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飲得太多水會影響結果, 5wks 真係好細, 如果你遲jor數天排卵, 而家可能未到5wks le...

我好希望你今次得ar....

原文章由 pigpiglau 於 07-12-15 01:27 發表
小BOn, galic, Julibe, 知道你們的情況，心裡很難過。願神帶我們度過這難關，重新得力！

各位姊妹，今天的經歷叫我再次感受到一定要放手給神帶領。至今為5 weeks, 這裏的recurrent miscarriage clinic ( public in here an ...

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小bon & galic,

知道你們的消息,心裏很難過,有時就是不明白,希望神安慰你們,為你們有更好的預備。

galic,

哈拿小組有位組員grace知道你的情況,她想給你寄點東西,可否pm你的地址給我,然後我轉交給她。

pigpiglau,

現在只是5week,應該未有咁快看到的,而且你的cycle都不是很穩定嗰隻,再看看,不要擔心,stay positive(盡量)

gracewong,

工作固然繁忙,也要小心身體。

lic9,

我都想來探你,不過12月是勁忙的日子,希望找到一天過來看你。

yimyee,

你情況如何?盡量不要太緊張啊!

各位:

這幾天都很奇怪,keep住有分泌,但d仔又好淺,溫度徘徊於低、中溫,每天都以為當日是排卵。我記得第一天發現有分泌時,和老公立刻做功課,點知搞唔掂,第二日諗住補飛,點知我又夜歸,第三日趁還有少許分泌,作最後努力,第四日,即今日,還是有分泌,怪怪的。不過現在回想以前後生的日子,好似分泌都keep住有一個星期的時間,可能身體正回復以前的狀態吧!這樣想會開心d。

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小bon & galic,

睇到你們分享，也很無奈。願神親自安慰你們。亦讓你們的丈夫能一起面對、成長。

pigpiglau,

我之前都係咁，用TESTER驗，要隔好耐 (成20-30MIN)先見到條好淺好淺的線。今日我小Ｂ都47 DAY喇﹗放鬆、放手﹗

YIMYEE, 唔好咁心急啦﹗試下唔TEST，等星期一啦﹗

VENUS﹕隨時搵我啦﹗我27/12返工喇﹗^_^

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謝謝大家的安慰及鼓勵! 好warm ar!

小Bon, 我之前小產，Dr都不advice刮宮，這邊Dr手法較為溫婉 (right word??)。 (not aggressive at all), 我1st次小產因bleeding 太誇，所以自己要求刮宮。如果scan 到流得很清 & no pain 就不要刮宮了。

YeeYim, thx for your words too. I still getting this faint positive. Not sure what to expect too. Dr. here didn't give me HCG test, I asked but they think it is not necessary. (very lay back I guess). Praying that we both have good news in the coming days. Will you return to the hospital to check shortly?

Galic, 我feel the same actually. 這個信心功課真的很難呢。我感到我們都會有孩子，it is only a matter of timing. 祂有一個different timing properly & thx again for your words.

Julibe, Judith07, 在神內，大家一起努力!

Grace, 保重身體呀!

Venus 有分泌 is good signs ar. how's your cycle? Any improvement? Do you have heavy period? 繼續努力 ar, praying for you.

Kelly, second Lic9 said, you are growing up in Lord.

Manwah, hope to hear your update again. Wish you all the best !

Lic9, 謝謝你的鼓勵，feel really very warm ar。

[ 本文章最後由 pigpiglau 於 07-12-15 21:18 編輯 ]

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pigpiglau
thinking & praying for u . May God's peace be with u .
:-P

venus,
pray for u too. pray for u can relax and relax .

lic9
miss u much. wah. time files and u back to work soon. any more photos of your lovely daughter?

原文章由 pigpiglau 於 07-12-15 21:16 發表
謝謝大家的安慰及鼓勵! 好warm ar!

小Bon, 我之前小產，Dr都不advice刮宮，這邊Dr手法較為溫婉 (right word??)。 (not aggressive at all), 我1st次小產因bleeding 太誇，所以自己要求刮宮。如果scan 到流得很清 & no pai ...

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regarding myself, i've quite enjoy "3 people world" recently. we went to have japanese "all u can eat" last night. eventhough it's quite tiring to take care my son, i just know i still need to put more effort on it.
of coz i 'm expecting one more bb if God allow, but i will not that concern the timing now. or even God didn't allow, i 'm happy to accept.
i'm not thinking how to arrange my son's activities (esp. Sat) , so that i will not that exhausted. pls pray for me to have wisdom. :mrgreen:

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yes, I'm thinking the same way. In the coming months, I will go to 沖繩 during chines new year, and Tokyo during Easter with my husband to enjoy 2 people world.

Unless God allows and guide me in the world, I won't try ET for my frozen embryoes. I hope he will find the suitable time and suitable embryoes for me. May be he will make miracle on me by not using any "human" method.

I pray every nite for his guidance, it's a very heavy "bag" for me to carry. Actually, I felt that I started learning this before my ivf this time, that's why I'm not that sad compared with my miscarriages before. But I have to learn deep on this homework.

原文章由 Kellyaugust2004 於 07-12-15 22:47 發表
regarding myself, i've quite enjoy "3 people world" recently. we went to have japanese "all u can eat" last night. eventhough it's quite tiring to take care my son, i just know i still need to put mo ...

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pigpiglau,

今日係day23,我用d仔,有淺下線,由於昨晚沒有check,唔知lh高峰已過,還是未出現,可以的話,希望可以再補飛。

我今日問過一個女同事,原來我的推斷應該沒錯,她說她每月都有幾天有分泌的,而不是只有一天分泌,我估我的身體正回復正常,竟然有4天分泌。

各位排卵有障礙/pcos的姊妹,不知你們有沒有我這個情況,有分泌的第三日,我發現我竟然有想做功課的感覺,這是以往沒有的,相反,這幾年想做功課的日子,竟是m的首一、兩天。而我問過一些有pcos的姊妹,她們想做功課的日子跟我一樣的,你們是不是呢?

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各位姊妹:

之前提過有個細我好多既未婚親戚(係好close個類親戚)同我同期懷孕，現在已18w，下月會結婚。10月中小產後至現在已2個月，我昨日d post 亦提過我的心情已回復，亦已願意同其他人承認自己曾經小產，面對這個親戚時我亦已沒有傷感的感覺，更協助她籌備婚事。

今晚(即星期六晚)我既家族有family gathering，我一如平常有參加，我老公有事做所以沒有陪我去。完結後，我媽媽爸爸與我一起回家(因他們住我附近)，回到家中，我媽媽突然向我講，原來與我同期懷孕既未婚親戚的預產期巧恰同我一樣是5月尾某一日(如果我沒有小產的話)，而且她已開始有胎動的感覺。個一刻，我好像被針剌向傷口一樣，很痛，痛得難以形容，我立刻(用有點失控既語氣)借其他話題向我媽媽發咗很大脾氣，因為我唔想他們知道我仍因小產的事唔開心！

之後我十分後悔，亦很生自己的氣，點解會咁樣對媽媽，點解仲咁介懷小產既事，"mug" 我唔係已經釋懷了嗎？

神要我經歷的事一定是在祂計劃之內，但這次考驗真的很大: 9月中發現有咗bb好開心，10月中bb無咗心跳要做手術，手術後2星期我好close 兼好young既未婚親戚無意發現有咗，週數同我差不多，今晚我知道佢既預產期巧恰同我一樣是5月尾某一日(如果我沒有小產的話)............仲有5個月佢先生bb，我還要經歷幾多既突然情緒波動呢？......有時我覺得對我真的好殘忍:-( ！

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Hi Julibe, I remember I had very similar experience as you did there. When I got pg (2nd time after my 1st miscarriage), my best friend also got pg. And when she keeping me inform about her status, pregnancy symptons, due date, etc..... I did try to act normal. And after her baby was born, I had another miscarriage. So when she asked me to visit her, I actually felt that i wasn't willing to pay that visit. (we live in different countries). I thought I was totally over it too, but I wasn't. But since we paid the visit, and face my problem, keep praying about it, and there I found my peace. I really think it is just normal that you feel that way. And time will heal, and God will do the rest, and the best for you. Praying for you.

原文章由 Julibe 於 07-12-16 02:07 發表
各位姊妹:

之前提過有個細我好多既未婚親戚(係好close個類親戚)同我同期懷孕，現在已18w，下月會結婚。10月中小產後至現在已2個月，我昨日d post 亦提過我的心情已回復，亦已願意同其他人承認自己曾經小產，面對這個親戚時我 ...

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Honestly, I feel peace and I can treat my miscarriage as nothing when I'm at home or if I meet someone without babies.

Yesterday, a friend knew me I got miscarriage and asked me to play with her baby boy if I'm free. I didn't response her, I dun want to think about babies or go to their home and see how warm the family she has.

A stupid thing is I dreamed that my best friend got a 3-month old son and brought him to HK. When I visited her, I didn't want to touch her baby and leave.

These show that though I can be brave in front of others, I'm weak again when I know someone who is lucky and smooth to have babies. But I can't stop people having babies, at the same time, I dun want to remember my unhappiness past when seeing them. It affects my social life. I'm afraid people ask me when I'm going to have one. I know the relatives must ask me during Chinese New Year, as most of them dunno I have problem and miscarried so many times. I can tell them I plan it later, but I'm afraid I can't control my tears when they ask me.

In the past, I can comfort myself that I had so many obstacles, may be God will give me twins/ 龍鳳胎 to compensate me....haha....but now, from what the dr said my situation, even the chance to have half child is difficult.

ai...we need time to adjust our emotion. I have to learn to wash away my jealous thought too. It's very very difficult.

原文章由 Julibe 於 07-12-16 02:07 發表
各位姊妹:

之前提過有個細我好多既未婚親戚(係好close個類親戚)同我同期懷孕，現在已18w，下月會結婚。10月中小產後至現在已2個月，我昨日d post 亦提過我的心情已回復，亦已願意同其他人承認自己曾經小產，面對這個親戚時我 ...

[ 本文章最後由 galic 於 07-12-16 11:00 編輯 ]

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pigpiglau & galic,

thanks for ur sharing! you let me know i'm not the only one to encounter such experience.

以為昨晚的事已告一段落..........點知

........今日午飯時係酒樓我媽媽又再次挑起我心底的痛楚 :cry:......?????????

今天中午，我 & 老公同我媽媽爸爸及兩個未婚的弟弟飲茶，席間有人睇到今日報紙講因今年既生仔潮影響下，公立醫院的bb icu 既 occupancy rate over 150%，因c+醫院係沒有 bb icu 的，如c+醫院既 new born bb 有問題，為咗安全起見通常會transfer to 公立醫院；講到呢一度，我媽媽又突然對我說：

「其實係c+醫院生仔都唔係一定最好(因為我之前係c+做產檢及刮宮手術，沒有選擇公立醫院)，你睇下 xx (與我同期懷孕既未婚親戚)，佢有咗都唔知，知道咗又無你咁緊張即刻要搵c+ check 住，人地都係排政府醫院及健康院檢查咋，邊有你可以check得咁密，我生你個時都係排政府，邊有好似你咁成日check 住bb睇下有無心跳，你睇下 xx 都無你攪咁多嘢，咪又係無事，人地個bb而家都有成5個月啦，都話唔駛咁大陣像，攪 lee 樣又攪個樣，你地 lee 代搵到錢既後生實在太緊張 la！」........跟著我媽媽繼續係咁講 xx 既懷孕日誌，又話 xx 同佢講唔想 bb 似她未婚夫個邊 d 親戚，因為唔靚...........我一路都有比正常反應我媽媽，因為我唔想大家知道我唔開心而去避忌唔講 xx ....我媽媽係咁講......直至我爸爸都頂唔順叫佢唔好再講，上述既話題先告一段落！

我有諗過同屋企人講可唔可以儘量唔好講咁多關 xx 既事，但我知實際情況係唔可行，因為我地兩家人實在太close，我媽媽飲茶後又已經約咗 xx 既父母去街，仲有其他親戚呢？唔通我又要求佢地都唔好提咩！.................我絕對唔想因為我而影響其他人！由其所有人都已經以為我完全無晒事(除咗我老公外):-( ！我可以想像到 xx 既 bb 出世後，以我媽媽既性格，她會一路(定時定候)同我講如果我唔係小產，我既 bb / 細路都有 xx 果個咁大 law！

究竟神要我係 lee 件事上還要學習什麼呢？

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Julibe
don't know what to say. will pray for u as i know it's very difficult to face. i still will ask God will He give me one more child. eventhough i know i can't control anything, i will still think when can try again naturally, and if still fail, whether should go to ivf again. ... but ...
for now, i know i should just live what God like me to do. this is the reason i live on this earth ...

pigpiglau, galic
pray for u too. Hope God speak to us and guide our road.

原文章由 Julibe 於 07-12-16 15:56 發表
pigpiglau & galic,

thanks for ur sharing! you let me know i'm not the only one to encounter such experience.

以為昨晚的事已告一段落..........點知 ........今日午飯時係酒樓我媽媽又再次挑起我心底 ...

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原文章由 YimYee 於 07-12-13 16:20 發表
Hi pigpiglau,

I am soooooo happy to hear your good news, can I give you a kiss.... God has his plan, 就像耶穌回來一樣, 像賊一樣, 沒有人知道何時來的.

YimYee,

Didn't see u lately? How are u doing?
When will u do the test.

All the best,

Ruby06

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I will be angry also if I heard such things, but we need to learn to have 忍耐.

Julibe, how about this...this incident may 激發你努力調理身體, 用最好的狀態來迎接下一次. 話唔定你個親戚未生你又已經有jor la bor

有時都覺得奇怪, 神唔鼓吹婚前性行為, 但我生邊也有親戚未婚懷孕, 2個月時又發燒, 又瘦,但都陀得咁順理..another 親戚, 高齡的了almost 40, 又有depression, 長期食藥看精神科, 點知因為買了一個不出名又減價的condom, 就意外有了. bb仲very healthy, now almost 3 yrs old....anyway, 我以前未信主時也做了很多不合神心意的事, 神也沒有懲罰我, 我不應再jealous & 覺不fair...

自細好多野都順理, 無咩風浪....自從第3次小產後, 我開始覺得人的力量做不到什麼, 開始再依靠主..雖然這條路很崎嶇亦再次小產, 我不像從前那樣傷心, 內心的平安也多了,這更加比我覺得有神的扶持, 安慰,

只是我還有很多野要學, 始終我還是像你一樣很怕聽到別人講誰人有了bb...誰人生了bb

原文章由 Julibe 於 07-12-16 15:56 發表
pigpiglau & galic,

thanks for ur sharing! you let me know i'm not the only one to encounter such experience.

以為昨晚的事已告一段落..........點知 ........今日午飯時係酒樓我媽媽又再次挑起我心底 ...

[ 本文章最後由 galic 於 07-12-16 22:08 編輯 ]

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啱啱去完99度食飯，見到姑9既兩個囡囡時，真係好羨慕。

我同咗老公講， lee 兩日聽到我媽媽講既嘢好唔開心，好難受，個心好痛；而我老公就同我講，點解要唔開心，別人有咗bb係人地既事，同我小產有 "mug" 關係？佢仲話有大把人同我預產期一樣，我既未婚親戚只是其中一個，當中既分別只是我認識佢，我老公話做人一定要睇開d，每人都有自己既際遇，傷心係可以但唔可以好似我咁比情緒牽著走，佢叫我記住世上仲有好多人係生命既邊緣努力緊，相對地發生係我身上既事真係微不足道！

我問我老公點解佢可以緊冷靜，好似無發生任何事咁樣，始終佢都係bb既爸爸，佢同我講係知道bb無咗心跳個刻佢都好唔開心，之後佢好快就無事，因為佢知道我地仲有好長既路要行，就算點樣唔開心bb都唔會返嚟，不如向前望！神自有祂的安排，就算最後我們沒有自己既bb，人生還要繼續下去，沒有bb唔代表沒有神既祝福！

其實我絕對明白以上道理，我自己亦能面對小產既事，接受咗，都無"mug"唔開心，但有時別人某一句說話的而且確觸動到我的傷口，情緒又再被牽起，只怪我學習不到我老公的理性及冷靜！

真係唔好意思用咗咁多遍幅去講我係 lee 兩日發生既事情，其實我真係無咩事，只不過係聽到某一句說話時有d情緒波動，不過我 lee 兩日絕對無喊過架！多謝大家關心！

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發表於 07-12-16 23:14 |只看該作者

julibe,

你不用怪自己的情緒。我在六、七月小產,痛楚過後,去了旅行,以為自己無事,點知d情緒陸續走出來,持續了幾個月,直至現在,有時未必是別人講既說話令自己唔開心,不開心的情緒就是不知甚麼原因會來探我,我有很多不明白,不明白神為何要我經歷這些,經過了半年,我可以告訴你,即使別人沒有跟你說甚麼,你有時就是不明所以的不開心,但神會透過時間醫治你,而這段時間並非只有你自己一人,你身體會有很多小天使來保守、安慰你的。若果真的很不開心,不要自己鬱住,我自己也是一個不想人知道自己不開心的人,亦不懂如何表達自己的感受,但這段時間我就在學習,學習了解自己的感覺,然後講給老公聽,講給身邊的摯友聽,他們是願意聽的,不要抑壓自己的不開心啊!

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發表於 07-12-16 23:25 |只看該作者

你好叻的了, 我從前曾經因為小產而要看心理醫生.

男人始終沒有陀過, 感受唔到bb曾經在我們身上產生的奇想變化, 所以我地係會特別傷心d.....從前小產, 我哭到傻, 老公見我咁, 又哭埋一份.
我唔哭, 佢又無野wor.....哈哈, 比我證明老公是好擔心我地多過懷孕結果...佢可以無jor bb, 但不能無jor快樂的老婆

你老公好理智, 我老公只懂說安慰的說話, 唔識說服我當時的心理障礙..poor..

原文章由 Julibe 於 07-12-16 22:56 發表
啱啱去完99度食飯，見到姑9既兩個囡囡時，真係好羨慕。

我同咗老公講， lee 兩日聽到我媽媽講既嘢好唔開心，好難受，個心好痛；而我老公就同我講，點解要唔開心，別人有咗bb係人地既事，同我小產有 "mug" 關係？佢仲話有大把人同我預產 ...

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發表於 07-12-17 11:30 |只看該作者

好感恩, 我只食了一粒藥就將個胎排了出來, 雖然多血, 但一d都唔痛..

我要感謝神

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