I have done the operation 4 days ago,however, I still have little bleeding. Do u know how long it'll be clear normally? My mom have made some fried ginger rice and chicken & red dates soup for me everyday. I'm thinking of seeing Chinese doctor next week.
I'll go back to work next week,however,I think myself is not well prepared psychologically. I still can't sleep at night and find myself very tired. Sometimes I suddenly cry... I'm scared of having miscarriage again. Maybe I'll try again next year.
So glad to see you come up again! Are you feeling better now? Did you finally have the operation done under 全身麻醉? I'm not sure how long the bleeding should be clear but for my case, it takes about 9 days. Do you know any reliable Chinese doctor? I know many BK sisters visit 劉逢吉 but I've never visited him before...
Don't think of the past at the moment. The most important thing is to take good care of yourself and your body. I'm feeling ok and can sleep well at night. I only feel a little bit tired during the daytime. That's why I've taken this Thursday off in order to have 5-day holidays in a row, so that I can have more rest at home.
minnie_queen ,
Thank you for your encouraging. I have the operation done under LA (Local),not 全身麻醉(sorry ! I can't type Chinese without writing pad). I feel a bit pain, but since the operation is only 10-20 mins,so I still can tolerate,and can free from the side effects of 全身麻醉.
Concerning the Chinese doctor,I phone to劉逢吉yesterday to make an appointment,however,the guy said even i have made the appointment,I still have to wait for hours. So I'm still thinking... Most of the BK sisters visiting him because they find difficulties in concieving. Actually it is not my case. I only want to take some herbal medicine which can make my body recover and become stronger. I'm already 35 now......
Oh, you didn't have the operation done under 全身麻醉? I couldn't imagine how painful it would be so I guess even if I had a choice, I would still have chosen 全身麻醉 instead. Can you tell me any side effects from 全身麻醉? I'm a bit worried now...
That's what I think too... seems that 劉逢吉 is good at helping sisters in conceiving babies, which what I want is to fine-tune my body after having the operation. So I'm hesitating whether I should see him or not.
Actually I'm not much younger than you. I'd just turned to 34 a few weeks ago. And tomorrow will be my 1st wedding anniversary. I thought I would have had the baby as my birthday gift & anniverary gift, but too bad this gift didn't stay long... sigh...
Do you think it's very easy to get miscarriage at our age? Seems that we can't avoid to be a 高齡產婦...
Don't worry! The side effects of general anaesthesia are mainly occured right after the operation,such as breathing problem and headaches.
I've it done in gov't hospital and the doctor told me that I could choose local anaesthesia. He said the level of pain is much more less than delivery,as I've born a baby before,it shouldn't be a problem. That's right! I think I 've made a right decision.
Did u have the operation done in private hospital?
Did the doctor put some medicine inside your body to soften the issues few hours before the surgery? The doctor did it to me and said it is a normal practise in gov't hospital through I thought it was unnecessary.
My doctor said to me that female at my age is much more easy to have abortion. However,he said I have to treat it as a single inccident. My child is already 4 yrs old. We planned to have a second one when he was one yrs old. However, my health keep deterioating in this few years. I think the miscarriage is caused by my own health problem. I really don't know when is the right time for next pregnancy.
Actually,I've many friends got miscarriages before the first pregnancy. Don't give up! I hope I can hear good news from u very soon! But for me , maybe I still have to wait.....