Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...
popeye08 寫道:
Oiluen,
Congratulations! It is nice to hear that you bingo! God bless you!
I took the sick leave from Mar 6 till Mar 31 becuase I lost my little baby at week 9 (Mar 12) due to suddenly no heart beat. It is hard to believe and I can't stop crying at the clinic. I did the operation on Mar 13, we asked the doctor to examine is there any abnormal disease of our baby but the result is normal. After the operation (Mar 13 pm) , I got a high fever till Mar 18. My doctor said may be I have pneumonia but luckily the x-ray and blood test is positive. You know it was so sad again that you went to the hosiptal twice within 1 week. After the 2nd operation, I stayed at home and don't want to eat, talk, think....just slept all the time, almost 20 hours per day. I refused to talk, see anyone...including my parents.
It was so hard to accept the truth at this moment but I think it will become better and better day by day. When my cold is fully recovered, I need to eat the food which is same as the woman delivered their baby. My Chinese "EC" said I am so weak...so weak....may need to take few months to build up a healthy body again.
I will go back to work next Monday and up to the present moment, I still don't want to face / talk with my friends. However, you know it is hard if you refuse to talk with your boss / teammate
Really want to bave a baby soon but it seems my husband is hestiate to have it soon....
:-(
popeye08,
這裡的姊妹絕對明白你的處境及心情, 相信你而家重處於唔開心既狀態, 我地都經歷過, 亦克服了, 而你, 亦一定得。請接受自己有唔開心的時候, 但, 請不要令唔開心得太久, 你要諗d正面野, 通常12週前小產, 係個胎有問題, 所以不是你的錯, 你只要歎與此胎無緣。
我明白出入醫院的心情, 如果你有睇晒呢個thread, 你會知道我那時是如何經歷, 我出入醫院5次, 21週小產, 小產前我的胎是仍然有心跳的, 這令我很不開心, 但, 我覺得我要做的已經做了, 我已經做得很好, 是嗎? 那時的我亦很weak, 流了很多很多血, 輸了兩包血, 血紅素都是不合格, 要食服血藥! 對, 你要好似人地生仔之後咁補, 我坐了月, 跟住看了幾個月中醫, 中醫調理真的很重要...
我小產到而家才5個多月, 身體真的好了, 心情好多了, 剛剛知道bingo, 所以你是有希望的, 希望你能振作, 不開心時多與朋友、家人傾, 如果你覺得暫時未能與他們傾的話, 請上來與我們傾, 我們真的很關心你。
至於你先生, 我諗佢而家太擔心, 你們而家唔好傾生仔既問題先, 而家最緊要攪好身體, 身體唔好乜野都唔得, 係唔係?
希望你唔好怪我長氣, 但我係過來人, 我希望用我來令你們覺得有些微希望, 所以我一直都好努力! 亦希望大家可以o係呢度互相支持、扶持! 繼續努力!
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