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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

LONGBMA
係我長氣姐.... 所以搞到個個走哂囉...

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

LMM,
佢地收哂工咋

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

loumaomao,
Try talk to your maid nicely la...., tell her this is her last chance to listen to u.

Ask your maid to try to encourage your kid to love u more (e.g: ask her to told your girl "Mami love u ar"!
"mami need to work but she miss u", etc...."
Sometime might be the lady never consider to teach this so u remind her to do this for u, and u can even tell her how is your feeling as a mother but your kid love her(maid) more than u.

Tell your maid u satisfy with the way how she love your kid but she should also help u in this way & let your girl get more closer to u.

I knew how is your feeling...but u should also consider that if this is really a right decision for your girl & your family if u said u are the only one who want your maid to leave.

I read all your message together with my maid & some of the above suggestions are come from her (as she will understand more about filipina than me)

My maid said some of the maid will be really like that (Want the bb to love themself as they won't have the chance being terminated) or your maid really too over-confident!

For me, I consider only - which method is the best for your bb?

As our bb grow bigger & bigger, I am sure she will understand who is the one love her the most in the world. Just try to give u, your maid & your girl a little more time & see what's going on after u explain this to your maid.

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發表於 06-1-17 23:07 |只看該作者

Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

loumaomao,
洗乜sorry喎, 我地依度ｄ媽媽全部都會同你一齊分享＆分擔你既喜怒哀樂架嘛！我地大家都係第一次做人媽媽，第一次面對好多新野，加上唔同ｂｂ有唔同個性, 可能有好多野另你擔憂. 不過慢慢黎啦，我地ｄｂｂ仲細嘛，再大ｄ你囡囡會有轉變架喇！唔好比太大壓力自己！我地橕你喎！

loumaomao 寫道:
小心女人
Sorry sorry all.... to make you all feel uncomfortable. please forgive me...
Everytime I talked about this topic, I couldn't hold my feeling and ended up with :-( :-( :-(
my colleagues get used to my behaviour - facing the monitor, typing and crying...

Really thanks all for comforting me here... even though we don't really know each other...

李家兩條King - 大哥哥Cyrus B, 細佬佬Ryan Lee, 都係爹爹媽媽既心肝寶貝, 得閒入黎我地網頁look look啦!

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發表於 06-1-18 09:46 |只看該作者

Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

今朝較左alarm clock叫Cyrus B早D起身，因為佢2點要返playgroup, 我想佢早D起身跟住可以11:00a.m.訓多次覺，養足精神至返playgroup. 結果由7：45鏟佢起身鏟到8：15, 個alarm clock返響左十次有多，佢都無反應，最後要我真人發聲叫佢至肯郁！仲要發晒皮4嬲我好嘈醒佢！第時返學都唔知點攪？！

李家兩條King - 大哥哥Cyrus B, 細佬佬Ryan Lee, 都係爹爹媽媽既心肝寶貝, 得閒入黎我地網頁look look啦!

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

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發表於 06-1-18 10:35 |只看該作者

Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

女人,
唔知係未呢

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發表於 06-1-18 10:43 |只看該作者

Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

LongBMa 寫道:
女人,
唔今朝又係叫佢起身,著sock,著鞋,去婆婆到,唔制,要覺豬喎,依家好多時要夾硬抱佢出去,係lift到著衫著鞋架.

小心女人寫道:
今朝較左alarm clock叫Cyrus B早D起身. 結果由7：45鏟佢起身鏟到8：15, 個alarm clock返響左十次有多，佢都無反應，最後要我真人發聲叫佢至肯郁！仲要發晒皮4嬲我好嘈醒佢！第時返學都唔知點攪？！

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Both Cyrus & long long are so funny!

Micelle also very lazy for this few weeks ....always wake up after 8:30pm

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發表於 06-1-18 10:45 |只看該作者

Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

Good morning everyone...

Milka
Thanks for your msg. Actually, I plan to speak to her this week together with my husband. Tell her my requirements in general and if she accepts it, then we renew the contract. If she doesn't feel herself may change, sorry I have no choice to hire a new one.
Thanks for your time again

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發表於 06-1-18 10:49 |只看該作者

Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

all,
I plan to have my leave on the 2nd half of Feb as I want to let my maid go back phils.

It's seems so rush....but if I never let her have her leave yet, I can not try to apply a new job!

Who will wait for a old lady more than 1 mth & have no qualifications at all..

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發表於 06-1-18 10:50 |只看該作者

Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

小心女人
再一次多謝你既support!!!

你就好啦,cyrus 咁好訓,我亞女一有少少voice 都唔得,我地係屋企好似做賊咁嫁....

今朝佢6:45 wokeｕｐ，ｅｅ　去左ｔｏｉｌｅｔ，佢又勁喊，我同老公一起ｔｕｍ佢抱佢都唔得，直到ｂｕｎｂｕｎ　出來先收ｖｏｉｃｅ　 :cry: :cry:

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

lmm,
Don't mention la!

I think your decision is right!

If she don't accept, just let her go la!

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

ｍｉｌｋａ
點解比你工人放假．．．完約？
你份工唔好咩，做ｍｕｇ轉工呀．．．

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

LongBMa,
係喎，你要每朝都叫朗朗起身去婆婆度喎！[quote]
LongBMa 寫道:
女人,
唔知係未呢

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Re: BB現已20多個月大的媽媽入來傾下 [old title - from shirleylee : 5個月......]

brian'mother
Good morning!

How is brian?

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