oscarma
if for quit bf, will it be better u go after he finish his dinner. 食飽了會5會無甘想bf 架!?
臨走時,記住同佢講why you have to leave.
my case is like that : back to 99 home on weekdays, bring back on weekend (sleep with us on Sat night only, 仲要唔係每個星期).....but 程程都係好chi 我....everytime when we leave 99 home, she will cry cry cry....好勁果隻,似是骨肉分離甘.心痛死!!
then I consulted a friend, she is 兒童心理expert, she said don't leave bb without telling b why. 要同佢explain why you have to leave. & one more important point is that YOU WILL BE BACK, e.g. 明天再番黎同你玩,mami daddy 要番工,不是去街街而唔帶你去,你要聽話&跟住麻麻.
The above sentence have to repeat many many times, don't think bb don't understand, they KNOW everything. 我會抱住佢講,then when bye bye, will 抱住佢交俾99. 等佢feel grandma will take care her, and I will come back soon......頭一兩天都仲會cry, but later on, day after day, 真係 work. My friend said BB 最怕mug都唔知, 以為你 leave him/her alone.
oscarma
re : BF
to my case, HeiB loves the breastmilk very much, in fact she only eats 3 oz breastmilk during the day time in 99's home now, other times eats biscuits, congee, rice, after office hour, when I arrive in 99's home, HeiB will ask me go into 99's bedroom for BF asap, I think that's call "sum yan", she doesn't feel hungry.