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aprilk:

津貼小學是要孝或抽籤?
==>睇到你呢個問題, 呢一刻我真係想自殺呀~~ :-( :-( :-(

你又唔係第一次入黎呢樹, 都竟然仲會問呢個問題.....難道我d表達能力真係咁差???!!! 嗚嗚...我真係想死呀~~~ :-( :-( :-( :-(

我 day 1 已經 talk about this ga la.... :evil: :evil:

Please go to 精華篇 to check la...

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彥彥媽咪,

wish you will have a very happy mother's day tomorrow (3sons wor!!! GREAT mom!)

咁你覺得net11 for 阿女好D定net12呢? net12 冇乜關喺, 但如果真喺好很多...又返去諗諗 (用下多年的人情card... )

Ｂ爸爸母校是基顯(ngau tau kok) primary and 何明華會督銀禧中學...又点睇呢?

ps: 聽講kentvillie and st cath 喺超難考...從來冇諗過我入呢个戰塲

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咁多位, 唔好意思, 呢陣子有d忙 (想蛇都唔得呀...

), 又要過其空中飛人既日子, 就係煩d架喇...不過我一定係個有問有答之人....so 請各位等等呀...

kamanip:

咁你覺得net11 for 阿女好D定net12呢?
==> 若係咪都係要借地址既, 咁就梗係 Net 12 好過 11 囉....

Ｂ爸爸母校是基顯(ngau tau kok) primary and 何明華會督銀禧中學
==> 喂...喂...喂....中學??!! 依家係講緊考小學噃....parents 中學係邊間都冇用架喎.....係小學校友個d先計分架咋喎...

聽講kentvillie and st cath 喺超難考
==> 回應呢點...你考唔考我冇意見, 反而我係有兩個睇法以補充下等你去決定:

(1) 就 past record 所見, 我睇到係 "好多人考", 咁"好多人考" 係唔係就等於 "好難考"呢?? 呢樣我又唔太認同, 因為考個時大家都係問下顏色呀, 對答呀咁...唔係好"難"咋喎... 再者, 呢d私校你想入既死 ngai 爛 ngai 都唔係冇機會既, 話哂佢地收得一個學生得一個喇...係冇??

(2) 呢個世界 6 合彩都好難中, 但都一樣好多人去買, 為既係乜呢?? 就係大家都好想攞到個頭獎喇...so with a clear objective in mind 既時候, 而當如果你又睇到呢d幼稚園可以幫到你達到 this objective a bit easier and more comfortable 既時候, 咁"難唔難考"就唔應該成為一個考慮點了, 而係你"想唔想去排隊呀", "想唔想去一齊迫呀", "想唔想去考", "唔考佢有冇另一間可以做到呢d幼稚園做到既野" 之類先係考慮點了.

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yf:

呢幾日我想幫你揾番個個 link 比你睇, 不過唔知係我老眼昏花定係真係太多 link 亂哂籠, 要揾佢個時又唔見佢喎...作死丫~~

anyway...

係我呀, 咁點呀? 係咪讀辺間都冇所謂呢? 1) 2) 3) 辺間好D? 我應該從辺度入手?
==> 你若打算係小學玩搞珠既真係邊間都唔係太大分別, 你可以參照番我之前有講過揀幼兒/幼稚園要注意既野 (精華區個樹都有), and then to choose la...要注意只係響 K2 尾+ K3 頭時就要同小朋友做定多d 準備去升小一喇...因為幼稚園既生活都真係講玩既多, 但一上小學就真係要比併的了, 所以要勤力d 的.

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彥彥媽咪,

多謝你咁忙都抽時間答我哋...

(1) Ｂ爸爸母校是基顯(ngau tau kok) primary ...喂...喂...喂....中學??!! 依家係講緊考小學噃....parents 中學係邊間都冇用架喎.....係小學校友個d先計分架咋喎...

sorry...太想知有冇機攞多D分, 所以問咗條冇經大腦的問題 :lol:

咁你覺得聖公會基顯(ngau tau kok) 小學好唔好? 值唔值小B去大抽獎?

(2) 明白你對kentvillie 及st cath 的 points. thanks!

仲有冇其他差唔多程度(又不太貴)的推介? 有朋友推介Victoria (CWB), 但己知你對Victoria 的comment, therefore not ask again la :lol:

(3) 幫朋友問"聖保羅堂kindergarden"; she at first wants to send her son to 聖公會kindergarden but her son did not say a word at the interview...so not being accepted...she is not so happy with the result-聖保羅堂kindergarden

what is yr 專家comment on these 2? Her son also accepted by 中區迦南kindergarden

(4) 你講過坊間有一些for music as good as Tom lee, would you pls recommend?

(5) how about 博藝堂 for drawing? any similar level recommendations?

(3), (4), (5) for my friends with kids at 3 and 4 yrs old.

many many thanks!

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twg:

先答 some quick answers here ...

eg ymca, rsc ---> ok 嗎? how's the quality? do u know? any other suggestion?
==>依家佢仲細, 玩下無妨丫....at this stage 我對 course design ar, teacher's quality ar gum 唔會有太大要求, 因為 our objective 應係以 "建立小朋友對個項活動既興趣" 多過 "要佢識一樣野" , 所以去呢d club ar, YMCA ar 都無乜所謂....K2 打後先再 change 個 training plan 都未遲.

請問你有無聽過'香港童聲合唱團'?
==> 有, 不過 no comment 因為我唔識d媽咪有小朋友響個樹唱, 我大彥係唱香兒的. 但..意見同上, 小朋友咁細, 去邊其實佢都未識, 係阿媽識 only je....對佢係冇分別的.

學 voilin/ piano 3.5 yr ok 嗎? or 4 yr 會好 d?
==> 唔好, 太細, 你有睇開我 message 我已經常常在講....好多野唔急得既, even 個小朋友肯做, 都唔等於佢會 absorb 得好, 好多時係 "fing 錢落海" only, but of course, 若你以 "好過俾佢響屋企樹遊手好閒" 為出發點既話, 我又唔可以話你想佢早學野呢個 decision 唔岩, 之不過, if 純粹唔想佢係屋企無無聊既話, 咁不如去d平平地既 playgroup 算了, 何需 spend too much at this stage 去買琴書, 買樂器, 俾成 $1xx for 30 mins only???

我依家二仔都係剛學 piano only. 我睇左佢兩堂, 都覺佢唔多得呀 (坐唔定, 唔專心, so I really wonder 佢上個 45 mins 有冇記得 10 mins 既野

) 其實都幾 waste $$$.

我知香兒 4yr 至收 --> 會唔會好難考?
==>係好多人考, 難唔難就唔知, 因為人人入去都係唱隻歌, 再者, 要入既, 呵呵....我大彥當年考三次都考唔到, 結果阿媽咪又係出屎橋咪又入到囉....所以都係個句 "世上無難事, 只怕有心人" only 既 je.

我大仔已經唔跟工人
==> somehow 呢句有d問題, 睇落依家你地係俾仔仔做左"主導", 佢係"莊", 你地係"閒"噃...

, at this point 我既睇法有d唔同, 某程度上我唔反對要"尊重"小朋友既喜好, 但...因為佢地既知識同經驗有限, 有好多野佢地根本未識分對錯, 所以要由大人做發球先岩, 而唔係俾佢 take control of 大人, somehow 我唔會容許我d仔仔咁樣 (e.g. 唔聽話, 發脾氣), 可能有人覺得我會幾 discipline, 我認架, e.g.你話佢會曳搞住表哥, 若我個仔係咁, 我一早已經會 stop 佢, 要佢坐定, 唔聽就打手板, 佢喊我就由佢, 要佢入房睇書, 俾玩具佢, etc, 但就一定要佢知, 佢要守規矩, 佢一搞人我就會制止佢, 等佢 learn to be controlled, 唔係的話, 咪成家人俾佢搞到 tum tum 轉...點可以本末倒置架...話佢個刻係肉赤架, 但依家唔幫佢, 唔通第日等老師同我 complain 佢搞人, 打人我先做...?? 大個點搞???

所以我就 X 機比佢學嘢, 等佢有d嘢fill up個pm
==> 你用咁去 stop his -ve behaviour 係消極做法 only, 需知道, 守規, 尊重別人 etc 呢d values 就係大人要去教, 唔係因為佢反斗, 就放佢去第二樹旨在 dum 佢波鐘就以為冇事, 咁既出發點唔多正確, 因為當小朋友都唔係 learn 到點先叫 respect (即係人地講野要聽, 唔得搞人 etc) 而去學野, then even 佢去到 interest class, 車.....咪至多唔搞表哥, 搞第二個小朋友之嘛, so 問題既核心根本冇改變過, 咁冇用架喎~~

俾我, 我會寧願授權多少少個 bunbun 去 control 佢, e.g. 可以凶下個小朋友 (when he is naughty) 等佢知, 咪以為媽咪唔係樹, 阿婆好蝦就曳曳 etc...個工人靠唔住就揾個另一個, etc...some ways like this (or 自己都要同佢講多d) 咁問題先可以解決到, otherwise 佢始終都係 learn 唔到 how to behave properly.

分享一個 e.g. to you ar...

我d 仔d堂哥堂姊, when 一家人 meet 哂一齊食飯, 佢個d堂兄弟妹就二話不說, 一定要放杯 coke together 去食飯.....最慘係連佢地 parents 都主動拎埋汽水倒埋俾d細路, 又開住個 TV 送飯, 初頭佢地想 tsum 埋比我d仔, 我二話說就話"唔好, 我地食完飯先飲的, 唔想一啖飯一啖汽水" (in fact 平時我根本好少俾汽水佢地飲, 係好似呢d 大家一齊開開心心咁個d 我就由佢地飲少少, 但都唔會俾佢地壞左d規矩, 又飯又汽水)

初時兩個仔見人地有得飲, 自己冇份就扁哂咀, 我就同佢地講, 食飯係正餐, 一定係做完一樣野先另一樣, 而且汽水糖份高, 唔可以飲太多, 我至多只係比佢地食完飯飲一少杯 and that's all. 最初一次扁咀, 仲問點解人地阿媽俾佢地飲既?

我就答, 人地點做我地唔可以控制同改變, 但自己想點就絕對掌握係自己手上, 唔係人地點我就要點的, 要諗下乜係應該乜係唔應該, 人俾汽水你唔代表就要要, 唔應該既就禮貌同人 say "no, thank you" 個主動權係響自己樹, 唔係見人叫就一定要去做的, 要自己分析下先做架嘛....

我知佢地有時細未必完全明我講乜, 但我知佢地見我好 serious 咁同佢地講就知阿媽唔係講笑, so 久而久之, 佢地唔會扭要汽水, 唔係因為怕我, 而係好多野係 build up, 佢地唔會去問人攞汽水, 依家就算有個細路係佢面前飲起碼佢地唔會恨先喇...因為汽水只係一個 media to train, how to resist temptation 呢個係一個好大既課題, 仲有, 唔好同人比較 (人地有點解我冇?) 又係一個大難題...so far 依家佢地叫做仲得, 將來唔知, 唯有 continue to 灌輸, cos 我緊張既唔係一罐汽水, 而係好多將來面對既引誘喇...

So 較積極既做法係要 train 佢自己有自制能力, 唔係去逃避哇...

因此, 學野唔係唔得, 但就好似我上面講, 你咁係治標唔治本 only, 盞第日佢仲難改...要小心.

最後, even 你俾堂佢上, 唔好 focus 上d 學術既野 (even music ar gum) 試下去上d soft skills training (e.g. 情緒控制, 專注力訓練呢類) 等佢多d同小朋友去接觸, 亦有導師可以多協助去糾正佢一d行為上既毛病, 咁會仲有用.

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阿笨與阿占:

hihi....想先問..."阿笨與阿占" 係咪即係 Tom & Jerry ar???

啓思小學附屬幼稚園及基督教臻美秀華幼稚園, 已收小囡入讀本年k1。想問應如何選擇呢?
==> 若揀得啟思, 唔上佢小學就唔多好, 因為佢地係 consistently 以活動教學既模式上課的, 去一般傳統小學的話開頭都會要追得幾緊.

so it depends 你小學路想點舖喇...if 啟小都岩你既, then of course pick their KGs 了.

基督教臻美秀華幼稚園雖然都話係活動教學幼稚園, 但好多幼稚園都係"話"活動 only, but not really what you think about 活動喇...(都係係張 chair 活動 only), 啟思 so far 辦學多年, 對活動教學已相當有經驗, 亦 consistently 做緊, whereas 後者係新辦, 成績尚有待觀察, 因此, 若你要"活動教學" 為選校首要條件的話, 我會揀啟思.

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彥彥媽咪,

hihi...首先多謝你的回覆, 我而家都仲考慮緊揀邊間. 因啓小太貴啦(呢個係主要因素).

另回覆你, 我唔係Tom & Jerry!!

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yf:

咁其實我應該做d咩呢? 蔕佢去學野? join playgroup?
==>唔答你呀, 又唔溫書, 我講過 before 喇.... :-( :-(

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彥彥媽咪﹐
想請教...
小兒只得15分 :-( 小一校網 net 11﹐你心水有無邊間好 ﹖大抽獎機會大d ﹖

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Paulmom:

Sorry for not replying immediately, cos I need to do some research about these two schools before I could share my view here.

Before you make any decisions as to stay or leave YMCA, I would say you need to consider:

1) What is your objectives to put the kids in these English class?

2) What kind of results you wanna see after course completion? e.g. can speak English? Answer in complete sentence?

3) Are there other alternatives that may achieve the same result with less resources (e.g. $$, travel time, etc)?

All these questions will affect your choice and how you gonna plan for the kid.

For me, if I am talking about "having a fun English environment" , then YMCA would be good enough.

For letterland and Jollyphonics, both schools sound the same in my eyes. FYI, PC will teach kids phonics already, so you mean you wanna train the kid with the same thing after school? I dun think we need to do the same thing at the same time, you may consider to send the kid to learn English in other areas, e.g. speaking, comprehension, etc

Yet it's no harm for you to go for this as long as the schools are located near your home, with reasonable prices, etc... For these classes, I would say normally they should not exceed $150 per hour for kids at such a junior level. Cos if the price is higher than this, I would be quite detailed to look at their course content and teacher's quality.

I would rather suggest you to hang around with YMCA for a while and when the kid reaches 5+, then think about some "higher" level stuff, e.g. Cambridge English, Phonetics, etc..

In my case, Henry (my elder son), he is OK in terms of communicating in English, but I need to drill him on phonetics (a formal system of pronounciation) as well as the thinking ability (help him to write better, not just one sentence, but be a bit more descriptive when he writes) rather than just knowing the grammar...cos it's useless that you could only "know" something, but nobody could understand you if you can't present yourself logically, and he will run out of words very soon if he can't organise his thoughts properly, this is a pre-requisite to learn language as well.

Books ==> Those books talking about "pronunciation", "writing" would be a good choice.

I bought a series of "Ladybird Phonics" (something like that, can't remember exactly the name, produced by Longman group, that one is quite OK ar..

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彥彥媽咪,

多謝你咁忙都抽時間答我哋...

(1) Ｂ爸爸母校是基顯(ngau tau kok) primary ...喂...喂...喂....中學??!! 依家係講緊考小學噃....parents 中學係邊間都冇用架喎.....係小學校友個d先計分架咋喎...

sorry...太想知有冇機攞多D分, 所以問咗條冇經大腦的問題

咁你覺得聖公會基顯(ngau tau kok) 小學好唔好? 值唔值小B去大抽獎?

(2) 明白你對kentvillie 及st cath 的 points. thanks!

仲有冇其他差唔多程度(又不太貴)的推介? 有朋友推介Victoria (CWB), 但己知你對Victoria 的comment, therefore not ask again la

(3) 幫朋友問"聖保羅堂kindergarden"; she at first wants to send her son to 聖公會kindergarden but her son did not say a word at the interview...so not being accepted...she is not so happy with the result-聖保羅堂kindergarden

what is yr 專家comment on these 2? Her son also accepted by 中區迦南kindergarden

(4) 你講過坊間有一些for music as good as Tom lee, would you pls recommend?

(5) how about 博藝堂 for drawing? any similar level recommendations?

(3), (4), (5) for my friends with kids at 3 and 4 yrs old.

many many thanks!

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kamanip:

ar..yes...yes...爭d漏左你添....喂...不過咪又 paste 嘛 (咁 (cos 好長嘛, hehe :mrgreen:)....提下我呢個老媽媽就咪得囉.....

咁你覺得聖公會基顯(ngau tau kok) 小學好唔好? 值唔值小B去大抽獎?
==> 若去得搞珠既, 大家 chance 面相若, 我一定搏間超級 Band 1 了, 反正都係抽之嘛...right?

基顯我冇 info, which means 冇乜收過佢好同唔好既野, 即係應唔算係好 hot 既 school, so I guess 1st round 都可以入到了???

仲有冇其他差唔多程度(又不太貴)的推介?
==>你問邊區先? Based on 你問 Victoria (CWB), so 你想問番附近個d...?? 有朋友既囡讀過中環個間"聖公會幼稚園", 話都 OK..so you wanna consider this? 唔嫌遠d, 可以考慮北角間循道衛理幼稚園.

she is not so happy with the result-聖保羅堂kindergarden
==> what do you mean by "not so happy with the result"?? 即係唔想去讀..?? 我有朋友又正係俾個仔讀呢間 bor (係咪近 HKU 個間)..?? 其實幼稚園真係唔係太大 difference la...最重要係睇下d環境呀, 老師親唔親切呀, 咁為主 je, so in this case, most KGs could fulfill such criteria la...it's just that 你話 St Paul Church 考小學有冇特別優勢的話, 咁就係一般囉.

Her son also accepted by 中區迦南kindergarden
==> 唔....一向有睇開我 message 既媽咪會知我對一d 丈商營既幼稚園會有d保留, 咁當然唔係話一定唔好, 而係質素都可以幾參差, so 你可以試下 follow 我前某板有講個揀幼稚園要留意既野啦 (精華區都有) ...要溫書呀...

(4) 你講過坊間有一些for music as good as Tom lee, would you pls recommend?
==> you mean music course? 你係指樂器定係音樂 training? 後者可以早d上都得既 (e.g. 3+), 但學樂器就建議 at least 4+ or even older (e.g. 6+) 都得...追得上的.

==> 可以上下 Tom Lee, 柏斯個d 喇..不過我知要排長隊, 仲幾貴添...for 我, 我就冇俾d仔去既, 但你亦可以試下先去d非牟利團體 (e.g. HKCS, YMCA etc) 搞個d 平平地既音樂班, 乖機睇下個仔 likey or attentive enough or not 先再 commit 一d 較貴既課程喇...唔係一陣佢玩兩玩唔 likey, then waste $$$ ar...

(5) how about 博藝堂 for drawing? any similar level recommendations?
==> drawing 度度都有啦, 依家個細路先得個幾歲, 唔駛要揾d 有"招牌" 既學校既, 因為你都未發掘到佢既 real interest and motivation 響邊瓣, 除非間學校就響正你樓下, othewise 我又睇唔到 why 要山長水遠去某學校學喇...因為我相信你都會明, 有親名氣個d學校一d收得貴d, 但咁唔代表佢會好d, 因為我地俾既錢係去左個 goodwill 樹 only (+ promotion)

(3), (4), (5) for my friends with kids at 3 and 4 yrs old.
==> 4+ 先啦, 3 歲幾冇乜 choice only la...no hurry wor...

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Re: 彥媽與你:BB 讀書/學習交流站 (答問區)

彥彥媽咪,

多謝解答!

不過咪又 paste 嘛 (咁 (cos 好長嘛, hehe )....提下我呢個老媽媽就咪得囉.....

K==> 咁我下次提你呢? 怕唔好意思嘛!

仲有冇其他差唔多程度(又不太貴)的推介?
==>你問邊區先? Based on 你問 Victoria (CWB), so 你想問番附近個d...?? 有朋友既囡讀過中環個間"聖公會幼稚園", 話都 OK..so you wanna consider this? 唔嫌遠d, 可以考慮北角間循道衛理幼稚園.

K==> 住得TKO, 就度度都差唔多遠, 所以請介紹"其他差唔多程度(st cath/kenvillie)(又不太貴)的推介" 九龍至kowloon tong...(TKO mtr line); 香港至中區, 其實北角最近添(北角 to tko mtr only need 20mins) ...

"聖公會幼稚園"-又喺蛇餅另一推介....

thank you!

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