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我係人,所以有人性!
電腦用我部,唔係買部腦比佢(set user password).我工人放假出2/3個鐘會番回家.但是下月她妹妹黎hk,可能會遲番.

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原文章由 車.人. 於 08-5-20 15:50 發表
買部腦比女傭用電腦skype/email/msn和家人通電話, 我林佢除左通電外, 好快打買機tim. 我都想叫老板買部腦比我做功課. 避免工人打長途電話就要買部腦, 咁洗唔洗避免工人放假遲番屋企, 比買錢佢搭的士呢?
你夠景係人定 ...

比你笑死我

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原文章由 elaine808e 於 08-5-20 14:11 發表
當身邊朋友話我縱容屋企印印姐姐時, 我唔識反駁佢地
我家姐姐唔識煮餸,清潔屋企唔係100分, 會係我地面前講下電話,
睇書, 每日同亞b一起訓下午覺...有時亞b叫佢玩,佢又會只顧追電視劇唔理佢.
但另一方面,佢會自動波 ...

你請到個甘好既工人,真系放心晒喇!!而我,我都唔識講呀!!我工人對我bb好好,佢好錫佢,但佢就唔會聽你講!
1)我見佢開機洗緊自己衫,甘我咪叫佢之後先洗我地2公婆既衫,之後先洗bb衫(因佢唔肯用手洗)點知我入左toiliet沖完涼出黎,佢就洗左bb既先喇,我咪同佢講 :我剛同你講要洗左我地既先,佢就話 : never mind lah
2)叫佢染完頭髮要洗番乾淨個浴缸,佢話 : no, it's not me, it's yours, i saw the marks after you came out from toilet every morning,大姐呀, 我唔染髮架!!
3)佢初黎時,我仔仔得4個月大,叫佢記底食奶時間,sorry, i forgot,就系甘,頭2個星期系無一日可以記底晒每一餐既時間
4)果晚見佢擰住半籃衫話聽朝洗,我話得果半機喳,唔好洗,點知第二朝,我一出左街就洗左
5)佢做錯野,我同佢講,記住系講無罵過,佢一系就望住我黑面,一系就擰轉面當聽唔到(當然務人鍾意比人話,不過錯起碼都要應下我呱)
6)佢成日同我2公婆講 : it's very difficult in Philippine, not much food to eat, don't waste so much food,叫我地唔好成日買左野唔食又要掉,但佢日頭系屋企將TV長開、toilet2盞燈長開、一星期開8-10機衫(佢未黎時,我地開3-4機)半機又開,1/3機又開,甘叫慳??
7)每次我地帶bb出街,佢話可唔可以唔去,理由系未燙晒衫,我話d衫唔一定要燙晒,我都唔等著
我對工人點 :
我燉燕窩會預埋佢,我一次過會買4-5套衫(已買過2季),晚黑系我2公婆買送煮埋飯比佢食兼留多一份送比佢第二日食。咖啡、麵包兼coffee mate我買埋比佢!
我諗我對工人未到100分都有80分呱,但我無諗過我每日番到屋企發現工人做錯野系連話下講下都唔得囉,樣樣種種就只有自己忍氣吞聲,試過一次好認真同佢講我點解要佢甘做,同埋我個要求,佢就喊喇!

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工人的電話calling card 預付的$50
因為我冇bb,如要她冇偷野,我不會抄.
専幫外傭屈僱主的組織?you should call police!

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原文章由 es0099 於 08-5-20 16:28 發表
hoiyi6695
工人的電話calling card 預付的$50
因為我冇bb,如要她冇偷野,我不會抄.
専幫外傭屈僱主的組織?you should call police!

如果警察是受理的,有很多僱主已經報了警啦,不用你教.

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原文章由 es0099 於 08-5-20 16:16 發表
我係人,所以有人性!
電腦用我部,唔係買部腦比佢(set user password).我工人放假出2/3個鐘會番回家.但是下月她妹妹黎hk,可能會遲番.

我個仔都會入左自己既account, 再改我既password, 人呀人你唔係唔知呀?
電腦咁私人既野, 點可以同人share, 咁同人share條底底有?分別呀? 就算要share我只會同我親人share, 依家電腦用途廣泛, 我屋企4個人, 4部腦, 係避免比人無意睇到自己既野, 就算佢唔係睇你既野, 佢用你部電腦做d犯法既野, 你既IP, 你個頭都幾行.

mouth:

唔明白, 唔明白......

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你個仔入左自己既account, 再改你既password,
bacause your son is main user,can change second user,i know.for my personal(e-banking/photo) i use my notebook,share with her is desktop(other one).thank you warning me,maybe i will be careful about this.

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回覆 #1 bonbon16 的文章

我見你亞b幅相肥嘟嘟, 相信你個工人都好好架喇, 簡單講
1 & 4) 洗衫次序比佢話事喇~唔好因為佢唔obey你呢件事,就唔開心,(因為我唔會睇佢呢d野)
2) 頭髮問題, 如果係發生係我身上, 我會回話: 咁你下次見到就幫我攪掂佢
3) 見到你亞b咁肥, 佢記唔記得寫低都唔重要咯~~
5) 既然你都知你姐姐咁硬頸, 你就唔好用投拆同追殺語氣話佢, 或者如果真係好minor既野, 就放過佢, 只眼開只眼閉喇.. 通常我唔會同佢講今次既問題, 我只會同佢講, 我"想要"下次你要幫我點點點...
6) 我姐姐之前一樣咁, 不過我解釋比佢知我有左亞b就想儲下錢, 叫佢"幫"我係家企可以慳既就慳下,依家佢唔會機機衫用煤氣寶, 去完厠所又會關燈, 有小小改善都要多謝佢架

如我之前講, 我唔會浪費時間搵佢我認為佢唔稱職既小問題, 係唔影響相方底線下,有時我地需要放低一d執著, 如果唔係我收工返屋企無人wellcome back 我架喇~~~

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es0099
I agree with your point!
For me, as an educated person, I will treat my helper nice (even she is good or bad).
However, I will tell her my expectation and my bottom line in the first day when she came.
My ex-bun bun is very lazy...... she don't cook (she say she don't know how to cook even I teach her many times), she don't want to take care my kids (when my kids goes to the living room, she goes inside the bed room ....), selflish (she put her clothes outside the window for sun shine after washing it, and put ours inside the room, she don't iron our clothes but she iron hers everyday).......
My friend visited us and told me it seem that she was our guess.....and we needed to take care of her and cooked for her.
However, I still treated her nice until the last mins. We helped her to take all her belongings (and gave her a red/white/blue) to the agent and drived her there when I fried her.
Then, I employ a yan yan. I treat her nice and she is OK. And lots of my friends say I am good luck to have this helper.
What I believe is:
you treat helper nice => she may not treat you nice
you traat helper bad => she must treat you bad

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My yan yan always tell me don't buy too much food. She teaches me how to save $.......

She treats my kids nice. Sometimes I am angry with my son as he always run around when having meal. I can not feed him (he can eat only half of the rice). However, each time my yan yan can feed him to finish all the rice. Sometimes she teaches me how to feed my son......

原文章由 elaine808e 於 08-5-20 17:35 發表
我見你亞b幅相肥嘟嘟, 相信你個工人都好好架喇, 簡單講
1 & 4) 洗衫次序比佢話事喇~唔好因為佢唔obey你呢件事,就唔開心,(因為我唔會睇佢呢d野)
2) 頭髮問題, 如果係發生係我身上, 我會回話: 咁你下次見到就幫我攪掂 ...

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原文章由 ac321
於 08-5-20 18:10 發表
es0099
I agree with your point!
For me, as an educated person, I will treat my helper nice (even she is good or bad).
However, I will tell her my expectation and my bottom line in the first day when ...

請問你請左個 bun 幾耐之后先炒佢 ?

我個印成日洗佢自已隻鞋 , 可是唔洗我隻鞋 , 有一次叫佢洗 , 佢洗完之后 , 鞋帶都唔除 , 但佢洗佢隻呢 ? 一定除的
哪我叫佢再洗 , 之后洗得好乾淨
有時叫佢地做野 , 要叫幾次的

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原文章由 es0099 於 08-5-20 16:28 發表
hoiyi6695
工人的電話calling card 預付的$50
因為我冇bb,如要她冇偷野,我不會抄.
専幫外傭屈僱主的組織?you should call police!

睇咗咁耐原來你無bb比工人照顧,所以針唔針到肉當然唔知痛!!!:;pppp:
如果你有小朋友,個姐姐煮野佢食,當中你發現6條fish bone,你會點?全是大大條的,唔係絲咁幼o個啲,
另外,三番四次隨便比野佢食,你叫咗唔好,但都當你無到,大佬呀,兩歲炸,有咩事點攪呀?e+啲咩病毒咩細菌咁多,我自問都講過好多次了,佢地係唔鍾意聽,咁我們係度吹下水發洩下唔係過份呀,谷埋谷請到個工人番來谷到有病都唔知為咩!!!!

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ac321
you treat helper nice => she may not treat you nice
you traat helper bad => she must treat you bad
Agree!

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原文章由 elaine808e 於 08-5-20 17:35 發表
我見你亞b幅相肥嘟嘟, 相信你個工人都好好架喇, 簡單講
1 & 4) 洗衫次序比佢話事喇~唔好因為佢唔obey你呢件事,就唔開心,(因為我唔會睇佢呢d野)
2) 頭髮問題, 如果係發生係我身上, 我會回話: 咁你下次見到就幫我攪掂 ...

我當然明喇,我一向既態度只系會同佢講,你下次點、點、點喇,都無用罵呢個語氣,好似琴日甘,我話比佢聽,我放工番到屋企泵奶,你等我泵完,你洗左個玻之後先同其他奶瓶一齊steam喇,因為佢系我未用泵之前就開左機,到我要羅個奶瓶裝住泵出黎既奶時,就燙親我隻手,已經好多次,甘我咪同佢講囉!哈點知琴日講完,啱啱又系甘喇,我咪又同佢講囉,我都未講完,佢就話 : I thought you did not need it!!
我仔仔甘大隻,我唔敢話佢一點功勞都無,不過我依家系要成日系公司睇住過cam,目的系周不時要借d意提下佢比野仔仔食,又或者提下佢煲粥仔,佢系可以成日唔記得既,我執著要佢記時間系因為佢超級無記性,黎左4個幾月仲成日問我仔仔幾大,幾時出世,我都講到口乾喇!!仲有我仔仔超重,但因餵人奶唔使減肥,但飲食要注意,我同佢解釋過好多次,但佢都會自把自為,自己比extra野我仔仔食,我依家系要每晚準備定第二日要煲粥仔既材料比佢,免得佢鍾意點就點!不過我估系因為佢覺得自己有experience,以為我系靚妹,乜都唔識,所以唔聽我講!
我都系打工既,我想老闆尊重我,我自己就要更尊重老闆甚至於所有同事,但番到屋企,我就連講下,工人都唔高興囉,甘唔講比佢知我要乜,甘咪會有誤會囉,但講左,佢又唔聽!!
我叫佢如果哄仔仔訓著就要放系網床度,因佢有成26磅重,仲放系highchair度訓,一來危險,二來仔仔都唔舒服喇,連我老公都解釋比佢知對仔仔既骨唔好,結果佢系當我老公早收工又或者我地系屋企時,佢先會甘做,等我老公之前仲話我,佢話每次佢早收工番到屋企見賓賓哄完仔仔訓著都放佢落網床喎!跟住有幾次我叫老公上網睇下屋企個cam,終如知道佢無甘做,只系做比我老公睇囉!!

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-5-20 18:19 發表
My yan yan always tell me don't buy too much food. She teaches me how to save $.......

She treats my kids nice. Sometimes I am angry with my son as he always run around when having ...

Haha~ She also said to me that I should self-control stop impulsive buying.

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[quote]原文章由 bonbon16 於 08-5-20 19:26 發表

我當然明喇,我一向既態度只系會同佢講,你下次點、點、點喇,都無用罵呢個語氣,好似琴日甘,我話比佢聽,我放工番到屋企泵奶,你等我泵完,你洗左個玻之後先同其他奶瓶一齊steam喇,因為佢系我未請問你幾大呀!我覺得D工人似住自己大過我,所以唔聽我講,自把自為,當我係靚妹,唔尊重我!

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看到這裏的討論,令我想起一件往事

冰天雪地在學校門口等左9個字巴士,心情非常沮喪
同學經過,冇順風車,只好奇笑笑口拋下一句,
「點解要甘愁? 叫你老豆買個車俾妳嘛!」

我唔會話佢天真. 只能說...佢世界無法明白我既世界
而我亦不打算多作解釋,因為問得出這樣的問題
點解釋佢都唔會明.

只能說,大家係2個世界既人.
或者,佢有日落難,我地再詳談也不遲~

執著帶來痛苦、學習放下煩惱

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TO:心朗小B
THAT"S EXACTLY MY POINT. 我覺得千祈唔好好似我以前,好多嘢都係怕唔好意思話佢,同埋因為怕佢對BB唔好,又唔想咁直接話佢,到最後佢只會變本加厲. 我既工人以前都係咁,最鍾意走去自己間房,BB係自己間房瞓覺,佢都唔會偶然去CHECK吓佢,我已經同佢講過可唔可以每半小時去BB間房CHECK吓佢有冇事(例如:嘔奶),佢話佢有咁做,咁我有一日RECORD咗比佢自己睇噃,佢係由我BB瞓,UNTIL佢醒咗,大約係兩個小時,都冇走入去睇吓,咁佢又話自己嗰日唔舒服. 我無駡佢,我只係話我好緊張BB,希望你做好D. 但係呢類事情係差唔多日日發生,去到最後,我已變到好忟,咁我就好直接同佢講我不滿既地方,反而好多嘢好明顯IMPROVE咗. 我諗其實工人都好明白欺善怕惡既道理.

ES0099
我諗如果你覺得我比個工人MOBILE而佢打咗幾千蚊係僱主既問題,重要我比佢用SKYPE!!! 我真係無嘢好講. 我由DAY-1比個MAID電話,我已同佢講個PLAN裡面係有500分鍾,你同你D FRIEND平時講電話絕對夠用,呢個電話我係用嚟聯絡你平時用,你都可以用嚟講私人電話,但超過了MIN我就唔會比,咁佢每一個月都超過,唔係太多,我都會照比,但係又係嗰句,你對佢好,佢又會食住你,跟住就打咗3千蚊,佢嗰個月係打咗差唔多4000分鐘,請問佢用咩時間打呢?我個仔有冇人理呢? 最後咁咪扣佢人工囉,跟住佢又對住你喊,又話冇錢. 請問問題是否我自找呢??? 到最後,我覺得都係要自己湊噃個仔最安心.

我明白你既說話. 你對人好,人對你好既道理,但用在MAID身上,我相信不是人人可以APPLY.

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