才之前 benben 都講過, 係 gifted 先收的, 你有冇 test 過佢係唔係丫...唔係唔駛報了. 音小, 你阿女係唔係好 likey music 呢..係既入去有用, 唔係既入去有d waste 料, 佢地既強項係音樂, 你唔係想 develop her this area 既話我睇唔到 why $3xxx per month 仲要 "tun" 上黃大仙學校村個樹返學, unless 真係冇 other choice, 要注意, 呢d 直資一旦收左你, 你要決定 go or not go, 唔得等抽獎再揀的, 因此, 你唔係 100% 想去既話考黎都冇用, 直資學校係唔可以用黎 "墊底" 的. 只係等你早d唔駛煩 worry 抽唔到而已．

同highly recommend我報聖士提反女校、佢話聖心同宣道好谷、唔啱我果女‧
＝＝>呵呵...highly recommend, 我有女我都想佢考 St Stephen la.....佢名氣比聖心同宣道更高, net 11 中就係佢最 top (for girls) , 考到既真係唔拘架.

老公話: 考ESF (Kowloon Junior)、佢D friend話又開心、父母壓力冇咁大、因我倆工作好忙、成日要飛‧
==> 先唔理你最後讀唔讀, 但你依家先話考 ESF 就真係遲左d喇, 你知唔知佢地個 waiting list 有幾長?? 好多一早 4 歲就入去讀 (their Grade 1 , approx = K2) , 好少依家先入的, 因此, 你要 "插班" 唔容易, 冇人 out 你點入..?? 不過咁, 想去既就即管打去問下排左隊先, 有時d 野講唔埋的, 好多時係無心插柳架.

但我以前有講過, 你自己 think think , 讀得 IS (international school) 就係不歸路, 多數一定讀哂上去 and then 出國的, 中文水平亦一定會唔好, 你 OK 既咁佢地都係一種受歡迎既學習模式.

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但我想try下local先、最多放棄事業、不過同時要放棄生活質素‧
==> 一早已講過, 冇人可以要哂全世界, 好多野都係要 make choices, 不過 if you are clear about your preferences, make choice 唔會係一年太難既事.

condition: 学費大致ok、location都冇問題 (因一早plan咗cfm小一後会搬、而家果度係租)
==> 依家講乜都冇用, 盡早 fix the problem of your girl 先, 咁先可以讓你知道 what school fits her.

你對我選校有セ意見呢? 有セ中上直資或私校recommend呢?
萬謝!
==> if you 打算考私校係"墊底" only ge, 咁全港都唔係好多間私校既 je (因為只有私校先可以俾你又留位又抽獎, but 都係一部份 only) , 你既已預備大包圍既話, 考哂都唔駛好耐的, 你得閒出去小學雜談, 小一選校個邊睇睇, 到時到候自有人提你的了.

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彥媽,

多謝晒. 其實最想係搵間比較好一些又大機會入到既基督教學校(津或官)(有20分基督教)本身住係紅磡. 如果不太遠都可以接受
自己都唔知想點, 越問就越唔知自己想點....
==> 你自己都唔知想點, 咁外人又點會知同幫你呢..?
## 我諗我寫得唔清楚.其實意思係….我係
知道自己最想點. 心目中都有幾間考慮.
La Salle, 油天, CKS La Salle, 聖紀文,
基華, 馬頭涌(紅)…雖然心係咁諗但實際呢
又未必可行呀嘛. 之前都重15/16好唔好博
La Salle. 但正如你剛分析左只有15分又
唔係同網, 都係"自尋死路".完全唔會有
chance, 咁我就唔再諗, 雖然係勁鍾意…
但話說回來你又提過. 如果要叩門, 為表誠
意要1st & 2nd甲都填佢先有機會 ?但如果
叩門時(津校)原來個校長預留左比自己友.
咁咪浪費左個機會…..真係唔知La Salle會點呢 ? 有無意見 ? 因為想博間好 d, 但又要計
埋機會率. 最衰無咩抽獎運. 只怕心頭太高,
學你話派頭到好時派到好後既志願, 咪貪字
得個貧, 所以先咁頭痛…

好學校 (如喇沙, CSK La salle, 油天...)只有15分係咪唔會有機會勒 ?
==> 係, 15 分你想諗 La Salle, even St Jo 同華仁呢d, 都係"自尋死路", 完全唔會有 chance, 另外, 唔好將油天同佢地比, 佢地唔同級數的, 油天試過有人 15 分抽得到, 你想既可以搏, CKS La Salle 15 分都可以試既, 不過 chance 一樣係低, 係好過 "0" 少少咁啦
## 想confirm一下. 1st round只有一個
choice不限校網. 2nd round 甲部不限校網
但只是小量學位, so可以話你咩機會. 乙部
就係大抽獎(要同校網)..係咪咁.?
如果係咁. 2nd round甲即係差不多更無可能博到油天, CKS
La Salle, 聖紀文, 基華(因為唔同區) 啦. 係咪咁解 ?

其它基華你說一般不是太突出, 聖紀文又如何 ? (又好似遠左小小. 但如果學校好都值得)
==> 聖紀文 15 分都有一定難度, 不過 chance 而點都好過 La Salle 既
## 聖紀文同基華我係有20分既. 會唔會1st
round 報其中一間會大 d機會呢.?
又如果聖紀文, 基華, 馬頭涌.你會唔會咁排
(這排位只係心目中排高與低, 唔係話填表)
如果果間學校都叫做係幾好,係咪應該博間
大機會D..? 所以我先要知道學校好與壞.

至於官校正如你說係亞公既不太進取....舊拔只有2班又係男女校競爭好大唔係咁容易會抽到,而且好似又唔係聯校同直屬...
==> 你成日話"抽", 你依家究竟係講緊 1st round 定係 2nd round? 你好似仲係唔係好明個 game rule 咁 wor, 唔該要溫書先有得講落去架...唉..唔好又要我 repeat 得唔得...
我見你講到全港學校都想去咁, 但問題係, 1st round 你得 15 分, 你想去個d 基本上都冇乜 chance, 唯有就係 2nd round 大家"公平地"去抽, 但個問題係, 唔係你想去邊抽就去邊抽架嘛....你人住紅磡 (net 34) , 點會去抽 Kowloon Tong 既舊拔呢 (net 41)? or even net 40 既聖紀文呢..??? 你係唔係打算搬屋定有親朋好友有地址比你先? 係你先好諗, 唔係既話, 你先諗定你想抽邊區先再問學校好似 logical D.
## 我講緊係1st round.計分. Sorry寫得唔清楚. 之前已提過只有15分如果博喇沙, CSK La salle, 油天可能唔得勒. 舊拔同聖紀文有我20分所以要考慮一下, 如果要博那個chance 會大d, 係咪應該係聖紀文 ? 這問題可能要睇完下面先回覆到我

唉.. 好似好多心咁, 但其實係唔知點choice.... Help me 彥媽.
==> 你要人 help 你, 你要先做少少功課, 問下自己 (1) 你想阿仔將來點? (2) budget-wise 你想付出幾多 (3) 時間上 (即係陪太子讀書) 你又可以做到幾多? etc...咁先可以俾到意見你的, 若你只係一咪問人 xx 學校好唔好, 唉....叫人點答呢??....隨便話一句好, or 唔好對你都唔會有用格, 你會咁就信咩? (if without sound factual data 俾你考慮?) cos 每個人對好 vs 唔好既定義都好唔同, 係冇...???
## 你講得對. 好, 等我補充一下. 當然想亞仔讀好D啦..因為個仔比較文靜.係可以坐定定果隻.我覺得佢讀書都OK架.但of cource要人監住先得.因為還有一個細佬, 所以想博間好D. 老實budget-wise唔係多. 所以津貼同官係首選. 時間上係一半半啦, 時間都叫做可以就既, 但只係自己唔夠心機, but我會再努力一下

比著你應該點choice. ??好. 對落重有個細佬. 好希望簡間好D
起碼煩小一個..... 比 d意見我啦....唔該 !!!
==> 你要先學識 manage your expectation, 唉...呢個世界十個阿媽十個都係想 "簡間好D" 同埋 "煩小一個" 架喇....咁即係你揀個d 咪人地都會揀一樣囉, 因此, 多做功課, 準備定萬一心水唔得, 可以最低限度接受到咩既學校 etc 係好重要的, 因為如果你話"我一定唔讀d band 3" school 既, 咁又 if 你唔可以 100% sure 可以抽得到既話, then maybe you got to think of other options 做後備 (e.g. 考埋私校/國際學校呢停了), 因為抽獎唔係你 control 到既野, so 講到尾, 你想點同可以點係 the key for decision
## So. 我都會好好預備一下考埋私校/國際學校backup.
但其實有樣唔係好識評分. 想問一下. 如果考一間好既直資同私校係咪好難入?
比如華英, 新拔…咁. 如果咁好彩考入左唔去讀係咪好笨 ?

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Thank you so much for your long suggesetions and reply.
I did type a long reply to you but finally couldn't send (perhaps due to BK updating ???).
Tomorrow type again la.
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