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洋房

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發表於 04-9-24 18:08 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

diana
希望你返工之後開心d啦,唔好諗咁多,有好消息記得通知我地.


洋房

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82#
發表於 04-9-24 18:46 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

Diana,
其實我老公都是很唔開心,但男人可能EQ較高,不會輕易表露出來。有BB一事只有我們倆個知,奶奶,自已親戚都未知,這樣屈住好辛苦,所以可以在老公面前喊就盡情喊好了,也要鼓勵他表達自己的情緒。現在最怕的反而是下星期返工,同事問來問去,雖然老闆應承我保密,但事實是我不想再題'小產'這兩個字,一說就忍不住,我想我都會自閉一輪,不過都多謝各位姊妹的支持,這幾天覺得時間好長,唯有上BK才有共鳴和安慰。
Toby2004
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大宅

積分: 1862


83#
發表於 04-9-24 20:59 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

EVERYBODY:

我原先預產期是2005年2月14日,小產後已經過了兩個多月接近3個月, 有時想起好快就到2月14日,個心會好UP吓!會計下自己如果吾係小產已經4個多月啦! :cry:
:lol:


大宅

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84#
發表於 04-9-24 21:23 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

ckp ,
我都係同你一樣, 成日都係度諗, 自己如果吾係小產, 我都已經已經3個半多月了!
我同你的時間都是差不多!



大宅

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85#
發表於 04-9-24 21:46 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

HI! elainelam, 又見你啦!
大家心情都是一樣,我又會驚下次再有bb時,有一樣情況,如果可以保證無事,真係有時想連份工都吾做,真係驚自己工作太累而小產!

你估有冇人無做野, 只是在家都會小產呢?
:lol:


大宅

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86#
發表於 04-9-24 23:34 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....


kyocera,

我同老公初初嚮屋企自己驗到有左時, 佢又係好開心架, 佢仲成日話第時要買咩買咩比我食, 等我補下... 唉! 但可惜... 我做手術前一晚, 我見到我老公沖完涼出黎, 雙眼通紅, 原來佢嚮廁所喊呀!!!!! 我問佢咩事... 其實唔洗講大家都知咩事... 之後我地兩個攬住大喊一場... 原來男人一樣有佢傷心既時候... 只係佢地無講出口... 唔好比太大壓力自己啦, 順其自然, 咁樣成功率都高 d 架!

我都覺得上黎呢度大家同聲同氣, 大家一齊問候同支持下, 個心真係舒服好多...


toby2004,

我有 BB 一事只有我同老公自己知, 反而做完手術後先至同我父母及老爺奶奶講, 因為唔想佢地擔心...

我又係下星期一返工, 好在下星期都有幾日假期, 應該唔太辛苦... 同事既野, 如果多事八卦, 問起咪簡單交待兩句算囉, 而家小產都好平常, 我醫生話 10 個女人陀 BB, 總有 2-3 個係小產, 原因好多都不明, 唔洗奇怪!! 如果唔問起咪當若無其事, 照常工作, 仲好添! 你傻女黎架!! 唔需要為左同事而自閉自己, 無必要咁做呀!


ckp,

你個問題我可以答你呀! 就係我有個朋友係唔洗返工, 全職在家, 照計應該好多時間休息架, 但都係一樣小產, 所以我覺得返唔返工都唔關係既!!





洋房

積分: 128


87#
發表於 04-9-25 12:25 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

我入院個日,原本只有我同老公知咋,點知我老公打電話同我老豆講話我入左醫院,本來亞媽同老豆知都冇問題,唉.....點知我亞媽就同左我2個亞姨講,我做完手術後佢地就黎探我,個時我都唔知同佢地講乜,生仔就話啫,小產有咩講,最慘就係我亞妹竟然帶埋佢男朋友黎探我,攪到我都唔知點好,又唔想係佢地面前喊,忍到我幾辛苦.
我最唔順就係我姑拉,因為佢係最早發現我有左既人,之後我話比佢聽我冇左個bb,佢第一句就話係咪你自己唔要呀,點會無啦啦冇左架,仲問我點解會咁喎,佢都shut shut地,一句安慰我既說話都冇.所以我覺得話比人聽都冇用,只會令自己更唔開心.


大宅

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88#
發表於 04-9-25 12:56 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

Kyocera,
唔好再比自己唔開心, 等3個月後再努力,要開心先至會容易bingo ga. 我自己就在手術後8個月先再開始造人.


大宅

積分: 1126


89#
發表於 04-9-25 16:28 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

ckp,

我估都會有人無做野都會小產的, 因為醫生都解釋不到.

你現在身體如何? 你信不信中醫? 有冇去跟吉叔的藥方去補身(呢度好多人都有跟住煲)? 可以試嗎?


我己來了2次"m" , 等呢兩日d"m" 清乾淨, 我想去看余啟文先生, 看他有什麼suggestion 俾我.
:-P


大宅

積分: 1862


90#
發表於 04-9-26 10:48 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

elainelam:
我都睇緊中醫,打算長期去睇,因為我一向以來都有經痛,中醫話要醫好經痛,同埋水瘤!

不過我覺得水瘤方面好難確定醫好,而經痛來多幾過月就知效果!我個中醫就認為經痛都係對小產有小許影響,所以先解決昵個問題!

昨天,我去睇西醫,又因水瘤問題去睇,因為每月排卵卵巢都會有脹痛的感覺,它不是水瘤,而是胞胞, 會縮小的,它令我好困擾,因為水瘤的脹痛跟排卵的痛沒有分別,平日我都是右邊痛,今次就左邊痛,梗係好驚啦,原來都係排卵而影響, 個個月都去睇醫生,它使我好多錢! 今年只係水瘤都使了5千元!

所以我而家想快d再有bb, 反正都係要睇醫生,不如早d有! 但係而家計一計,如果下個月有, bb出生就會"龍"曆7月份,好像不是太好!

有d 想問下你的意見,因為我老爺,在9月頭中風入了醫院,到而家都不可番屋企,見佢情況都係一般,不是會短期會好番或出院, 而我遲吓有bb會吾會吾係幾好呢!?
:lol:


大宅

積分: 1126


91#
發表於 04-9-26 12:38 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

ckp,

你的水瘤, 看不看到的? 怎樣得知的?我經痛都有少少, 不過我都沒有理.

我冇計bb出生是農曆幾時, 因為我現在覺得有bb很不容易, 所以我不理這些!

你的老爺問題, 你要不要去照顧佢先? 如果要, 當然不是太好啦. 如果唔洗, 我覺得冇關係/


大宅

積分: 1862


92#
發表於 04-9-26 17:37 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

hi elainelam,

它是看不見的, 就係上年覺得有d痛才發現的!如果發現經痛比以往不同就要留意, 因為我上年未發現之前兩個月的月經明顯地痛D同感覺有D不同,當時想看醫生,但過了PERIOD 時不痛了,就忘記了去睇!

我是跟他們兩老一起住,但老爺就算出院, 我都無可能全日照顧佢, 我都有工作要做,而我老公就在大陸做野, 我有4個姑拉,我林呢個問題他們會解決吧!

你都講得對,這都是無關係的! THANKS!
:lol:


洋房

積分: 128


93#
發表於 04-9-27 18:30 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

ckp
我都好想快d生bb,有得生我都唔理係幾多月份,你仲諗咁多.
其實講真一句,如果你真係有左bb,最好去少d醫院,唔係叫你唔理你老爺,醫院好多病毒架,大肚婆去咁多唔係幾好,加上你有咁多個姑拉,佢地都明架啦.

各位
想問你地小產完有冇脫頭髮呀,我有呀,仲好多添呀,有冇得救呀.


大宅

積分: 1109

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94#
發表於 04-9-27 20:11 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....


kyocera,

我又唔覺我小產完有脫頭髮喎! 不過可能我不嬲都係短頭髮, 所以就算脫都唔多覺呱?? 我阿婆以前話食芝麻糊可以助長生髮同令頭髮烏黑, 或者你試下有無效呀!!




複式洋房

積分: 220


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發表於 04-9-28 10:55 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

Dear all,

I have done the operation 4 days ago,however, I still have little bleeding. Do u know how long it'll be clear normally? My mom have made some fried ginger rice and chicken & red dates soup for me everyday. I'm thinking of seeing Chinese doctor next week.

I'll go back to work next week,however,I think myself is not well prepared psychologically. I still can't sleep at night and find myself very tired. Sometimes I suddenly cry... I'm scared of having miscarriage again. Maybe I'll try again next year.




大宅

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發表於 04-9-28 12:15 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....


sallysally,

So glad to see you come up again! Are you feeling better now? Did you finally have the operation done under 全身麻醉? I'm not sure how long the bleeding should be clear but for my case, it takes about 9 days. Do you know any reliable Chinese doctor? I know many BK sisters visit 劉逢吉 but I've never visited him before...

Don't think of the past at the moment. The most important thing is to take good care of yourself and your body. I'm feeling ok and can sleep well at night. I only feel a little bit tired during the daytime. That's why I've taken this Thursday off in order to have 5-day holidays in a row, so that I can have more rest at home.



複式洋房

積分: 220


97#
發表於 04-9-28 13:13 |只看該作者

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minnie_queen ,
Thank you for your encouraging. I have the operation done under LA (Local),not 全身麻醉(sorry ! I can't type Chinese without writing pad). I feel a bit pain, but since the operation is only 10-20 mins,so I still can tolerate,and can free from the side effects of 全身麻醉.
Concerning the Chinese doctor,I phone to劉逢吉yesterday to make an appointment,however,the guy said even i have made the appointment,I still have to wait for hours. So I'm still thinking... Most of the BK sisters visiting him because they find difficulties in concieving. Actually it is not my case. I only want to take some herbal medicine which can make my body recover and become stronger. I'm already 35 now......


大宅

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發表於 04-9-28 14:20 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....


sallysally,

Oh, you didn't have the operation done under 全身麻醉? I couldn't imagine how painful it would be so I guess even if I had a choice, I would still have chosen 全身麻醉 instead. Can you tell me any side effects from 全身麻醉? I'm a bit worried now...

That's what I think too... seems that 劉逢吉 is good at helping sisters in conceiving babies, which what I want is to fine-tune my body after having the operation. So I'm hesitating whether I should see him or not.

Actually I'm not much younger than you. I'd just turned to 34 a few weeks ago. And tomorrow will be my 1st wedding anniversary. I thought I would have had the baby as my birthday gift & anniverary gift, but too bad this gift didn't stay long... sigh...

Do you think it's very easy to get miscarriage at our age? Seems that we can't avoid to be a 高齡產婦...



複式洋房

積分: 220


99#
發表於 04-9-29 10:13 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

minnie_queen ,

Don't worry! The side effects of general anaesthesia are mainly occured right after the operation,such as breathing problem and headaches.

I've it done in gov't hospital and the doctor told me that I could choose local anaesthesia. He said the level of pain is much more less than delivery,as I've born a baby before,it shouldn't be a problem. That's right! I think I 've made a right decision.
Did u have the operation done in private hospital?
Did the doctor put some medicine inside your body to soften the issues few hours before the surgery? The doctor did it to me and said it is a normal practise in gov't hospital through I thought it was unnecessary.

My doctor said to me that female at my age is much more easy to have abortion. However,he said I have to treat it as a single inccident. My child is already 4 yrs old. We planned to have a second one when he was one yrs old. However, my health keep deterioating in this few years. I think the miscarriage is caused by my own health problem. I really don't know when is the right time for next pregnancy.

Actually,I've many friends got miscarriages before the first pregnancy. Don't give up! I hope I can hear good news from u very soon! But for me , maybe I still have to wait.....

Happy anniversary!


子爵府

積分: 10819


100#
發表於 04-10-2 20:12 |只看該作者

Re: 小產後....入來傾傾....

各位媽媽,

你地好勇敢呀,加油呀,努力養好身体先,
D三姑六婆閒言閒語,吾洗理 !!!!!




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